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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by femi4: 5:57am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:same here....I can't keep friends. I keep loosing them 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by ORIJIN201(m): 6:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
thesuave10:woke up this morning saw a msg, it was her apologizing. Now I have made up my mind to be who I am and probably not giving a fvck too (As I used to). I will be very unusual. Have taken your points into account. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by swegiedon(m): 6:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
whitebeard:my nigga my nigga!!!!......you just described me mehn.....introvert forever!! |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by boninho: 6:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Just like most of us, I don't like crowd, social events and all that Chai, I couldn't open up to my crush for a solid 5 years during University days. I still regret it till date because she did everything a girl could have done to get a guy's attention but I kept thinking too much instead of acting Other times, when it comes to girls, I might like you, call you often but sometimes I might not remember you for days, not that I have an issue with you but just that being meditative drifts my mind to a whole lot of things And when I care, I really care....sometimes I try to force myself not to show it to avoid being taken for granted I'm getting better at communicating with people sha over time now Its a world which gives me inner peace in one second and in another second, I feel why am I like this 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Heterodox(m): 6:14am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven:Everything not in line with a the society is a disorder. But thank you, I don't need a fixing. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 6:16am On Jul 21, 2017 |
paybak:, wen will I have a gf. am also introvert and ivremeber telling my boss, I don't make calls and he thought I was allergic. and am a guy who love women but Neva touch one b4 , I just don't know he to talk to galz. no confident 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Aystarz: 6:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
pryme: This is so me brother - and unfortunately for me, it's beginning to culminate into depression. Can't continue this way.... Just can't! 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Heterodox(m): 6:19am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:Extremely introverted. You can only begin to imagine what's like unable to express emotion in every way. Some people just think I am a robot of some kind. However, when it comes to advice, maturity and friendships, we still prove valuable owing to the high level of IQ we posses. I think the same thing goes for introverts as well. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Geewynn(m): 6:22am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Divay22: u so got the I don't know part...that's my fav line |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Heterodox(m): 6:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Aystarz:You will have to manage it by expressing those thoughts in writing. Write about what you think about. As a schizoid, which entails an extreme level of critical thinking, over usage of the mind, I still don't get depressed. Neither do I know what's that's look. If schizoids can manage their minds, then why not an introvert. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Funjosh(m): 6:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by possibilita(m): 6:26am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I have a problem speaking to ladies or speaking out and I also don't know how to ask for help especially when I really need and I don't feel emotional attachment to any body except my phone 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by ademijuwonlo(f): 6:27am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I make frnds easily when I go out but I don't like keeping frnds. Being alone makes me happy and gives me peace of mind. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Pylony(m): 6:27am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wins18: The thing is, in this part of the world, people just don't understand us or don't want to. Similarly, i don't make the most phone calls or visits and frnds and family want to believe am avoiding them for that. And whats the big deal, telling them you're am introvert? As well, i don't have or believe in Best Frnds, feels cold when i approach a lady to express my feelings to, i rather take style and do it on phone than face it head on lolz. We need to be understood, its funny to note that many relationship are broken simply because there is a halt in phone calls from the either of the partners. Lets get to understand our temperament in a relationship, that way it will wax stronger. 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Heterodox(m): 6:28am On Jul 21, 2017 |
ismailaja:You have got confidence, you only fail to see it. You not touching a woman is characteristic for a schizoid. I am saying you may just be more than an introvert. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by ademijuwonlo(f): 6:29am On Jul 21, 2017 |
