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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by nkowaputa(m): 10:58pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Death is the worst thing that can happen to man. Yet when Jesus was told his friend Lazarus is sick, he said IT WAS TO BRING GLORY TO GOD. Lazarus died but that was not the end. Christ brought him back to life thus, his death brought glory to God. When it seems finished, the Power of Christ is made manifest. Forget your investments in the marriage and run to Jesus like Martha and Mary her sister. Visit a catholic chapel visit Jesus in the Eucharist. Peace
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by francesawesome(f): 10:58pm On Jun 28, 2017
Don't be sad dear. Hold unto your God he hasn't abandon you
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Julivas(m): 10:58pm On Jun 28, 2017
Life goes on, stay positive.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by tobrinskilanski: 10:59pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

You can't be facing all this and you wil have time to type accurately...and even put "smiley" join.

TRULY...PERSON WEY DEY CRY DEY SEE ROAD.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by tydi(m): 10:59pm On Jun 28, 2017
GossipHeart:


God ??

You mean the same God that allows his beloved children to die of cancer ??

God can't forsake his people ?? What happened to his people all over the world dying of hunger and diseases ??

God doesn't exist

Wake up my little brain friend






Psalm 14:1 Only fools say in their hearts,
"There is no God." They are corrupt, and their actions are evil; not one
of them does good!

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by chiboy11(m): 10:59pm On Jun 28, 2017
what eva you are going tru is not new, but when you quote all men are wicked does not sort the issue out, dont generalize it, please find time to commit what you are going tru to Gods hand and believe noting on earth is important for him to turn around ,God rules just believe that
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jun 28, 2017
Why do u ladies even settle down with these kind men sef? You want to end it all for a motherfucker because you are too sacred of what society will say? They don't give a f**k about you sister! NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU. Always put yourself first, always. I'm guessing you married too because society says you have to marry! Marriage is not compulsory, don't sacrifice your life in order to be a slave to another person be it your spouse or children (who didn't ask to be born in the first place) and if you must marry someone in this day and age, make sure you do it in front of a judge so you can claim money for all the years you wasted incase things don't work out. Let him serve you divorce papers then collect your 50% of his worth! If you love marriage so much, there are plenty of men out there ready to settle down with you and do ivf or adoption. Cheer up and f**k society, NOBODY CARES

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by grandstar(m): 11:00pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

He that repays good with bad, bad shall never leave his house. Marriage is a vow before God.(Eccl 5). He is being extremely petite and selfish.

I suspect you married him despite your parents warning.

Anyway, no one is perfect including me nor your patents.

Best advice is to trust in Jehovah with all your heart and cast your burdens on Him. Read your bible daily especially the Psalms. You can add Proverbs and Ecclesiastices.

If he wants a divorce, let him go.

You'll get someone new. What matters is faith
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by do4luv14(m): 11:00pm On Jun 28, 2017
Whose end is the problem from His or yours,

take a chill pill will you, even if the problem is from ur end, and you have done many things for him, I jst hope of which does not include abortion,


so if neither of those, for him to marry you and broke-up with you on that excuse for jst a year, shows one thing only, HE DOESNT LOVE YOU,

he isn't worth crying for, neither is he worth dying for, so pick your self up and move up, cos there is always light at the end of every turmoil

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Priceless200(f): 11:01pm On Jun 28, 2017
Poster come online, join the Hallelujah festival. It's ongoing at the moment. Find @'Nathanielblow' on IG and join the live stream now. Come sing and praise him, this your issue is just too tiny for our mighty God. Ok? Dry your tears.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Fummylola: 11:01pm On Jun 28, 2017
Carry all your anxiety and fears to God , he has a listening ear , if he leaves you.today , that mean he's not your husband , your very.own husband who.will love you beyond having children will come for you , and God will perfect all that concerns you.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by thestevens: 11:01pm On Jun 28, 2017
Just believe,God never forsake his own,I believe he broke up out of anger,my elder brother waited for six years and God bless them with a boy and today is his birthday.never give up on God.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by EazyMoh(m): 11:02pm On Jun 28, 2017
ochobaba:
God can't forsake his people
This is a better opportunity for you to discuss with God am very sure he still answers prayers
But he forsook Jesus!
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by theblessing: 11:02pm On Jun 28, 2017
God can still come through for you. You're doing the problem. You can have your marriage back.

3 days fasting and praying against Powers assigned to destroy marriages

1. The name of Jesus shall not fail over my case in the Name of Jesus.

2. Every demonic rope tying down m marriage at demonic slaughtering slab, receive the fire of God and roast in the Name of Jesus Christ.

3. You power of marriage destruction, loose your hold upon my marriage in Jesus Name.

4. I will not break down but I will breakthrough in my marriage in the Name of Jesus Christ.

5. Satanic jokers shall not work against me in my marriage in the Name of Jesus.

6. Every arrow of marriage destroyers, go back to your sender in the Name of Jesus.

7. Every satanic presence in my matrimonial home, disappear by fire in the Name of Jesus.

8. Any satanic agent presently working on my picture, Summersault and die in the Name of Jesus.

9. Every satanic bullet fired against my marriage backfire in Jesus name.

God is able to restore your marriage and you will conceived.


