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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by cassyrooy(m): 11:56pm On Jul 11, 2017

luminouz:

Uuuuurrrgggghhhh!!!
Leave DAT girl alone joor! She has issues!!! Maybe she is witchy witchy!!
Ur remedy is here!!! Open ur heart n love would find u!!
Coz am a good guy,I will give u some options in form of tonalphs,burna88,yeeshanana......they are good girls bro...treat them well!!

Please don't fvcking waste this opportunity!!!!

Lol! Sincerely I appreciate the offer, maybe we chat of the thread,

080***6698

WhatsApp is good for me.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 11:56pm On Jul 11, 2017

cassyrooy:
Lol! Sincerely I appreciate the offer, maybe we chat of the thread, WhatsApp is good for me.

Sure boss!!! grin

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by toastedbread: 12:05am On Jul 12, 2017

Nma27:
True. But u ain't getting any younger... Go and marry

Will you marry me?

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Burna88(f): 12:07am On Jul 12, 2017

luminouz:

Uuuuurrrgggghhhh!!!
Leave DAT girl alone joor! She has issues!!! Maybe she is witchy witchy!!
Ur remedy is here!!! Open ur heart n love would find u!!
Coz am a good guy,I will give u some options in form of tonalphs,burna88,yeeshanana......they are good girls bro...treat them well!!

Please don't fvcking waste this opportunity!!!!

i swear,u cracking me up

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by luminouz(m): 12:10am On Jul 12, 2017

Burna88:
i swear,u cracking me up

Babes chillax....I got ur back!!!! wink

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Burna88(f): 12:12am On Jul 12, 2017

luminouz:
Babes chillax....I got ur back!!!!

lol...bro

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by cassyrooy(m): 12:18am On Jul 12, 2017

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by cassyrooy(m): 12:18am On Jul 12, 2017

Burna88:
i swear,u cracking me up

Lol! He's very funny.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by themayor4542(m): 3:17am On Jul 12, 2017

Wow! Read through all the comments from first page. It's really quite refreshing to be privy to some experiences of people. It's really been so interesting. It's been an education to say the least.
Well, I had my own share of heart breaks. Though I must add I feel some what lucky that I didn't go through some odeal that some went through, but that doesn't make my experience less painful.
I had my first heart break when I finished secondary school and running after admission. Met her few months before leaving Lagos to Port harcourt. Some how we managed to keep the relationship alive for over a year. Though I do come to Lagos as often I could. At least three to four times a year. Anyway, as a fine girl herself it's only natural for her to have several suitors. She eventually left me for one of them. Can't blame her. She be fine girl.
The last one happened last year. Thought she was the one I was going to marry. When she started giving me altitude I knew what was coming but I tried to clear my conscience by fighting for her and doing what I can. When she wasn't yielding I had to let her go. At least I tried my best.
The whole charade was painful sha. But it was easier to move on cos I know I tried my best. It's just one of those things.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 3:23am On Jul 12, 2017

Effiezynews:

I'm proud of you for "manning" up and accepting that you fell in love..It doesn't make you weak,it means you are human...I'm so sorry you had to go through all that..

Thank you Effiezy...it's an unforgettable experience.

I wont lie to you...it will take me a long time to fall again.

I think we just need to be careful of who will fall for...some people don't mind smashing your heart after that period.

God help us

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 3:33am On Jul 12, 2017

jakandeola:
iv realise what a fool I was to give my heart to an animal. only a foolish man will ever belief in ttue love. The girl I thought is mine betray me last year. we hv been together for 2yrs, yet I neva touch her cos I was saving her for myself. we have been having issues. 3months b4 we brake up we quarrell because of money issue and we kept malice for 3 weeks until we settled. den her elder sister got married, and she told me she needed money for suveniar to share. she know I have money I want to invest, yet I gave her good 40000 naira. after the wedding she suddenly changed don't pick my calls or like my pix anymore. when I confronted her she said shes no longer interested that im not man enough for her and cant provide for her. this is a girl I wished to marry I never knew she is a cheap thing that goes sleeping around. In time karma will catch her. I will never in my life trust any woman again. now I believe love is wicked. I feel so sad.

brother, ...so sorry to hear that.