possibilita:I don't like asking for pple' help and I get over pple easily too 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Gabrendo(m): 6:30am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wins18: I don't believe in labels. I am myself. I don't belong in categorizing people. Everyone are different in their own unique way. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 6:33am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Hmmm I hate going out Sometimes I go out alone as it's inevitable, if u see me walking seems I just learnt how to walk , buh it's all cool If I must I tag some1 along About gals I seem to notice d ones dat like me early And I suddenly become an extrovert I like my privacy I hate calls, it's like they are disturbing me I rarely call that's a reason my last relationship didn't work I think a lot , cos am always alone If I dnt know u am dumb Buh if we have built dat level of friendship, and u have to b damn persistent Am a talkative And even at dat I avoid pple a lot My phone is my greatest companion Being introverted has its own perks Buh u dnt need to b told am an introvert 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by dehi: 6:35am On Jul 21, 2017 |
This introvert thing has done more harm to me than good. Am just too quiet for God sake. I just have few words on my lips. Making new friends is a problem especially the female forks ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by whizzyleejr(m): 6:35am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I hate partying, i don't make friends, i talk less, never contribute to what someone is doing, can't ask a girl out but i like to be alone 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MisterKings(m): 6:36am On Jul 21, 2017 |
sirfee: Yeeeaaa i agree. Hereditary and upbringing plays a significant role 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by ORIJIN201(m): 6:37am On Jul 21, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by judgedredd22(m): 6:40am On Jul 21, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 6:41am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I have a lot of challenges. Because of my introverted nature I didn't enjoy school life like i was supposed to. For the past 4 years all i had were crushed who never knew I crushed on them. To start conversation na wahala especially with the opposite sex. Now I'm leaving school soon with no sense of achievement except in my academics . Even to relate with my family na wahala.I enjoy solitude. I even relate with friends more...and it's the reason why I've been single for the past 4 years while all my friends have babes. The struggle is real 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by neighy(m): 6:49am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Well my own different m somewhere in between.. I keep to myself alot, smile/laugh alot n can be very troublesome 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by WRAKE(m): 6:50am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Lmao |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by lereinter(m): 6:51am On Jul 21, 2017 |
who is an introvert and how does he or her know he is an introvert and not affected by evironmental and upbringing factors can an overprotective or over strict parent turn a child to an introvert iask due to personal experience 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by wakes: 6:53am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Introverts are the coolest people on earth. 1. They hardly OFFEND others. 2. They are very NICE people. 3. They make great INVENTORS in life, they are usually very intelligent. 4. They take calculative decisions though SLOWLY ![]() 5. Their quiet nature makes them talk less and SIN less. 6. They keep few friends but are always FAITHFUL friends you can always rely on for help, etc. 7. They give loans or are owed almost for life since they find it difficult to ask for their money back. Lol! 8. Their strength lies in Reading and writing hence their are almost always book worms. 9. Their EXCITEMENT is shirt lived and people take them for sadists. But in reality, they enjoy life as SPECTATORS and would not want to be in the spotlight. 10. In relationships they are actually boring (not all) but if you understand them you will know how to get them to talk. 11. They are commonly PHLEGMATIC and MELANCHOLIC. Now can I talk to you my fellow Introvert, You may be misunderstood for being MOODY or keeping MALICE, don't give a damn, God knows who you are. Don't try to explain why you are who you are. Can I tell you? you a unique person who God has packaged perfectly. You will marry your partner, don't worry about that. You may not be sociable but that is a strength in disguise. You are a great personality! To help you more, go pick this title: WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO. by TIM LAHAYE. God bless y'all introverts. I love you!!! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Shawlambivert(m): 6:53am On Jul 21, 2017 |
A friend once called me a Sadist because he said something and I was indifferent about it. Then he was like... "Sadist mani eleyii". I was shocked as Bleep. All I could do was ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by samwise180(m): 6:54am On Jul 21, 2017 |
situation where i was with my roommates who happened to be extroverts,whenever they discuss random things and i try contributing to what they are saying,they will stop what they were discussing and say i am odd. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by repogirl(f): 6:54am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Used to be intro when I was younger and it did have its consequences. These days I try to be a lot more outgoing(when I need to be), dont know if its cos I'm older, but I determined that I wouldn't let my shyness and quietness keep me from what I need to do. Friendship is still overrated to me anyway. Still prefer being by myself most times, friends usually turn out quite disappointing. 10 Likes 1 Share |
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