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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by neighy(m): 6:56am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Emzyme: this is almost me.. Nd about galx we hardly get past the friendZone.. Just 1 step taking us outta dia.. than take the step i'll rather we start all over again |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by klassykute(m): 6:58am On Jul 21, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 6:58am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I hardly talk to someone i haven't meant before especially the opposite sex, i keep a lot of things to myself, i can't pass a day without thinking too much on mind, I love to be alone.. could this be that am also an introvert ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 7:01am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hehe 1 Like
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by klassykute(m): 7:01am On Jul 21, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:i swear my bro i neva ask one girl out o but i dn date rch 4 wit betta banging lol.. smtimes i love dis introvert tin o i no go lie 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by neighy(m): 7:04am On Jul 21, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 7:06am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Emzyme:In my case I wasn't never allowed to go out play with friends Imagine they helped craft d introverted nature deeper into my system Very foolishly strict parents Let's stop here for now 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by anneboleyn(f): 7:06am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I tend to shy away from large crowds. And I don't like being the cynosure of eyes at any social gathering........i tend to prefer being in the background than being in the spotlight 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by neighy(m): 7:07am On Jul 21, 2017 |
martins18:i ask that question too.. Buh talking to the opposite sex things(someone u avnt met) sometimes i just take it as respecting mysef coz ladies can be so funny attimes 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by biotechshola(m): 7:07am On Jul 21, 2017 |
My challenges Find it extremely difficult going out and meeting new people. Have few or no friends at all. Calling people is climbing to the top of Kilimanjaro, even if it's to seek help. People are somehow scare to approach or relate with me, thinking I may snub but I rarely do that. Most of the time, I have to go extra miles to prove my simplicity, humility and friendliness. However, few people who understand me are always full of praise for my impeccable and humane personality. 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by AyoSammyTunDe(m): 7:08am On Jul 21, 2017 |
klassykute:same here bro. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 7:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
iPurge:You know, there's this thing called emotional intelligence. It's understanding why people behave the way they behave and knowing how to act in different situation. Why would you blame someone else for your actions? You said you are annoying, now you're suffering depression because of of them? You just admit having a personality flaw, work on yourself Bro. ...Why would anyone claim to be an introvert when they are not? Yes, some people don't truly understand their personality; some are just shy, some have low self confidence/esteem and so think they are introverted. it's not because there's a medal for it, its just because that's what they think they are. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by flamingREED(m): 7:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Introverts? . No one studies like them. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by possibilita(m): 7:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
ademijuwonlo:i have a problem forgetting things 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by afoobabs(m): 7:10am On Jul 21, 2017 |
there are two way to overcoming being an introvert 1. try and become an IDGAF i.e. I don't give a Bleep in real life stop concerning ursef with what ppl say, think or feel abt you, it doesn't really matter more so who even get ur time the world don't give a Bleep so u shouldn't as well. introverts think and feel all eyes are on them which is wrong everyman has his/ her own problem that he is facing squarely so they aren't looking at you 2. The spirit of street. you can hardly find an introvert in the street the spirit of the street will chase out the introvert out of u any street guy will understand this. in most case introvert are kids from reserved home gra, estate flats self con and so on there lifestyle has been program to be secluded. they can live for months without talking to neighbors but living in the street gives u the opportunity to have encounter with people day in day out u will be forced out of ur shell. I can relate with what every one has been saying. but this two things help a lot now am becoming a talkative I can now initiate a convo among friends. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Idenyidanielewa(m): 7:11am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky: |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Naughtytboy: 7:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:why not give me ur contact Let's introvert ourselves,, I can keep u company.. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by saabright(m): 7:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Cleopatra4: U nid to be an ambivert at times......force ursef.. that's wat I do most times, it helps 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 7:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
The gathering of complex cases. Mine is worse enough. It makes some people who don't know me well enough think that I am some kind of silent psycho. Some girl in my class once described me as eccentric. I wonder if she even really knew what that meant back then. But at the end of the day,its just me: Not too many pals,no social gatherings<except you count my evenings out playing football>,no nothing and I remain Ok in my skin and it also makes me happy to know there are lots of people like this guy on this forum and I am bloody pleased to meet y'all. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by soflygerian(m): 7:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:Asin they just don't get us!! 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by whitebeard(m): 7:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
swegiedon: ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by dd12345: 7:18am On Jul 21, 2017 |
yea |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by natureem: 7:22am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Am not much of a talker, put me on the stand and I'll end up saying rubbish but give me time to write on it; you'll be amazed by my content. It's always noisy in my head cos I do a lot of thinking but noise in the environment puts me off 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by adetounblessing(f): 7:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Not a complete introvert thou..... Talk when enjoy the conservation... But get bored easily.... Everything seems boring to me.... Always thinking and calculating meaningless things.... keeping cold face to avoid people talking to me....... Hardly trust people... Everybody does thing for one reason or another... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by saabright(m): 7:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
she always complain that am not romantic........am too shy, and can't openly show my love for her in public....... is it cos I am an introvert? pls any similar issue here? 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 7:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
cooltola:It's possible and that's like the coolest thing ever. You get to enjoy the pecks of both without being disadvantaged. You switch to whatever mode suits you and if you can balance, you're good. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by shegxsam(m): 7:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
[color=#006600][/color][b][/b] being an introverts, I rarely move out with friends, always alone most of the time, difficult to communicate with others, also a problem to face the crowd or speak in front of the crowd, the courage is not there, pls how can someone defeats things like this? |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by bookorlah(f): 7:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I cherish my quiet moments |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by soflygerian(m): 7:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I worry alot about things I ordinarily should not be..
I can't stand irregularities, I just need everything well co-ordinated..
Extremely choosey when it comes to friends and ultimately the opposite sex..
I get bored with shallow conversation. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Iamzik: 7:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
samyomz: I was extremely introverted back in school and being a computer science student who loves programming made it worse. You could be talking to me when I'm doing a mental run of an algorithm... I no go answer you. Always seeing codes in my dream. Funny enough the solution to most problems Ive solved came this way so I don't fight it. Who school babe help? Relax you will meet alot of them in the real world and in your profession. By then your only problem will be choice. Try not to be too uptight. Just take your time to develop your social skills cos you will need to interact with colleagues /bosses /contractors at work. The introverted nature gets better with time if you work on improving your social skills. Start with baby steps. Join a volunteer group or youth group in your church /club. As you contribute to achieving set goals of the group you will be encouraged to know that you were part of something exciting and that helps your psyche alot. It helps you know the value of collaboration, accept criticism, offer and accept help from others etc And remember great men collaborate. No man ever became great by locking himself away from the world. Even computer technology trend emphasize the need to share data, network and collaborate. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Geewynn(m): 7:26am On Jul 21, 2017 |
lelvin:Gbam....we can love badly ehn....but once we hate u just forget it |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SurestG(f): 7:30am On Jul 21, 2017 |
boninho: You've said it all brother. I'm smiling in one second and in another my mood has changed. I like being alone most times because people around me don't understand me at times. I can be caring too All the same I like myself this way because it keeps me out of trouble most times. |
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