Obviously, that girl never loved you...she was only looking for who will take care of her.

Mind you, even if she finds one, SHE WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED because our needs are insatiable.

so, looking for love in order to satisfy your need is like looking for an endless possibilities.

leave her, she will soon realize that THERE IS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND MONEY when she will meet a man who has plenty money to satisfy her by using her for RITUAL.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 3:38am On Jul 12, 2017

waynejesus:
No be new tin..i break up every I still break up yesterday

Sorry to say, Waynejesus, you don't know what it means to be in love that is why you don't see any big deal in breaking heart.

Do you think breaking heart is breaking glass cup?

GLASS CUP CONTAINS WATER...HEART CONTAINS, so to speak, LIFE.

You are playing with people's life not glass cup.

WATCH IT...

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 3:44am On Jul 12, 2017

luminouz:

Lmaoooooo

Same goes for you o

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 3:46am On Jul 12, 2017

YelloweWest:

U should have never ask to chose between her friend and u

...that question led me to the truth.

please, when you are in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, always ask question.

don't assume you know everything in your fiancée heart.

remember you are not a spirit...HOW I WISH WE COULD SEE THE MIND OF THE PERSON WE ARE DATING...AND THERE SHALL BE REVELATIONS.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 3:51am On Jul 12, 2017

Homeboiy:
After fúcking her 108 times within 4months

I noticed that there's nothing remaining in her body

I took my leave.

well..I found out that she sleeps around n disrespects me

I let her go

don't always have sex with your partner even when you feel like...it makes you appear strong to your partner.

More so, the more you have sex with her before marriage, the more the chances of losing her to another man.

I figured that out from hundreds of books I've read.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 3:57am On Jul 12, 2017

Frankicent:
Ode...cry for woman

love is accompanied by emotion...
[b]
YOU WILL UNDERSTAND BETTER WHEN YOU FALL IN REAL LOVE NOT LUST.

spectators watching C.Ronaldo and Messi can never, I repeat, can never understand what it means to be a world champion player until they start playing professional football.

[/b]SIMPLE.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:00am On Jul 12, 2017

adewumiopeyemi:
Lies

are you a prophet or liephet or truephet?

whoever you are, tell your truth and stop looking for lies.

whatever you are looking for is what you will see...

Intent of the heart matters...it affect your eyesight.

Someone who is smelling will wake up and say "this room is smelling"

WATCH IT.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:05am On Jul 12, 2017

Angy55:

She is a lesbian.

She is not...SHE IS JUST CRAZY UPSTAIRS.

whatever she said she would do was exactly what she did...ADAMANT.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:11am On Jul 12, 2017

ArcFresky:
I dey date dis bave for 5yrs now, never cheated.

Spent the last two years studying for my mtech, so I was fucking broke.... Naa there I know dis babe wella...
I cant marry someone dat is so disrespectful, very disrespectful.

I want to breakup with her, but its frigging difficult.... What do I do?

brother, are you looking for respect or love?

nobody is perfect, but a lady that loves sincerely is more than near perfect.

even you will have some characters she may not like...so, TOLERATE her if you love her.

Read books on how to change her so that you can learn how husbands change wives...

I read a book about the relationship of JOYCE MEYER...if you were married to that great woman, you would have divorced her.

she loved her husband but she was a hell on earth in terms of behavior...her husband changed her by taking ALL SORTS OF SHEET AND BULL SHI. NO ONE WILL EVER TAKE...

that convinced her and voila, she changed and turned out to be a GREAT WOMAN WITH MILLIONS OF FANS ALL OVER THE WORLD.

her husband is receiving the credit now as a result of MILLIONS OF BOOKS SOLD on the story of how her husband changed her.

tell me who would have bought the book if it is on how divorce my troublesome wife?

