SingleDad:


Thanks for your advice. But to get her, i need more than that. Because i realized that her husband so much believe in her

U dnt need more dan dat. Besides u sounded as if u just want this thread to keep thriving.
The most simplest solution right now is to record your conversation with the wife and u need to ensure she is saying those exact words during the conversation. It doesn't matter if you have to fain it bt make sure the recording is accurate and when playing it to d husband, get an elderly and we'll respected person to be dere Mayb ur parent or the husbands

SingleDad:


Bro, I understand. I made mistakes by not recording any of out conversation. But you know, sometimes when we are in such situation, we stop thinking of other options.

But with situation at hand, her husband might not even believe any audio record. He made me regrets why i ever reported the wife to him. Bro, he is my friend, but got me arrested.

I need all the help now bro?

U see the more reason y I said u want this thread to thrive. U've gotten ur ansa oga

Ghosttt:


U dnt need more dan dat. Besides u sounded as if u just want this thread to keep thriving.
The most simplest solution right now is to record your conversation with the wife and u need to ensure she is saying those exact words during the conversation. It doesn't matter if you have to fain it bt make sure the recording is accurate and when playing it to d husband, get an elderly and we'll respected person to be dere Mayb ur parent or the husbands

Yeah, I need more points and advice, that's why i sounded that way. Nice observation.

Thanks, I will work out a plan from your advice.

SingleDad:


Yeah, we have friendly intimacy most times.

Friendly intimacy ? Elaborate man did you sleep with her not??

MissRaine69:

Friendly intimacy ? Elaborate man did you sleep with her not??

before she got married, Yes! , but after getting married, I had to distance myself from her.

Your problem is social media attention. And I really doubt ur story. After confronting the woman in the presence of the husband and they locked you up in police cell, and you hungry for vengeance Abi.
Alas along came your nemesis(the woman) again, and you quickly ran back to social media again for more advice. What's is the proof that the said woman have been calling you? Pls go and recook this lies is half done.

Hmm....xo u had to heed the advice of nairalanders by initiating a conversation between u,herself nd her husband?


Which led to ur embarrassment nd imprisonment


Romancelanders una see wetin una cause ba?

SingleDad:


Yeah, the bible is against revenge, but she's planning to implicate me, if i turn her down again. She's using my police case to judge me now.

then whenever she called u again ,have the call record. same thing with chats. screen snap it n sent to ur blood brother or sister. explain to them what happened. let them keep it safe . in the events of any arrest again they should provide it as evidence.
NB. while u are at it, be it d call or chats,be careful of what u say or type . play along but let her be d only one that says the things that will implicate herself . eg.
she:: if u refused my offer again i will report u to the police for attempt rape or murder.
(in this case don't say hmmm, ha,or why na.or pls don't do dat. such response seemed to suggest that there's some truth in what she is saying . here is a suggested answer to such threat )
you ::::when did the attempt rape or murder happened ma?? or
you: i don't get u ma. can you pls explain what u mean ?
since she didn't know u are on record. this question Will make her feel free to say it in such a way even a two year old kid will understand in order to drive home her points n make u helpless. pls make sure d person u sent these evidence to is someone who can keep a secret until its needed . good luck to u.

SingleDad:


I appreciate this advice .if I block her calls and chats, won't that result into another issue. What if they claim, maybe i have hidden plans .

What people say should trouble you not. Eccl. 7:21,22

Venica:

then whenever she called u again ,have the call record. same thing with chats. screen snap it n sent to ur blood brother or sister. explain to them what happened. let them keep it safe . in the events of any arrest again they should provide it as evidence.
NB. while u are at it, be it d call or chats,be careful of what u say or type . play along but let her be d only one that says the things that will implicate herself . eg.
she:: if u refused my offer again i will report u to the police for attempt rape or murder.
(in this case don't say hmmm, ha,or why na.or pls don't do dat. such response seemed to suggest that there's some truth in what she is saying . here is a suggested answer to such threat )
you ::::when did the attempt rape or murder happened ma?? or
you: i don't get u ma. can you pls explain what u mean ?
since she didn't know u are on record. this question Will make her feel free to say it in such a way even a two year old kid will understand in order to drive home her points n make u helpless. pls make sure d person u sent these evidence to is someone who can keep a secret until its needed . good luck to u.

My God will bless you for taking your time to explain this to me in a matured and precise way. Thanks dear.... Your suggestion rocks 100% .

Immatex:


What people say should trouble you not. Eccl. 7:21,22

Thanks

SingleDad:


God bless you for this advice sir. This is the best i have come across since. Changing my sim, my old contacts would be gone. What about those trying to get me through that same sim? .

As earlier said, that it depends on you...

On Sim/contact issues.., that is the easiest....
Copy all old and safe contacts somewhere before you do away with the sim...
Make sure you DON'T copy her contact and her would-be symphatizers as well...
This would save you time and unnecessary headache...
Call back your old contacts on As-IS basis alone...
Stay clear from all her issues,

Your peace should be your utmost imporatnce to you, BUT incase you made promises to her during your kpeka/kpekus heat period, let her see reasons you could not fulfil it again...that, its for her, her dignity, honour and peace in her home... Do this before you switch Sim... That will help clear ur conscience too...

Alternatively, Blcklist her number, but on this, she might call you back with her 'other' numbers as well...

@op, the choice is yours....
Be guided by the Almigthy Father in your decision...

I rise.,,

SingleDad:


My God will bless you for taking your time to explain this to me in a matured and precise way. Thanks dear.... Your suggestion rocks 100% .

glad to hear that . u are always welcome.

Op to slap you just dey hungry me.

How can a man be so immature ?

Haba

SingleDad:
It seems things turned from bad to worst for me.

