Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by bellotaofeek: 12:37pm On May 25, 2017 |
This your babe na confirm Olosho . You better walk away before she infect you with incurable dieseases ...... 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by badsaint(m): 12:38pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.
PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME
Bros! you gan no know where dem dey download porn ni? If she's into porn that much prolly she's ashamed to ask you, so do her a favor.......in fact, do yourself the biggest favor, download porn and give her to watch. or you have sex and film it. i'll gladly be your cameraman. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by alexpetersng: 12:40pm On May 25, 2017 |
Theyveedo: OP sleep dey my eye oooo
Make day break first Hahahahaha u r crazy mahn |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nerul(f): 12:43pm On May 25, 2017 |
rebirthforgoody:
Madam are you truly faithful because seriously you are talking trash.go to hell and remain there forever na your own go worse pass. Mumu. Judging a lady that is better than you. Looool..Okay ma. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by KingOluwatobi: 12:47pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.
PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME
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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Emeka71(m): 12:51pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.
PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME
You're over-reacting. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Emeka71(m): 12:53pm On May 25, 2017 |
badsaint:
Bros! you gan no know where dem dey download porn ni? If she's into porn that much prolly she's ashamed to ask you, so do her a favor.......in fact, do yourself the biggest favor, download porn and give her to watch. or you have sex and film it. i'll gladly be your cameraman. Nice thought. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by fyneguy: 12:53pm On May 25, 2017 |
praise1705:
savage
PhD level if u ask me wetin u dey find for uncompleted building?@your dp |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Codyt(m): 1:00pm On May 25, 2017 |
fuckerstard: My guy, let me be clear with you on this one your babe is not straight with you since day one. Na you long the whole thing because immediately you got to know she's chatting with lots of nigga online , na then you suppose don take am personal and ask her to stop or you go bounce.
If she's into you, she would gradually cut them off and you would know. But instead you kept cooling like thermocool AC . The porn clips and you still lay low again! Who does that? And na your friend she dey ask for porn clips , she fit dey send to him sef make you no know.
If i were you, the relationship won't make it up to 6mo, you know why because when your babe dey ask another nigga for porn clip she's a or an OLOSHO. When she see say you be baba cool she continues to chat with her online fuckmate and kept requesting for diiccck and god knows what more.
That guy she asked if you know lately, if you check well she fit don bang that guy and asking just to see if she can cover her track. That babe just dey use you cool off after she don go warm up elsewhere.
I always make my woman know when am uncomfortable with her online presence, she can't just be chatting and chatting endlessly and i go keep cool NEVER! I know her phone lock code but i always avoid checking her stuff instead i tell her what I don't want. Chikena
My guy you need not say more. So factual 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by joenor(m): 1:12pm On May 25, 2017 |
My broda been pure here is not the issue, Na everything when shine nine be Gold? Padiimii:
TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing. And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.
That was what really got me confused man. She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:13pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.
PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME
U don't really know what you want man. How on earth cud u condone such nonsense like ur gf asking 4 porn? She is an obvious runs girl soliciting 4 potential customer. U re stooping so low man. ![](/faces/huh.png) |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Category1: 1:21pm On May 25, 2017 |
daewoorazer: You my friend,
you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen.
Now do d above while u search for a loyal chick
thank me later.
#zanga U b true #zanga 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by joenor(m): 1:21pm On May 25, 2017 |
Man, Kindly walk away and for her requesting for a porn video of some guy that tells you how porous she's... Man you can't live with such woman in the house. Let her go. I know it's gonna be hard for you, but... if you can accommodate and not be jealous, then! |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by trinity11(m): 1:24pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii:
TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing. And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.
That was what really got me confused man. She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart. Crying ![](/faces/huh.png) ? hehehe The only potent arsenal that women has been using to emotionally blackmail men since time immemorial. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by praise1705(f): 1:46pm On May 25, 2017 |
fyneguy:
wetin u dey find for uncompleted building?@your dp person snap for toilet u talk, office u talk, shopping mall u talk, inside house u talk, swimming pool u talk Wetin na, pesin canor take pishure again? next one na moon. lol |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Chukazu: 1:54pm On May 25, 2017 |
A woman can have many admirers, but the most important thing is who her heart is with... Interestingly she is very open with you, it has more to do with her self confidence, you need to really sit her down and talk to her.. Talk to her about changing her phone number, that might help.. She seems a honest and sincere girl but has a lot of distractions |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by eflintsone(m): 2:07pm On May 25, 2017 |
girls aint loyal oga ... guys una gat wise up |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 2:13pm On May 25, 2017 |
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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by ammy4goodies(f): 2:14pm On May 25, 2017 |
casted81: op wat are u waiting for.. fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee without even looking back.
