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Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
elantraceey:you can't love someone that does not have the qualities you want. Love is a verb. Qualities are adjectives... it names an attribute of a person. So you got to love the attributes thus loving the person. All points to the the doing word Love 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by jaygem(m): 2:45pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
blackbeau1:You said it all! Case closed 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Heromaniaa: 2:46pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by seunny4lif(m): 2:46pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
remi1444:Worse position
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Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by kaypound(m): 2:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Love is never enough... Marry your friend that understands you. 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Sexyolori(f): 2:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
BleSSedMee:Love is never enough to sustain a marriage,there are other things involved but to have a successful married life love must be involved. Love will birth respect, care, tolerance etc. 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by banmee(m): 2:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Where do all this rubbish threads come from? I hope seun is not paying them for this poor quality. |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Humility017(m): 2:47pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
BleSSedMee:well said....also marry someone that whose personality is compatible wit you.... feelings sometimes goes down....but it is the understanding and compactibility that keeps both together. .. 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by iRepNaija1: 2:48pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Marry the person you love. If you do, you'll want to put your best foot forward and make the relationship fulfilling and long-lasting. Besides, who's to say that those people who marry first without the love find love later on in the marriage? Despite what people claim, you might not have a very open mind when marrying someone you don't love. Edit: I forgot to add something. No one can determine the future. But wouldn't it be nice to look forward to it with the person you love? That way, no matter what the future holds, it won't matter because you'll be together. 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by fatymore(f): 2:49pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Marry the one you feel comfortable with... What am I saying marry your friend.... |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Humility017(m): 2:49pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
alexialin:you're so intelligent..... bless you for this |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by claremont(m): 2:49pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
The concept of love is overrated, and with time, it will die a natural death. The reason why our forbears had long-lasting marriages wasn't because of love, it was because they got married to someone they were compatible with. Compatibility means a lot of things, I don't have time to write about it here. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by free2ryhme: 2:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Trueigbo: Do wetin come your mind as the world will not be living with you in your house |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by plaetton: 2:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Benita27:My dear, do you know what love really is? Love has different Facets. Sexual love, which most people know as love, is simply a chemical reaction, an illusion that inevitably wears off sooner or later. The deeper you think you are in love with someone, the deeper the illusion. Such love has grand expectations, desires and demands. Heartbreak and unhappiness comes from the agony of unfulfilled expectations and desires. This love always tend to fail the test of time. Now, on the other hand , the love that grows and evolves over time is sturdier and more resilient, having been built stage by stage on foundations of trust, respect, friendship and family cohesion. So, here , we see here that one type of love grows with time, while the other tend to wither with time. 9 Likes |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by perdollar(m): 2:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
buhari stole my TSA of 6yrs but thank God I found my GOC. |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
alexialin:are you saying when you "grow in love, you can't fall out of love"... compare the 2 bolded. Or do you grow forever in love. It's easy, just as when one starts courting, one may not really be ready to fall in love but at sometime, you realise the person is so awesome and then you fall in love. If someone does not share same values with you, you can't love in the first instance. What many call love is lust an infatuation. Will you remain by your partner in hard times? Will you go hungry because he cannot provide at sometime? Will you sacrifice your last for your partner? When you can answer that question genuinely, you will know if you love your partner. Yes, marriage is sweet but truth is its no joke. It's best life teaches one lessons when still courting, it will help in making some decisions. As a guy, have you had friends you didn't have a fight with, if yes... then you don't have any true friends. There are people who have been friends since childhood but stop being friends after one disagreement. These ar people that grew in love. Now imagine, living with a friend all the remaining days of your life. |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by merryossai(m): 2:56pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
not minding d fact that pre marriage relationship can b deceptive at times, that doesn't mean we marry the person we don't love, but remember that love is continuous process, so therefore its important we love and respect d person we marry. #after marriage love is more essential. 2 Likes |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
MediumStout:I agree with your post on lust... Thats what we have in this present age. But saying love is not enough is a mis point. Everything needed to sustain a marriage comes with love. |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Evidenx(m): 3:01pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
MARRY THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND TOGETHER BOTH OF YOU GROW THE EXISTING LOVE TO BE MORE AND MORE.... WISDOM RIGHT? � � |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by MediumStout(m): 3:03pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
majekdom2: My guy whatever your definition of love means is known to you. That thing most people call love quickly fade of between partners within few years of marriage. Love may be active at the starting point but you need tolerance, understanding of your partner and ability to forgive easily to prevent untimely divorce. Since we are not perfect i wont agree with the word love. If you love someone for real you won't hide your finances from your partner. You won't cheat on someone you love and so on which is prevalent among young couples chewing the word love in their mouth like gums but act contrary to their thoughts 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
plaetton:that is lust... Love is love, same way truth is truth! A man that does not love his fellow man cannot love a woman. A man that steals and can kill a fellow man cannot love a woman. He is either in lust o obsessed with that being. Thats how it works. I don't mean to come religious. The bible says, Love your neighbour as yourself even if you can't love completely, love. The same bible says, husband's, love your wife. I grow to love someone when the person pleases you in all. God loves us regardless of our sins. But he shows more love to those that please him. Thats how it work. And who are those that please God, the ones that share his values... so you can't love someone who does not share your value. You can't be friends in the first instance. 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
claremont:can you love someone you are not compatible with.. He'll No. The movies have made us to have a different understanding of love. All these telemundo, romeo and juliet kind of love. Love is broad itself! |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by bobnatlo(m): 3:08pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Abeg marry the one u luv then u can graduate/master in lov |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by plus7(m): 3:09pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Trueigbo: The question that needs answer is what has changed between the time of our fore fathers and now ![]() Lots have changed, our parents have this enduring spirit and patience..... On the other hand, now we leave in the NOW, we want everything now, we can't wait for anything. That being said the situation is very dicey. My one cent is marry who you love(but not those you see in movies and read about in novels, they don't happen most of the time). It is better and could save a lots...... |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Juliearth(f): 3:10pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Love is overrated...it takes morethan love to make a relationship/marriage work. 4 Likes |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
MediumStout:Good you said, my understanding of love. I use my biblical knowledge of love. 1st cor 13:4-end. If you are a christain you can read that. You will see all of those attributes you mention comes with true love. |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Juliearth:true love never fails. |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by mrdna(m): 3:14pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Does love exist? |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by TheMainMan: 3:14pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Humility017:... wish i could like dt comment a million times 1 Like |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by Humility017(m): 3:17pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
TheMainMan:seriously. ...I have always love her comments. she is very knowledgeable 2 Likes |
Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by ehioziosa: 3:19pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
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Re: Marry and Grow In Love Or Marry The Person You Love, Which One Is Better? by MrIcredible: 3:19pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Benita27:Marry the one that loves you and (you) think you grow in love with... |
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