I created a true life story of my married friend demanding sex from me, and people advice me on what to do. People like, Antina , Thorpido etc. I really appreciate your advice's.

https://www.nairaland.com/3884362/dilemma-married-friend-wants-sex


Seriously i had to go through everybody's advice, and i decided to call her husband. I told him to invite the wife, because i would like to discuss with him about what has being going on between myself and his wife.


On the day of the meeting, I talked to him like a man, told him his wife has being disturbing me to have sex with her, but i couldn't do it, because i wonder what i would feel, if i was in his situation.

Good people, she denied everything and lay false accusations on me. She said i was the one making sexual advances at her, accused me of trying to rape her.


My heart bled . My heart was disturbed. The worst thing is, her husband believed her, and called the police to arrest me, for trying to molest and rape his wife.


I was disgraced out of the meeting joint into a van like a thief . We arrived at the police station, they asked for a statement, which i obeyed. I tried convincing the man that i was sincere and genuine , He practically ignored me, and left with his wife.


Family, friends and others had to go beg him, and i was discharged two days after for committing no crime.


Good people, I almost start regretting why everything turned out that way, but still, i am glad i was vindicated. But right now, revenge is on my mind. My family are not aware of this, but i need to revenge on the both of them.

I suffered in the prison . Guys, abstain from married women, they are deadly and evil when being rejected.


Please tell me, what should i do next, because she is still calling. Now she is using my last encounter to force me into having sex with her, because she promised to implicate me again, if I turn her down for the second time .


Mods, thanks for pushing the first thread to the front page, kindly do the same here. I am losing my self will. Depression is gradually overcoming me. I am pained .

Oga I know u are lying...

But if u say u are not okay...

When she call u again record you conversation...

I'm sure you know exactly what to do with that..


Lies everywhere

If she calls u record ur conv. with her. if she chats u on whatsapp ask her for nudes. thats shld be the greatest evidence u can hv against her.

funstufz:


As earlier said, that it depends on you...

On Sim/contact issues.., that is the easiest....
Copy all old and safe contacts somewhere before you do away with the sim...
Make sure you DON'T copy her contact and her would-be symphatizers as well...
This would save you time and unnecessary headache...
Call back your old contacts on As-IS basis alone...
Stay clear from all her issues,

Your peace should be your utmost imporatnce to you, BUT incase you made promises to her during your kpeka/kpekus heat period, let her see reasons you could not fulfil it again...that, its for her, her dignity, honour and peace in her home... Do this before you switch Sim... That will help clear ur conscience too...

Alternatively, Blcklist her number, but on this, she might call you back with her 'other' numbers as well...

@op, the choice is yours....
Be guided by the Almigthy Father in your decision...

I rise.,,

Thank you very much for this advice. Its uplifted my mood and spirit. Thanks.

crotonite:
If she calls u record ur conv. with her. if she chats u on whatsapp ask her for nudes. thats shld be the greatest evidence u can hv against her.

Nudes? . would that work?. Won't it look as if i was trying to molest her online. She might twist the story.

Joeblack01:
Op to slap you just dey hungry me.

How can a man be so immature ?

Haba

I understand you.

Venica:

glad to hear that . u are always welcome.

Thanks dear

SingleDad:


Nudes? . would that work?. Won't it look as if i was trying to molest her online. She might twist the story.

emmmm... you're right. just block her.

crotonite:
emmmm... you're right. just block her.

Thanks.

U welcome bro.

SingleDad:


Thank you very much for this advice. Its uplifted my mood and spirit. Thanks.

Sorry for what you went through, but don't you have any prove to back up your claims, like recorded phone class, messages etc.?

SingleDad:


Yeah, I need more points and advice, that's why i sounded that way. Nice observation.

Thanks, I will work out a plan from your advice.

Baba record the calls and quit your attention seeking.
That was what u should have done in d first place before approaching her husband or have u forgotten d biblical story of Joseph?
If your story is real, try tread with caution and sense next time.
We didn't notice ur 3 days cell absence here o

Nma27:
Baba record the calls and quit your attention seeking.
That was what u should have done in d first place before approaching her husband or have u forgotten d biblical story of Joseph?
If your story is real, try tread with caution and sense next time.
We didn't notice ur 3 days cell absence here o

Can you define attention seeking honey? . just define that for me first?.

NB: wait, you said that, you didn't notice my 3days absence, honey, have you being stalking me like others sweetheart. That's so precious of you.

Adorbs:
Sorry for what you went through, but don't you have any prove to back up your claims, like recorded phone class, messages etc.?

Thanks bro. I don't record calls, but i will start doing that now.

SingleDad:


Can you define attention seeking honey? . just define that for me first?.

My dear leave that one first and answer others

Nma27:
My dear leave that one first and answer others

Check my first quote, I edited it. Guess that answers it, especially the last part.

SingleDad:


Can you define attention seeking honey? . just define that for me first?.

NB: wait, you said that, you didn't notice my 3days absence, honey, have you being stalking me like others sweetheart. That's so precious of you.

Off course not.. Just that your presence in romanceland is hard to miss with u being all over the place dropping comments like kamikazes

Nma27:
Off course not.. Just that your presence in romanceland is hard to miss with u being all over the place dropping comments like kamikazes

Me? , all over the place dropping comments?. That ain't me honey. I don't drop comments like craze on every topic.

NB: its not bad to admit that you've being stalking me , Don't worry, would return the favour honey.

SingleDad:


Me? , all over the place dropping comments?. That ain't me honey. I don't drop comments like craze on every topic.

NB: its not bad to admit that you've being stalking me , Don't worry, would return the favour honey.

What exactly shall I profit from stalking? I don't gat time for such