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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by edeXede: 11:41pm On Jun 28, 2017
Good for you. When you were busy opening your puna for Igbos and Afonja, you didn't know.. Now you want the innocent almajiri to do for better for worse.. Ko le werk shocked shocked
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by EngrXrix(m): 11:47pm On Jun 28, 2017
Just one question! Pardon me for asking and I hope it doesn't strike a nerve...
Have u had an ab*!#&tion for ur husband before ?
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Melonny(m): 11:50pm On Jun 28, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
Dear dreamscometrue, I won't tell you not to be sad, but God said in Isaiah 55:9 that "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts".. God hasn't failed you, no one can tell the lord what to do or teach him or advice him and he does not consult or take advice from someone to understand how things should be done. Maybe he isn't the right man, who knows?
I think this is the time to be closer to God. He can do all things, he made the sky a home for the sun! Awesome, isn't he? use Isaiah 40:4-5 to pray for yourself.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by 2016v2017: 11:54pm On Jun 28, 2017
ochobaba:
God can't forsake his people
This is a better opportunity for you to discuss with God am very sure he still answers prayers
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ayarandy: 11:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
My friend just had triplets after 9yrs. Before God visited them they bond in a way that my 3yrs old marriage is learning
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by bukiboy(m): 11:55pm On Jun 28, 2017
One sided story. I can't be a judge here.

I still don't understand why a female will spend 6yrs in primary school, 6 yrs in secondary school and minimum of 4 yrs in university and all her aim or expectations in life is to get married, then turn into a baby making machine.

I believe marriage is overrated, getting married and making babies is not a ticket to heaven.

Maybe Oprah won't achieve much if all her dream is to get married and make babies.

Marriage is for two whole individuals and not for someone who thinks her happiness fulfillment is to married and make babies.

Concentrate on finding your purpose here on earth, be happy by yourself and cast your treasures in Heaven.

Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by seangy4konji: 11:57pm On Jun 28, 2017
let me see what u look like first...

i am single...
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by tegamarro(m): 12:00am On Jun 29, 2017
GossipHeart:


God ??

You mean the same God that allows his beloved children to die of cancer ??

God can't forsake his people ?? What happened to his people all over the world dying of hunger and diseases ??

God doesn't exist

Wake up my little brain friend

Your still Greatfull Because you Have Breath trough Your Nostrils..
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by stacyadams: 12:06am On Jun 29, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
very simple..come make i pregnate u at least we will know who has a problem between u two
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by crisisexpert321(m): 12:08am On Jun 29, 2017
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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 12:09am On Jun 29, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Yes you will be able to pull through. Humans will always disappoint and abandon you when they see they have nothing to gain from you anymore (in their own eyes and stupidity because they are not God), but your God will not abandon you.

Try to talk to him. Make him see reasons not to tow the path he is charting. If all your efforts fail, move on and believe God. Don't feel dejected and loose yourself to worry. He may actually be the one with the problem after all. Don't give up on yourself.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by madridguy(m): 12:15am On Jun 29, 2017
Madam I think you should be thanking your star and if possible go to church/mosque for thanksgiving. From your write up it is crystal clear your husband is just after your wealth/money or kinda of benefit. Just a year plus marriage shocked shocked shocked I sense he just need to use something as a cover up.

Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Toks2008(m): 12:15am On Jun 29, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Your husband never loved you.

I was in a childless union for 5 years and despite the fact that I knew there was nothing wrong with me,I remained faithful until we broke up due to other reasons. ...

Have you done any test? if yes what did the result say?

If you are the cause and he insists you go against all odds then try get yourself treated and pray to God to make him change his mind and if he still refuses please move on.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by fries07(m): 12:16am On Jun 29, 2017
I might nit know how u feel rite now but one thing i know is that things are bad. but i will say something to u, this is not the time to feel pity for your self and wanting to her sorry all the time. u lost a lost, YES. but u re not dead. home is always home they will welcome u, take the story of the prodigal son story. be strong, all is not lost. You have life in Christ Jesus.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Emma4Jesu(m): 12:17am On Jun 29, 2017
I pray for you that the will of God be done, God always uses the foolish things of this world to confirm his word, may the Lord show his mercy for favor on your behalf in Jesus mighty name i pray Amen, don't ever worry or think about it again for God has taken control of you totally now, just be thanking God for such a time like this. We are are expecting to hear your God ansswering testimony
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by MadCow1: 12:17am On Jun 29, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?


