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Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by chingle5(m): 12:03pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
SoldierBoy1: Omo ur own don done |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by tonyflash43(m): 12:03pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
[quote author=blingxx post=57880218] guess we are on the same page ... I'm an introvert but a funny person but when it comes to girls I couldn't think of anything funny or interesting [/quote bros so u are my twin, hv been looking for u ooo |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Fkforyou(m): 12:04pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
There is no perfect way/steps to approach a girl. Most time why guys get it wrong is because; 1.They over think. 2.They don't try to regain at least 70-90% control over themselves. ( Yes, there would always be some level of nervousness when meeting a girl for the first time) 3.They don't try be calm when talking to the girl, they just want to quickly speak up what they crammed in their head. 4.When meeting a girl, they are always too conscious of the fact that they speaking to a girl. Relax, just talk to her (strike a conversation) the way you would talk to a guy you are meeting the first time, it would remove all the sexual tension. 5. Lastly, you could try meeting girls online first to build a little bit of confidence, then you can request to meet her in person, by then, you won't be too scared because you are already comfortable with her. Before you know it, you would be good at being comfortable around girls. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by WaleOsu(m): 12:11pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tamarapetty:I'm shy |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Cullinane: 12:14pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
y3mi:Doesn't work on Nigerian ladies. All they care about is MONEY! MONEY!! MONEY!!!. When there is money, they don't know what shyness means. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Max24: 12:16pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
kinibigdeal: Did d guy talk of fuckery ? If it is simply sex he is interested in he does not need boldness for that. With #500 he will have access to short-time. olosho does not care about ur shyness. So d guy is asking ng sensible question. 2 Likes |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Pedrogold(m): 12:17pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Ezionye: True! That's so true,but it's easier in this case. Even if i don't talk to her about it, she'd tell from my actions and words towards her. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by exclusive7(m): 12:18pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tamarapetty:Awww...looks like mi baby sister, mi likey tamara |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by ogbiwa: 12:23pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
telim: We obviously now know where you meet your kind of girls. Spoiler: at some level some girls will so ignore you with these lines you'll be forced to upgrade. But keep playing at this level bro, when you get to that level you'll know. Nobody will tell you. Looking Tom Tom indeed. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Ncsamuel(m): 12:26pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tamarapetty:and am a shy guy o, what about we hook up sometime? |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
kosire: Is this really you trying to be funny? Oh gheeZ.... |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by chingle5(m): 12:32pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
ennyhola: Shittttttt diz bad |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
never knew that shy (sissy) guys are this "plenticious" in nairaland chei!!! Our future leaders #SPITS and leaves thread |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by omaigala12(m): 12:40pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Dopeyomi:Bros your case is different Shey u d even reach d state wey una don start d date If I reach dat stage e don finish No bi to hold her hand? I fit even kiss her for road sef But aw to straight the runs na em b issue |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Nobody: 12:43pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
*NOTE* It seems I've had all the fun while growing...I grew up among gals (1 blood sister,like 2-3aunties living with us..and MOST of my friends then were gals..? Talking about Age 1-12yrs _ But right now...I do not see having ladies in your life as a trophy or a must because it is no Biggie to me...and the stress involve..when you've to be romantic against your will..it looks boring to me! _ So right now...I'm single..not searching..never thought of Talking to any gal sef. But once in a while........ the demon in me do surface..and I go Flirting Spree,right from the bustop,to the bus,tp the lady sitting beside me,to all the random gals I met on.my way..to the ladies sitting beside me In the lecture hall...I can flirt with as much as 30gals..but after that Moment...that's all I won't even greet the gals I was acting all loving with yesterday But one goddamn thing will surely give you CONFIDENCE!!!! that's your ACCOUNT BALANCE! Since the inception of this year..I am always Smiling and feeling like Dangote because the few thousands I am having is mine and gotten from.my hard-work and not YAHOO YAHOO... imagine the self esteem 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Dopeyomi(m): 12:50pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
SoldierBoy1: your own case dey easy na.. my roommates dem be Pastor/SU imagine none of them have Gf! and na me still dey street pass.. dem no help at all.. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by kayjee101: 12:52pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
so many girls i have loved, non have i been able to approach. All i do is forkin kill the feeling...even the ones i am sure feel the same way for me, i kill it too; after spending years carrying a torch for the person. Fork me. I hate my self, i give up easily. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Dopeyomi(m): 12:53pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
omaigala12: baba before the date click na hell o.. but dem dey always fall for me probably because of I'm popular and a bit good in class.. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by wintersnow(m): 1:01pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tamarapetty: Baby that's sooooo me o...I can't even make eye contact with a gurl 1 Like |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by SoldierBoy1(m): 1:10pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
chingle5:Guy na to make money so money go do the talking dey my mind now |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by gmercy713: 1:10pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
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Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Either you like it or not, the adamic sin is the root of our problems with God. His mercy as the only solution to our problem with Him. For clearer explanation, consider the following reports that are brought out from the Bible. (A) THE FALL OF MAN: Adam and Eve sinned against God (Genesis 7:22). This means, from one man ( sinful Adam ) the whole world inherited sin. (B) A CRY FOR REDEMPTION: Adam and Eve asked God for "forgiveness and mercy". (C) GOD'S MERCY REVEALED: God offered the free gift of a "holy son" Jesus as mercy for all man's sake ( John 3:16 ). This means from another man ( sinless man) the whole world received "mercy" and "forgiveness". (D) The Bible confirmed in John 3:18 that "there is condemnation and punishment for those who fail to believe in Him" ( not just the way you see Him as one of the prophets of God. But as one that was offered as "mercy" directly from God ) for the forgiveness of your sin. The truth i have disclosed here goes beyond religion and philosophy. It is the truth and fact. If you have been touched and you want to give your life to Christ say this confessional prayer below CONFESSIONAL PRAYER Dear Jesus, I come to you with all the sins I've committed and I beg you forgive me. I confess that I am a sinner and that I cannot save myself. Please clean my body, soul and spirit with your precious blood. In Jesus mighty name I pray, Amen. 1 Like |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by SoldierBoy1(m): 1:12pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Dopeyomi:Guy laugh won burst my stomach as I read this thing...eyah this life no dey fair at all |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Dopeyomi(m): 1:15pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
SoldierBoy1: For three good Semesters i was single.. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tamarapetty:I am glad to be one |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by whallheY(m): 1:19pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Dopeyomi:my brother you need prayer. Come and meet me on the mountain let me deliver you, when coming, try come with a bottle of schinnap and palm oil, blackfish and 30k |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by agrovick(m): 1:20pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
One thing that has always worked for me is not taking the approach serious, just goof around say something no matter how foolish it might sound; you will both laugh about it. The occasions when I take the approach serious is when I flop. And never forget the 3 seconds rule, once you exceed it you are most likely not gonna talk with the girl. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
telim:You are insane. NB;Pls don't take it as a insult |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by Dopeyomi(m): 1:24pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
whallheY: Should i add ojuelegba w33d and 1 crate of Goldberg? for the 30k this is it kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk in case that 30k is not enough lemme add extra kkkkk lemme give u here coz its risky to go on the road with that amount.. |
Re: How To: Overcoming Timidity For Shy Nigerian Guys by QueenBeeHive(f): 1:26pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Tamarapetty: Catfish why are U using my friend's picture? she's coming for u cat-F fakey. U getting traced and sued 2 Likes 1 Share |
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