mztubsy:
I just remembered that I was supposed to share something yesterday but was too tired to type. I received a big insult on Sunday. As I type this, i'm still furious. you see, i'm a choleric*1million(I'm grateful today that I'm a lot better than I used to be). how I courted my hubby for 6years before finally tying the knot sef dey surprise me. I've got -1000 tolerance for rubbish, but God her...mtscheww.

My darling, don't even pay any attention to her, don't even plan anything towards her. Avoid them as much as you can, pray for them. If we love only those who love us, are we better than them?, please you know what you are looking for, its not the girl that is talking, there is a spirit behind her, and it wants you to be provoked and lose all your rewards.

The bible says in James 3:16 "For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work." Bareness is one of the work of the evil one, when next you see her, say hi and move on. If she answers you in a rude manner, don't call her again, tell the Holy spirit to teach you how you should behave, and respond to people, its not easy my dear, but with Gods help, we can do all things.

Have a great day love, and baby dust to everyone...

AyeyiMaame:
My dear darling mummies/daddies,

I miss you guys ooooo. I just thought I should give ya'll update on how far the Lord has brought us.

So my LO(baby boy) was delivered safely on 12th April 2017 at exactly 1:40 pm in the afternoon. He is doing very well and just turned 4mths and 2weeeks exactly today. He was officially christened on July 1st. His full name is Jaydenn(God has heard) Kuuku(Wednesday born) Aseda(Thankful, grateful) Asabir. I will post his picture very soon.

My sisters God has been good to me and I encourage you all not give up for though it tarries it will surely come to Pass. I have all of you darlings at heart and in my prayers.

I love you and God bless you

Wow, congrats mama, God will keep you all and give you many more blessings

Nice one legendsmother and Mum TT. Lets all bring out our swag n slay for our dh's. Oya o,who has tips on how to clear black spots on d face? Its becoming an embarrassment

AyeyiMaame:
My dear darling mummies/daddies,

I miss you guys ooooo. I just thought I should give ya'll update on how far the Lord has brought

My sisters God has been good to me and I encourage you all not give up for though it tarries it will surely come to Pass. I have all of you darlings at heart and in my prayers.

I love you and God bless you

Congrats AyeyiMaame....he shall be a blessed child.

Heebah:
Nice one legendsmother and Mum TT. Lets all bring out our swag n slay for our dh's. Oya o,who has tips on how to clear black spots on d face? Its becoming an embarrassment

Try fresh pawpaw. Mash and apply on the face for 15-30 Min before washing . Freeze the rest. Do it thrice a week. You can also try egg white. Remember consistency is the key.

Nice one legendsmother and mum TT.Abeg,who knows a good body cream and soap I can use which out harsh chemical,since una know say who dey TTC need weti harsh for skin
Seriously,i wish I can forget abt this TTC and live my life to fullness! Like catching my groove back!

Good day mamas, one question please.
Must one take antibiotics after hsg?
please, for mamas that have done hsg before, did you take antibiotics after the procedure?
thank you

lynda1:
Good day mamas, one question please.
Must one take antibiotics after hsg?
please, for mamas that have done hsg before, did you take antibiotics after the procedure?
thank you

Yes,you must,to prevent any infection that may have occurred during the procedure.

The kind of birth announcement dat will fall on this thread is going to check nl. With this kind of positive mindset, your prayers will receive speedy replies.

Baby dusts to all the mamas here
Waiting for the birth alerts.

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Janix2:


Yes,you must,to prevent any infection that may have occurred during the procedure.

thanks a lot for the reply.

legendsmother:


My dear u said d words right out of my mouth , TTC has made some mamas forget how to do colour combination , who never born nor dey draw eyebrow? Some don't even want to post Facebook pics again cuz they feel people are tracking them , some no longer resemble the woman their dh fell in love with and married they are so tattered for no reason Is DAT one I cannot comma understand self o! some like legendmother don loose track of her flat tummy ( ) Some don turn old women for no just cause pls pls pls pls God does not give big battles to small soldiers my beloved my coming back to this thread was with a positive attitude let us all wake up to reality
Sister with irregular period, ovarian cyst, blocked tube, one tube, pcos and other conditions pls pray and also do well to see a doctors there are many things that does not need us sulking for,
Don't play d pity party! On yourself
Some even want people to pity them cuz dem never born!
Orgini!!!!! Pls pls pls let us know that with or without a child ( for now)

You matter
You are whole
Your husband loves u
You will get that bfp
Your nights of cry will end when u see ur bfp
You will be a future mum, and mum inlaw to somebody
Your children will suck ur Brest
You will back ur children
You will celebrate their one year bday
You will celebrate their sweet 16bdays
You will rock them to sleep
Stop d pity party
Your situation now does not determine ur stand in life

Pls lets pay attention to ourselves no baby wants an unkept mummy

It got to a point only problem! problem! problem! we discuss here pls let's all encourage yourself to share life experiences as we go through this journey may God help us Ami!