If this is the end then that's what it is.. Cry your tears, dry your eyes, pick yourself up and move forward without looking back.

Pray if that is your thing but I say it's time to pull yourself up and keep it pushing.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by hardbody: 12:23am On Jun 29, 2017
Dreamscometrue:
cry cry cry cry..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me... cry cry

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

2 things. God never forsakes and dreams do come true. Believe and receive. If he is hell bent on leaving, cut your loses, someone there needs you, pick your pieces and move on, the God that answered Hannah will answer you. Just receive in faith and it is done. He will come back begging and it will be too late. Mark these words on marble. So shall it be written so shall it be done
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by diva90: 12:26am On Jun 29, 2017
Have you guys gone for test together to ensure that the problem is not from your husband?
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by GistFullGround: 12:35am On Jun 29, 2017
Dreamscometrue:

God has really forsaken me...

You may NEVER be conveived of a child because of these words above.
How dare you blasphene God?
You NEED to retrace your steps and cry to him and don't say rubbish.

What have you invested in the marriage?
Do you want to compare your so-called investments with a child of your own?
Women, you need to learn from this!
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 12:40am On Jun 29, 2017
Your husband is impotent. Leave his house. Remarry and you will become pregnant.
No man is worth any tears. They are worthless.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 12:41am On Jun 29, 2017
Your husband never loved you. To him, you were a DISPENSIBLE means to an end, not an end in yourself, and he's decided the time has come to throw you down a cliff. Do not falter, madam. He can only derive pleasure watching you wallow in misery. Pick yourself up and move on. You certainly do not need such a person in your life anymore. It's not as if you dismantled your life for him and buried chunks of it in those investments you made in the marriage. Put them in the past and start your life anew, since they subtracted nothing from you. Do not let anyone make you feel inadequate and worthless, especially someone who supposedly loved you!

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by ogunniyi2: 12:45am On Jun 29, 2017
Life is full of surprises,please wake up.Your ideal man is closer to you now,wipe your tears,you dont need to cry,rejoice

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by HegenIkomkeh(m): 12:48am On Jun 29, 2017
torres89:

tell me u have never been selfish before or hurt anyone's​ feelings
stop claiming saint
we are all sinners
Mediocre!!
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by davillian(m): 1:08am On Jun 29, 2017
Just 1 yrs I have a friend and she has been married for 10yrs and no children. They are still together till now.
Sorry you married the wrong person. be happy he revealed himself after 1yr.
Sis get back up and move on with your life.

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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Alphyno: 1:14am On Jun 29, 2017
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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by passendi: 1:21am On Jun 29, 2017
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Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Maxvasia(m): 2:19am On Jun 29, 2017
Blame ur pastors and urselves for this. The pastors are the ones that tell you "no sex before marriage" and u ppl swallow it hook line and sinker without reasoning for urselves. Now wen the result is in, the pastor with his oversized coat and shiny shoes tells u to bear it and keep paying ur tithe and blessings will fall on u. Always test ur goods before u buy. Every market seller and buyer knows that. All i can tell u is pele. Sorry u hear? Keep trying, mayb luck will smile at u guys one day. And stop listening to the ready made opinions of ppl that call demselves men of God, by doing so, u walk on crutches while ignoring ur own healthy limbs.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by bon1978: 2:36am On Jun 29, 2017
Did he pay your bride price? Are you a believer in Christ? If yes from now to the end of this month if I be a man of God he every case between you and him shall be settled in the name of Jesus.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Nobody: 2:38am On Jun 29, 2017
Have the two of you gone for medical testing? It's only been one year. His actions seem too extreme. I hope he has not impregnated another lady.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by princeadesam: 2:42am On Jun 29, 2017
Ma, are you a Christian? Give everything unto God. God know the best for you. Go back to God in prayer. Don't allow devil to let you do order wise.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by supereagle(m): 2:46am On Jun 29, 2017
GossipHeart:


God ??

You mean the same God that allows his beloved children to die of cancer ??

God can't forsake his people ?? What happened to his people all over the world dying of hunger and diseases ??

God doesn't exist

Wake up my little brain friend

"God doesn't exist" I pray that He will manifest Himself to you.
Re: My Husband Broke Up With Me Because I'm Yet To Conceive. Losing My Mind.. Help! by Mrkumareze(m): 2:55am On Jun 29, 2017
Dear op, I realized you failed to mention the cause of the infertility. Some women knowing fully well they have lost it during their single life still go into marriage with the hope of miracle in the long run. Pls elaborate well so you can have a good response from the readers .

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