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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by sholikay(m): 10:12pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Nma27:well I'm not really the holier than thou guy..I'm not even a SU...I know more about romance... I'm just only scared about anything sexual inter course.. it was this same premarital sex that almost cost my dad his life and perhaps some good things, while he was a youth..that is a story for another day..he has advised us to be careful with a lady.especially the one we aren't married to..obviously, I never thought this lady could posses this kind of attitude.. I know her to be quite religious..you also know its NY first.. I'm inexperienced.. |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by donaldking10: 10:18pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Vicktomaniaa: I DE TELLZ YOU! |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
sholikay:OK. I understand now. Too many ladies with wicked spiritual husband running loose. All d best. Be strong. |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by toastedbread: 10:31pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Nma27: Throw in the ring as in wrestlemania ring? |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
toastedbread:You didn't promise her marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by toastedbread: 10:32pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
adajoe555: If I come to think think as a philosopher, you no go carry your bags run leave me for house? |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Tonalphs(f): 10:33pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Wow. Nice thread. Reading every page n not dropping mine would be totally wrong. When I read how guys go extra mile to show how much they love their woman n get dumped, it amazes me. I've been a one man -lady. Never cheated, never really dumped either. But I read between the lines so I know when my own chapter in the relationship book has come to a close. Right now I'm counting a year plus without a relationship. No time to love. Not when all I do is work n work n work. Infact my phone is my bf. Gimme fb, nl news etc n I'm good. #singlennotsearching 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by toastedbread: 10:38pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Doubleagent008(m): 10:39pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
mimee9:Nah lie! Did he expect u to wait? Are u really waiting? No kidding |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
toastedbread:Assistant bf... Lmfao. Pele. I'm sure u are stronger now. |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Doubleagent008(m): 10:41pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
EHIRIMCHA:Baba I have come to understand that all those things are nice ways to tell you u don't have money. When things change, Na she go convince u say u ready. |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 10:45pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Tonalphs: Na lie o!!! A year + ke? Preposterous!!! My dear U must get bf ni sha Oya all my single guys in d building come in hia to see this cutie! She is ripe for love ma niggaz.....*grins* Start sending PMs NOW God bless U!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by toastedbread: 10:46pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Nma27: I strong like hulk hogan when in the ring. Na females dia way sha. The more we live, the more we learn. |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 10:47pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
EHIRIMCHA: Abeg when u see her eh....say NTOOR for ME!!!! |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Burna88(f): 10:49pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
hunn...so tragic....But m ready to link up again...check my siggy |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 10:52pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Burna88: Lemme announce am for u!!!! Guys Guys Guys!!!! Come in hia! This cutie queen needs a king!! Where y'all AT?? Start calling DAT number y'all God bless U!!!! |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Burna88(f): 11:02pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
luminouz:lol really |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
toastedbread: Hahaha |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:14pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Burna88:Yeah! Really!!!! |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Burna88(f): 11:22pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
luminouz:lol Tnx oo |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
toastedbread:True. But u ain't getting any younger... Go and marry |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:28pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Burna88:Anything for d ladies!!!! |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:28pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Preshiee:Hey U!!!! |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:29pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Nma27:Lmaoooooo |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by lululiscious(f): 11:36pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
He's calling Can't pretty much hide the excitement Been calling for a while now But he's been too busy to pick So you can imagine the excitement to finally hear from him He's all nice and lovey dovey Caring, even Asking when next you'll visit Been thinking about making the trip down though Wow, can this love ever go wrong Then he has news He's getting married in a few weeks time Lol It's a joke It has to be a joke He's asking if it's OK with you Like, for real? Huh He's asking for your blessings. This is not a joke poo just got real What have you guys been doing all along If he's marrying another person The headache is unbearable You're not thinking straight Speech incoherent Don't tell your mom, he says Really? That's the best he could say? The conversation is dragging It's hard to believe one can still be this cool in situations like this But you've been taught Drilled in fact A lady doesn't go off the rail Your manners should always be in check Where has it gotten anyone? Anyway No tears They won't just come It's just shock The fear of acceptance Empty Hollow 6 Likes |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:38pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
lululiscious: Nice poem dear..... Is DAT all though |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by lululiscious(f): 11:40pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
luminouz:It's not a poem. It's real life. I don't do poems. Just didn't feel like writing it the regular way. Worse off, it happened 2 Sundays ago 1 Like |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by cassyrooy(m): 11:41pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
Hmmm! Just by the caption of the thread you know something big is going down in here. Straight to my case, met this gal in 2013 when I started working to raise money to further my education, she was pretty, intelligent and loving. She was not completely satisfied with her then relationship(I know the guy and how he works her psyche) and when I came along, her options increased. I fell for her, asked her respectively and he humbled my request with a no. Immediately dumping me I the frendzone. I was vice bf, assistant bf for almost 2yrs but I still remained undeterred and later in 2015, I saw clearly there was nothing for me I intensified my hustle for admission and neglected her, to cut long story short, we later got to talking terms after losing my mom that year, although I've bagged my admission. Later she agreed we date, a month later I was feeling insecure because of the previous ordeals I went through whilst in the 'zone' and was skeptical if we'd continue when I get to school. 2months after resuming school, I slipped into another bout of depression that left my academics in complete ruins, then she called to tell me she's moved on, I was happy for her but not too sure about myself. After the session I went home, she came by my place and we talked as friends, in January she gained admission and I saw she secured it. Was busy with work that I have no time for myself that I didn't call for 2wks and she labelled me uncaring. Angrily I blocked her on WhatsApp. After 1mth or so she started calling, I didn't pick nor returned the calls, later blacklisted her numbers, we had a very hitted exchanges of text messages and ever since we not contacted each other. Sometimes, I feel my heart tightening but I walk on like its nothing. Love leave us bleeped up whenever it goes sour. I may never be the same again. Tomorrow's her birthday(12/7) and I'm not gonna call or text for the first time since I met her. Happy Birthday, Nnenna, this is the best I could do on your birthday. 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:41pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
lululiscious:Dafuq Damn!!! How u coping dear |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by lululiscious(f): 11:45pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
luminouz:I'm still in denial stage. I don't know how to go about it. Don't know if I'm hurt or just plain depressed |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:46pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
cassyrooy: Uuuuurrrgggghhhh!!! Leave DAT girl alone joor! She has issues!!! Maybe she is witchy witchy!! Ur remedy is here!!! Open ur heart n love would find u!! Coz am a good guy,I will give u some options in form of tonalphs,burna88,yeeshanana......they are good girls bro...treat them well!! Please don't fvcking waste this opportunity!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:53pm On Jul 11, 2017 |
lululiscious:Its called d shock stage babe!!! D enormity and suddenness of that news made ur body go in survival mode as a way of coping with the psychological pressure (some women often go mad at this stage or become violent) n u have ur stars to thank that ur still coherent to even type the story..With time, as ur psyche adjusts to d news, d shock.level will lessen n life goes on if u want it(some girls become embittered versions of their former selves driving everything-including vultures n angels from them) Just take things a day at a time... N if u need someone to talk to as a.friend, luminouz is here!! |
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