God bless you mama for this, you were actually talking to me but thank God am getting my groove back Lil by Lil.

I will not let ttc steal my swagger again, never.

Thanks MummyJJ,i will give it a try

MummyJJ:

Try fresh pawpaw. Mash and apply on the face for 15-30 Min before washing . Freeze the rest. Do it thrice a week. You can also try egg white. Remember consistency is the key.

legendsmother:


Laugh don kill me for ground chei! @wig
My dear in-laws can b crazy sometimes, d only thing I would advice u is ignore, just pay dem deaf ears don't do anything that wud bring exchange of insults and know ur boundaries with ur in-laws , avoid frequent visitation y do u even attend same church lol I avoid in-laws as much as possible o, I do what is required of me as a daughter in law but d luck I get b say all my bro n sister in-laws are my junior so DAT respect dey. Make dis mess wake her from sleep for vexing my able mama

Neeways days TTC for u na hormones dey on rampage biko forgive n forget we love u plenty
@wig OK lemme laugh again hahhahahahahha

my dear, I also do avoid them. It's just a pure co-incidence that we attend the same church. As for frequent visits, our houses are in the same location. Any mama that stays in FESTAC would understand. I barely show my face at their family house. Mother in law complains she doesn't see me too often.
......As for the Mumu geh, i'm not pissed anymore. There are better things to channel my energy into. TTC is enough drama on its own.

MumTT:
mztubsy, I don laff taya. I just dey imagine how she go dey find the wig and how her hair go be. E fit b front hair rat chop like my own.

I can't advise you on in laws matter o cause I don see shege for their hands right from wedding day and na two set I get because of divorce and remarriage. The papa side dey try, na d mama own na in terrible but I thank God for giving me a man who quotes and believe seriously the bible passage that says a man shall leave his father and his mother and cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh. If not, I for meet my load for outside one day. Thank God.

Is the said cousin married? If not, leave her. Karma and nemesis go do collabo for her head. You too big for her level. Let your husband fight the battle. Instead do them pepper them gang. Ginger your swagger. Na dat one dey pain dem pass.

By the time you born your twins now, na dem go crawl come with shame dey shine teeth like goat wey die for junction.

It is well with you.

thanks love. Just what I needed to hear. God bless you real good.......trailer loads of baby dust your way

Bennyboo:
@ mztubsy. You are a very good narrator and you shabi type ..I wasn't bored reading every lines.. I can't stop laughing , you are eligible to apply for a script writer with all the suspense and funny characters in your story

Nevertheless please keep your calm, she's too small to bring you down to her low level of reasoning and actions. She wants to trigger the choleric part of you, so will you allow her ?? Will you u allow her succeed?? When she throws lemons at you my dear turn it around and make a lemonade. Keep shining and strong faithed ,your testimony is nearer than she thinks.
And dey include her for your prayers, that God should show himself mightily and let your mockers be put to an elegant shame.

na vex cause am jare. I just had to let it out..... thanks mama. God bless you.

MumTT:
legendsmother, I must applaud your effort in trying to bring life into this thread. Sometimes this thread is like someone walking down the street and sees a big house with just a candle light (you and some mamas here) and just next door is a house filled with so much light, rejoicing and laughter. Are we saying because we don't have kids or want more, we don't have joy, laughter or fun in our lives? All we ever discuss are AF, hsg, ovarian cysts, fertility drugs etc. Shuu! People no dey fight for una area? Una no dey watch film ne? Una no get annoying colleague or boss for office? Or dey cook food wey we never see before? Or travel go place wey we never hear before? No artist wey go show us her paintings? No business woman to advertise her goods and services? I know I'm guilty too but the fear of being ignored especially when a particular drug or ailment is the topic of discussion, holds me back and work wey no let me see road but legendsmother don ginger my swagger.

There's more to life than having children o. Ask wife wey cut husband pompom after six children because she caught him cheating or husband wey break wife head because na only one piece of meat she give am yet they get three boys and one girl or those battling it out in the divorce courts even though they have kids.

It is well with us o.

#spreadjoy
#spreadlove
#spreadfun

kuku kee me with laff

FruitfulRay:


My darling, don't even pay any attention to her, don't even plan anything towards her. Avoid them as much as you can, pray for them. If we love only those who love us, are we better than them?, please you know what you are looking for, its not the girl that is talking, there is a spirit behind her, and it wants you to be provoked and lose all your rewards.

The bible says in James 3:16 "For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work." Bareness is one of the work of the evil one, when next you see her, say hi and move on. If she answers you in a rude manner, don't call her again, tell the Holy spirit to teach you how you should behave, and respond to people, its not easy my dear, but with Gods help, we can do all things.