d way DAT gal go take brk ur hrt eh... it'll take d whole church of God with help from the police force to calm u down.
lol |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by pawesome(m): 2:17pm On May 25, 2017 |
Waris dis
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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by thunderbabs: 2:18pm On May 25, 2017 |
Guy, dt ur girl will eventually follow backyard to go give her kpekus to ur neighbour if you continue, walahi and i hp u wldnt contemplate suicide or yamutu sombori upon discovery.... |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Marshalxv(m): 2:19pm On May 25, 2017 |
yinkeys: The writing is on the wall, don't let love for her blind you. Either you choose to catch fun with her and nothing else attached OR you forget about her. I think this is the best advice on this. That's how I flow with then ladies,if you're real,I'll play real but if you're fake,I'll just make it fun base,I cannot com and go and be having headache for olosho! u be real nigga my guy. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Maximus85(m): 2:31pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii:
TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing. And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.
That was what really got me confused man. She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart. Bro, for your sake now and for the future, abeg ex this girl sharp sharp. I know girls like this, dem go dey cheat on you korokoro and dem go still dey cry say dem luf you. Na mental problem dem get ooooo. RUN and get a descent girl. Watch yourself too. Cos you attract people like yourself to yourself. I am not sorry to say ooo ....you sef your way no pure. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by SmartyPants(m): 2:56pm On May 25, 2017 |
The girl is not serious but no need to dump her yet. Take what she has to give until you find someone you prefer and then bounce along.
Life is very easy no need to over complicate things with emotions. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Henri8: 3:23pm On May 25, 2017 |
[quote author=Padiimii post=56850491]
TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing. And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.
That was what really got me confused man. She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.[/quote| Guy break the heart and live never to regret. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Decryptor(m): 3:23pm On May 25, 2017 |
firstking01: I don't understand why nairalanders would always create another handle whenever they wanna seek help in their relationships...well, just break up with her for your own good...that's all i gotta say to you. They are usually those mean ones who make noise and bash others but when they run into trouble, they hide their identity so they don't look clueless 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Henri8: 3:30pm On May 25, 2017 |
R3B3L: Wat level of stupidity.... I concur. That level of stupidity has no season 2. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by firstking01(m): 3:34pm On May 25, 2017 |
Decryptor:
They are usually those mean ones who make noise and bash others but when they run into trouble, they hide their identity so they don't look clueless My brother, i thought as much....you are very closed to the truth...most time i just read their thread and bypassed them. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by wayne4loan: 3:34pm On May 25, 2017 |
rebirthforgoody:
Madam are you truly faithful because seriously you are talking trash.go to hell and remain there forever na your own go worse pass. Mumu. Judging a lady that is better than you. why u dey beef ur fellow girl ![](/faces/huh.png) |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by lustra89(m): 3:39pm On May 25, 2017 |
[/font][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][color=#990000][/color] Before, I say anything, I want you to know you ain't married to her yet, she is just your girl friend, of which tomorrow you can dump her, just as you are contemplating to, now listen up, you don't have d right what so ever, to restrict her life, socially, religiously or what's so ever, until you have a firm grip on her, for instance, you want her to be 100%loyal and not flirt with the other guys, what if tomorrow, it happens you dump her sorry ass, then that restrictions if created for her with her other admirers, will take tym to build, every woman has a biologic clock, and every naturally time counts for her, and as such, they don't love to put their eggs in one basket, now if you must justify what u want from her, engage her, or make her see you really want a future with her, then still watch her out for some month s if you find anything fishy, abort wht ever plans you have with her in future, if you don't fined, you can as well go on with her Thanks |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Viking007(m): 3:44pm On May 25, 2017 |
daewoorazer: You my friend,
you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen.
Now do d above while u search for a loyal chick
thank me later.
#zanga
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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Barigaboy(m): 3:47pm On May 25, 2017 |
stambouli: Bro ,you don't need help on this one. It should be a straightforward easy decision to make.let her be a goner . she's obviously manipulating you and you are also acting naive. Man up bro Give her more chance with conditions cos she might truely love u but have that flirting attitude in her blood. Try to c if u can change her cos I observed u love her. Only a guy who love a woman but tired of complaining overlook some stuff abt women. |