Padiimii:

Thanks so much for helping out a brother.

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Im naive actually because I dont do "player" thing and wont even become a close friend with a lady if I won't be dating her (as in; I have my boundaries so to say).
I dont want someone making me feel I ve used and dumped her (as they quickly say) or I ve broken her heart.
Although this s not my first relationship but I really love her like none..
Things are getting clearer now.
Thanks again boss

Padiimii:
Thank you so much guys.
Without you it wouldn't have been easy pulling off the break up.

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Its now officially over between us and I have more peace of mind after ending it (because it's now clear that it wasn't my fault the relationship didn't work after all)

Nairaland and Nairalanders Una do well o.

Padiimii:

HMMM.... just checked your pic.

would you DM me

Padiimii:
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help.
Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers.
Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman.
When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends.
Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see.
After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love.
Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter)..
I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.

PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here?
EDAKUN EPP ME

Padiimii:

Thanks so much for helping out a brother.

.
Im naive actually because I dont do "player" thing and wont even become a close friend with a lady if I won't be dating her (as in; I have my boundaries so to say).
I dont want someone making me feel I ve used and dumped her (as they quickly say) or I ve broken her heart.
Although this s not my first relationship but I really love her like none..
Things are getting clearer now.
Thanks again boss

Omotayor123:

What exactly is she doing with porn videos. and to think she asks guys for it when she can easily download it. And you are cool with it

whether you leave her or not is your decision just read between the lines...

but I strongly advice you to stop sneaking on your girlfriend. stop checking her socials or conversation. No kill your self with heart attack. plus, doing that can destroy any beautiful relationship.
What you don't know won't kill you.

Padiimii:


TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing.
And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.

That was what really got me confused man.
She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.

Padiimii:


TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing.
And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.

That was what really got me confused man.
She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.

Terryindeed:
Una wicked o, una just dey suggests breakup breakup every and everytime, you said it that's she's a good girl except this Fbk stuff, bro from Man to Man, every girl likes attention especially from someone they don't know, she enjoy the attention and making them like her the more is to play their games. Would you be happy if no guy toast your babe? Cmon chill jor. Have it at the back of your mind that she's yours, and your sef stop going through her Fbk unless you wan kill yourself. The best way to get over it is to discipline yourself. The most important is the kpekus n her loyalty to you. My papa say na when woman dey your house na that time she b your own, when she lives, na another person own.

Padiimii:
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help.
Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers.
Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman.
When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends.
Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see.
After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love.
Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter)..
I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.

PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here?
EDAKUN EPP ME

daewoorazer:
You my friend,

you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen.


Now do d above while u search for a loyal chick


thank me later.


#zanga

Nerul:
Op, warrayu stee waiting for? I mean why the hell would you stay with that kinda unfaithful someone?

Terryindeed:
Una wicked o, una just dey suggests breakup breakup every and everytime, you said it that's she's a good girl except this Fbk stuff, bro from Man to Man, every girl likes attention especially from someone they don't know, she enjoy the attention and making them like her the more is to play their games. Would you be happy if no guy toast your babe? Cmon chill jor. Have it at the back of your mind that she's yours, and your sef stop going through her Fbk unless you wan kill yourself. The best way to get over it is to discipline yourself. The most important is the kpekus n her loyalty to you. My papa say na when woman dey your house na that time she b your own, when she lives, na another person own.

Nerul:
Op, warrayu stee waiting for? I mean why the hell would you stay with that kinda unfaithful someone?