Have a great day love, and baby dust to everyone...

thanks mama. Your comments are always uplifting. I see u r back from peeping mode. Love ya

This thread Don dey run for africa well done for keeping the thread busy.
Just strolling by and decided to hail my people,una goodevening oo!
For those of us in our 2 weeks wait,i pray that God will give us our long awaited BFP in Jesus Name! Amen.
Dinner time,who cares to join me

@legendsmother, I totally concur with you and by the way thanks for bringing the thread back to life. It was all "fertility talks" and nothing else. I personally got tired of it all. I would come,check and nothing spicy or fun.....but thank God!!! Selfie Sundays are back baby!!!! Very soon we"d plan a beach party. Let's bring sexy back!!!! Biko, i cannot come and go and kill myself.

Janix2:
This thread Don dey run for africa well done for keeping the thread busy.
Just strolling by and decided to hail my people,una goodevening oo!
For those of us in our 2 weeks wait,i pray that God will give us our long awaited BFP in Jesus Name! Amen.
Dinner time,who cares to join me

janjan, e be like say u dey inside spirit. I'm cooking beans. Mami, ur food look so nice, if u no go mind I go like to sample am!

omowunmigan:
Thanks sysengr and Loisemm . Favouredmom, trust you're doing great. It's been a really long while..appears no one remembers me. Better back to hibernation. Wishing everyone boundless joy soonest. Goodnight.

I remember you gannnnnnnnn o. And I miss you. You have a beautiful heart and Allah will surprise you more than you expect soon.

mztubsy:
janjan, e be like say u dey inside spirit. I'm cooking beans. Mami, ur food look so nice, if u no go mind I go like to sample am!

Thanks Sis,abeg U are free to sample am oo,the food sweet ehen,na to sleep win am oo! No time,TTC no say make person no chop .

prettymaxy:

sorry my tab got stolen so I've not been available. I later didn't do amh cos we later saw prof himself and he didn't require it all I needed was hsg, he said cos of my age I didn't need to do hormonal assay, but dh did SFA, hormonal assay and all.
my experience prof is good they are all about procedure I.e iui, ivf. they are expensive sha

sorry abt the loss of ur tab..kweshions plenty for my mouth o
yes its an expensive place, did the iui work?..did they wash and sort the swimmers?..how many times were u inseminated... also what treatment were u put on to produce many eggs?

Heebah:
Nice one legendsmother and Mum TT. Lets all bring out our swag n slay for our dh's. Oya o,who has tips on how to clear black spots on d face? Its becoming an embarrassment

have u tried natural honey. morning and night. works like magic.!!!!!

MGeey:


Cherrymu, abeg what's the jajaina that you people are talking about?

Haaaaa oturupeke, jajaina is the only machine in this world that can give and take big and small things and still shrink back and give ultimate pleasure to the visitor that graces its abode.

Jajaina is your gravitational female core....warefa that means mehn.

With these few points of mine I hope I've been able to expantiate on the effectiveness of jajaina in today's society... thank you

Mztubsy, chillax. God says, "vengeance is mine.
Abeg press your IGNORE button. When you are big you are large!
Anybody that uses TTC to insult or give another person attitude... Hmmmmmm. Children aren't formed by sperm and eggs. Na God dey show mercy. It's of God to give children.

cherrymum1:


Haaaaa oturupeke, jajaina is the only machine in this world that can give and take big and small things and still shrink back and give ultimate pleasure to the visitor that graces its abode.

Jajaina is your gravitational female core....warefa that means mehn.

With these few points of mine I hope I've been able to expantiate on the effectiveness of jajaina in today's society... thank you

You are one razz head mama...lol. I know THE jajaina. I was interested in the "fin cares" they were talking about. Got to know its a secret Facebook group for women. I dey look for who to add me since that time.

Shebi una c wetin una encouragement don cause.... Na so i siddon with mamas for area come down one full bottle of zobo.... Minutes after na 'yeh!!! Menstruation don show' .... Dem come dey look me like say i nuh dey expect am. Well i was expecting it in six days time n not today sha.. How was ur day mamas??

Good evening fruitful mamas, please can someone recommend a good gynecologist in lagos? Ikeja to be precise. Im in a terribly confused state at the moment.... someone please help!!!

Janix2:
Nice one legendsmother and mum TT.Abeg,who knows a good body cream and soap I can use which out harsh chemical,since una know say who dey TTC need weti harsh for skin
Seriously,i wish I can forget abt this TTC and live my life to fullness! Like catching my groove back!

U can try extract lotion with the soap, its natural. Nature secret soap and lotion z ok too

Heebah:
Nice one legendsmother and Mum TT. Lets all bring out our swag n slay for our dh's. Oya o,who has tips on how to clear black spots on d face? Its becoming an embarrassment

If I tell u will u do it? Hahahhahaha pls don't laugh me o dere is dis bar soap they call Cameron's soap its white and long in a sachet like canoe and it foams a lot when u use to wash I use DAT soap to wash my face once weekly and my dark pimple spots have all gone. Na so I introduce am give my sisters o just once a week would do d trick