P.V....09055317801
From us all at HCICC.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by BabaCommander: 11:03pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
You have made FP, it's a Dream come true. Liar goan get a life.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by DeRay98(m): 11:04pm On Jun 28, 2017
Madam, no be pity you need but maturity. Your hasty and panicky conclusion of an ongoing event with such dispear speaks volumes of your personality and other reasons/factors influencing your husband premature decision to run away from with this excuse.
Go and sit down.
"I have invested so much into this marriage" gives me the impression that you probably "bought" yourself a husband to meet the desperate desire to be "Mrs Somebody"
You just see smoke for roof of house,you run go shout house don burn finish. angry
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jun 28, 2017
Bring It To Socio Media Consticate So Many Issue More As We Have Single Mothers, And Inmature Brothers, Please Take It To Church
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by jjjjj2017: 11:05pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
I hate it when some men blame their partner for inabiliity to conceive because at times it was due to men low sperm count. by the way, hope you are not a retired slayqueen? am trying to be realistic as doctor might have let your hubby understand the status of ur womb! a year is too short
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by SycophanticGoat: 11:05pm On Jun 28, 2017
The man didn't break up with you because of the your inability to conceive. I said this because one year is too short a period for a man to run away from a marriage simply because his wife wasn't able to conceive.

The truth is, even if you got pregnant for him on your honeymoon and delivered twin, he would still have left because all he would need to do is to manufacture another excuse.

He probably has a girl on the side that he wanted to settle with but then probably didn't have the means. Now that he does, he decides to bail out on you.

Just see this as one of those disappointments in life and mind you, only cowards choose the easy way out (suicide).

Let me tell you about what my elder sister's experienced. One useless man based abroad disappointed my sister after she had waited for him for seven years.

He ended it with my sister because she refused to get pregnant for him in Nigeria here when the fool hasn't completed the marriage rights neither did he even provide her accommodation (imagine wanting a woman to be making babies for him under the roof of her family house while the goat is in US).
She was even the one fending for herself through her small business.

After the disapointment, my sister moved on with her life. Now she's happily married while the last time we heard of that idiot, he was charged to court for raping a white woman he picked up in his cab.

Imagine the shame that would have befallen my sister if she was still engaged to the goat when he had the rape case..

You never can tell the calamities God has averted for you by removing your ex husband from your life.

Use this opportunity to pick up your pieces and move on with your life. After all the world doesn't revolve around him.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by brightalo17: 11:05pm On Jun 28, 2017
Move on to the next guy, no amount of lamenting will change your situation, don't think about the investment , just think about how to move on i know it is going to be very very hard but you must do it.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by castiello(m): 11:05pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry




How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?


There is nothing God can't do inbox me for advice ma
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by debspauly(f): 11:06pm On Jun 28, 2017
I pray for you dear ...God will always stand by you and he will wipe away your tears ...in no time ....Amen ....you can try a fertility clinic you might get so help there . as for your husband ....he is just a coward ..spits
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by enemyofprogress: 11:07pm On Jun 28, 2017
castiello:



There is nothing God can't do inbox me for advice ma
Advice her here, no take style carry her go one corner come begin dey toast her

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by greggng: 11:07pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?


If you deceived the man knowing fully well that you cannot conceive, then you don't have to blame the man. . Only a God fearing man will endure to the last. Move on with ur life.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by jjjjj2017: 11:07pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
the bolded part irritates me a lot because its irrelevant
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Akwaudene87(m): 11:08pm On Jun 28, 2017
GossipHeart:


God ??

You mean the same God that allows his beloved children to die of cancer ??

God can't forsake his people ?? What happened to his people all over the world dying of hunger and diseases ??

God doesn't exist

Wake up my little brain friend
I really wish you can prove he doesn't exist
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Parable007: 11:09pm On Jun 28, 2017
Madam no jokes.....telll Jesus N he'll fix it ..... talk to him if he can accept u back illl join faith with u by this time NXT year ull av ur baby.......I'm not kidding
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ioreth69(f): 11:09pm On Jun 28, 2017
God will see u through, jst trust God
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Dicedpineapple(f): 11:09pm On Jun 28, 2017
After 1 year?speechless shocked
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by jjjjj2017: 11:09pm On Jun 28, 2017
Priceless200:
Poster come online, join the Hallelujah festival. It's ongoing at the moment. Find @'Nathanielblow' on IG and join the live stream now. Come sing and praise him, this your issue is just too tiny for our mighty God. Ok? Dry your tears.
smh
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by BotafogoJunior(m): 11:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
Favybloom:
Why do u ladies even settle down with these kind men sef? You want to end it all for a motherfucker because you are too sacred of what society will say? They don't give a f**k about you sister! NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU. Always put yourself first, always. I'm guessing you married too because society says you have to marry! Marriage is not compulsory, don't sacrifice your life in order to be a slave to another person be it your spouse or children (who didn't ask to be born in the first place) and if you must marry someone in this day and age, make sure you do it in front of a judge so you can claim money for all the years you wasted incase things don't work out. Let him serve you divorce papers then collect your 50% of his worth! If you love marriage so much, there are plenty of men out there ready to settle down with you and do ivf or adoption. Cheer up and f**k society, NOBODY CARES
Blessings to your heart for this!! Pound sterling fall on you.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ioreth69(f): 11:10pm On Jun 28, 2017
sonofLuci:
Come and take love charm to tie him and stop disturbing our ears.
grin,winsh

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