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:18am On Jul 12, 2017

missyadorable:

I got married 8 months after my last break up.

Sometimes,the difference btw husband and boyfriend is clear.

Some men will just be boyfriends,when husband comes,its crystal clear.

I love that

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:22am On Jul 12, 2017

ejiskolo:
I pray I could breakup from my own. The trouble don too much. Any attempt, the bobo no gree oooo. I just dey for self bondage............

huuuuhh, I feel your pain.

don't break up because of trouble.

All relationships have their own trouble.

So, for you to enjoy any relationship, you must be a TROUBLE MANAGER.

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:26am On Jul 12, 2017

Sirnucee:
so I was dating this girl while in 100 level
she was about to write waec.
her first excuse was she wanted more time to read..that her parents Wr already suspecting.
I was not suppose to call until after her exams as according to her, her dad seized her phone.

na em I call babe after four days..number go..she sha gave very lame excuses.

the next day she called calling it quit.

not that the break up pained me sha.
but the fact that she broke up with me...nd not me breaking up with her.

t was xo painful sha

Sometimes, I think about life...It's kind of ROLLA COASTER thing.

God help us

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:29am On Jul 12, 2017

EYIBLESSN:
Relationship or what do you call it ? I have been lonely since I was born. I was brought up by my Mum during her lifetime she was my best friend. I lost her in 2011. Things has been somehow. I lost my Dad last year. Though, I spent not up to two years with him. I was lonely throughout my University years. I don't talk to ladies. In 200L My friend push a Lady onto my path we became close. I love her I took her to my eldest Bros in AKURE ,the same Dad not the same Mum. But upon my commitment the Lady was a slot. She van pretends for Africa. I told her to go. She brought unfold lies into my life I seriously love her. Since then I don't take Woman so serious. It's me and social network.

hmmmmmmnnnn...why...why are women like this?

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:31am On Jul 12, 2017

CzarChris:
Rather than writing a very long epistle about my experience with breakup. I would like to summarise it in one short sentence.

No man is born a cheat or a player, check very well an experience made him like that.

That's my submission.

I TOTALLY AGREE TO THAT UNDENIABLE ASSERTION.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:44am On Jul 12, 2017

Nma27:
I really cannot imagine me choosing a girlfriend over my boyfriend o. Its obvious she's a lesbo. Pele. I find it hard imagining a guy crying.. Wonder y

Thank you Nma...

She is not...SHE IS JUST CRAZY UPSTAIRS.

Whatever she said would do was exactly what she did.

About crying...love is accompanied by emotion...

ONE CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND IT UNTIL ONE FINDS ONESELF IN THAT SITUATION.

spectators watching C.Ronaldo and Messi can never, I repeat, can never understand what it means to be a world champion player until they start playing professional football.

SIMPLE.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:48am On Jul 12, 2017

drnoel:

Cry me a river.
Years ago, had this flashy chick I was so interested in. That was until her bestest friend betrayed her and told me the truth about what I had been unaware of. Her friend told me plainly that she herself liked me and that the one I was interested in was not for me.
Told me the girl had a main guy that she was down for, that infact she calls me assistant boyfriend. Funny enof, when the heart wants what it does one is blind to certain things. The girl never gave me nothing, I was the one spending my parents money on her. I didn't even see her pants, nothing.
Anyways after her friends told me what she does and says, I visited them in school and her own friends set her up for me. I was at the door and overheard all their conversation. I heard all she said about me and how she referred to me. It hurt like hell, I thought I was gonno die from the pain. I didn't. I travelled back to my base and thought about my life. I made up my mind then that no more would I ever love any woman so blindly. I threw away her contacts.
This was until she got stranded in my city and came knocking at my door by around 10 pm. I had no idea she was even in town. I almost didn't open the door for her but I was still a nice guy then. I opened the door and even feed her sef.
What knocked me crazy was that what she started saying later, how I abandoned her in school and don't ask about her again and how I didn't care for her. I just told her the story of her life and told her to leave first thing in the morning. Later that night she started touching me, I initially tried to resist but kongi na bastard. I suddenly wanted to blast her, some guys will say atleast with the mindset of collecting back all I had spent. For where?
It wasn't meant to be. She let me get to first base but I never crossed to second base. She refused getting completely naked and never let me even get to her pants. Initially I was devastated but before she left that morning, I knew it was best cos I may have continued playing that fool. Anyways it was one thing that made me hard and mean to women for a long time after that.
Funniest part of the story was that she actually returned after a year, then she was cooling off from a break up with her main boyfriend. She offered me everything, even got naked infront of me around 1 am, hoping to seduce me. I just threw her out of my house. She still calls till date, telling me what a fool she was and how she lost the most wonderful guy that could have made her happy. I alway just roll my eyes.

So sorry to hear brother...

your write-up on break up is THE BEST I'VE READ SO FAR

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Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:50am On Jul 12, 2017

sidneyeze:
i told her is over and got new bae, she pleaded wit me and i accepted her back, shes 100% aware dah m lashing ma new- none of my Biz

HUH....

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by FreeSpirited: 4:53am On Jul 12, 2017

blessingenyo:
we broke up since late last year n he still very fresh in my hrt, it was a very bad one he had issue of trust am a sincere person wen its comes to relationship, but he refused to note that. If I make call with any guy am in trouble there was a day he even slapped me for receiving call from a client. We lasted for a year n broke up twice already he is here again for reconciliation please some one should help me out with a reasonable advice.

U may stay with him for d sake of loneliness but dobt take him serious and dnt put your egg in one basket. A guy that breaks up with u and make up everyday is not stable, he's not emotionally mature. He can hurt you anytime when u least expect.. U deserve who is more confident and mature. A guy who already slapped you......you can get someone better trust me. Keep your options open please! That's if you are not strong enough to break up

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by Nobody: 4:54am On Jul 12, 2017

luminouz:

Hey U!!!!

Hey u too

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 4:58am On Jul 12, 2017

Sincere4u:

Touching.
Hope you've gotten over it.

brother, I'm still fighting it.

HOW I WISH I COULD ERASE MY MEMORY...unfortunately for me, I'm a memory master who hardly forgets things.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by olayiwola4u(m): 5:02am On Jul 12, 2017

TinaAnita:

What a boring/dry joke..
How can your so-called fiancee choose her female friend over you? Is she a lesbian or something? Smh

that you so called joke nearly killed me...

She is nota les...SHE IS JUST CRAZY UPSTAIRS.

Whatever she said she would do was exactly what she did.

About crying...love is accompanied by emotion...

ONE CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND IT UNTIL ONE FINDS ONESELF IN THAT SITUATION.

spectators watching C.Ronaldo and Messi can never, I repeat, can never understand what it means to be a world champion player until they start playing professional football.

SIMPLE.

Re: Share Your BREAK-UP Experience Here For Others To Learn by FreeSpirited: 6:06am On Jul 12, 2017

Tonalphs:
Wow. Nice thread. Reading every page n not dropping mine would be totally wrong.
When I read how guys go extra mile to show how much they love their woman n get dumped, it amazes me. I've been a one man -lady. Never cheated, never really dumped either. But I read between the lines so I know when my own chapter in the relationship book has come to a close. Right now I'm counting a year plus without a relationship. No time to love. Not when all I do is work n work n work. Infact my phone is my bf. Gimme fb, nl news etc n I'm good. #singlennotsearching

So with all this your big yansh no boyfriend abi....It aint bad if u tell us somebody is oiling that ass for u.

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