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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pedrilo: 8:59pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
YelloweWest:Lol, Good for u, but stop casting urself online, coz u might be shocked to realize u r chatting with someone richer than ur hubby. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by sisisioge: 9:00pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Funny responses here and there OP, creditors have a rule book, you know. 1. Never lend money you can not afford to call a bad debt. 2. Never lend money to those you are scre.wing unless you are prepared for the highly probably bad debt. 3. Never lend money to families and close friends with expectation of having a regular creditor-debtor relationship. 4. Never enter into business transactions with loved ones without some formalities thrown in. Actually, I have always held these rules to heart and never really gotten hurt. An ex is owing me 400k, another ex is owing me over 70k, I've got friends owing small small monies written off. Yet, I'm one heck of a broke a.zs. If you can't afford to let it go, don't even give it out! As per the guy, since the money is so dear to you now, I suggest you try to see him one on one and ask for the money. Don't even think of any rekindled romance cos he's apparently lost confidence in you too. I can only imagine how much you have bugged his life with the "give me my money" mantra. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
missyadorable: How pathetic...How did i curse you ma'am? No surprise, this is how the leaders at the top are. I wish you the best of luck in life... |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pedrilo: 9:00pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
YelloweWest:Lol, Good for u, but stop casting urself online, coz u might be shocked to realize u r chatting with someone richer than u and ur hubby. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by NoToPile: 9:00pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Tuham: So he can't open his mouth to say he has not gotten back to his feet, no picking of calls no communication because of that? If he had communicated to her she won't be thinking of the word dupe, you go blank on your fiancee because of money. Its an irresponsible person that does that. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Goldfaze1: 9:01pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
you did well for trying to support your fiancée business, but you did wrong to withdraw from the relationship just bcs the man is going through some hard time, what if he had married you b4 the business started facing this storm you will forget the for better for worse that you proclaimed at the alter of marriage, he may just be trying to fix other dept he hold outside b4 coming back to you bcs he believe you will give him less trouble I can bet with you, you are the last person he would have turn to for help bcs he will like to keep his respect as man, you put money first and never give the relationship a second thought I think this our generation is full of scam pls after you collect your money do not marry this guy bcs you do not love him you know that deep in your mind and you said it, all you just want right now is your money. 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 9:01pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
thesuave10: Lol.She is not engaged. Forget about that marriage ish,its not a do or die affair.The guy may not be interested as much as she is. Please forget that marriage ish!Someone who is broke ,how can he get married? She borrowed him money to revive his company, pray tell,how is he going to cope with paying back with interest and the expenses that comes with marriage? .Except he sees the lady as a bail out fund of course. Let's be realistic now,remove the idea of "marriage' from this discourse. How is she going to get her money back? 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Lol, they're just displaying foolishness on a public forum. I hope the op learns sha 'cause ladies have been duped ostensibly with marriage proposal. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
kimbraa: I agree, i hope you can see why the country is stuck in mediocrity, just like me, i hope you're seeing the mindset of the so-called leaders of tomorrow... |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by tosyne2much(m): 9:04pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:Hahaha .. Na where the guy no pick calls him fucck up Shey you saw one guy's comment on the first saying if you must borrow money, please avoid borrowing from a woman you're romantically involved with cos she'll rub it on your face and spite you if for any reason you don't pay back as agreed. Do you agree with that assertion? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Dear OP, if this is completely true, God bless oh for attempting wat I fitnt try again. and I still unapologetically will not try it. If I can't let the money go, I won't eva lend, cos I actually dont borrow too. Op said fiance nd lot of persons are already calling him her husband. Dear OP don't let anyone make u feel bad, u did want most can't and haven't done yet some persons still want to have an opinion and want to make u to feel sorry., but since this is already done, u can afford to give him some more time and talk bout it with him. One lesson I have learnt in this life as a lady, is to keep your head (with humility) high enough and your middle finger even higher enough too. Loll |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: yimu. what stupid relationship is she saving. why didn't communication change before he collected the money, afterall he was under pressure then. All I see here is you asking op to buy marriage with 500k. they haven't even been together for up to a year. this is no different from those Facebook scammers that will message you from the abroad, do long distance relationship with you, when you start catching feelings they then give you one cock and bull story about their mama being ill, so baby send money to my mom. I'll pay you back. after which they stop answering. I see they are now operating in real life. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by humilitypays(m): 9:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Sterope:ewo, I don enter 1 chance today o. I am not a sexist o!!! I love women, including u typing....i come here to unwind and to read about ipod and Buhari lol Then read romance stories to catch up with what's up in the society and love kini. Of course if the girl decides to quit, he will feel bad emotionally but never financially I meant ok. But girls don't breakup or quit with good-looking, financially able, educated, wise and smart guy na. Ladies dump mostly dumb, dull, shallow, unkempt broke guys The first guys I described do the dumping, while the ladies in their life pray daily not to lose them to cutier, hotter, sharper chicks |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 9:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
nkwuocha: Your inability to comprehend is a problem. The marriage part there is just there to show you the seriousness and commitment level in the relationship. Immee should be patient. Let her ask him one more time and be just a little bit more aggressive but understanding and get his response Cuz he told her earlier via text that he will pay back. I don't give a rat's ass about marriage. As long as your my friend or I'm in a relationship it doesn't change anything. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
whitetiger511: Lol,you're the victim of your flawed thinking.Speculation from start to finish, why not give the benefit of a doubt that this isn't the situation? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by dingbang(m): 9:09pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
You dont mind losing your Rship because of 500k... May the lord forgive you of your sins.. Amen |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by solelymade: 9:09pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Gloria3389: While I enjoyed the comments here, the assumptions and narratives of many. I find yours quite intriguing, nice and reasonable and few other persons. I would have try a submission of my own, but for the last paragraph of the Op's story, won't be necessary. The relationship lack proper merit and basic structure for a marriage, and the society and by-product of such marriage will definitely suffer. Two cannot walk and work together except they agree. 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Some comments would make you cringe, like that of the person with the most "Likes" on front page. That being said, I used to have a lost friend on here called Supersystem. I'm just wondering if you're the one and reincarnated. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
kimbraa: if this ain't the truth. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 9:10pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
whitetiger511: Why can't people speak without horrendous fallacies |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Chukazu: 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Sanchez01: very true. would advice her to cook some nice delicacy and visit the guy on weekend and see the dude welcome her with open hands |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by rosalieene(f): 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Daeylar: I am telling you!! if it's a LAdy now, you will see them coming out enmass to insult ladies. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
dingbang: and who says she can't find another without losing shit. do they sell relationships now? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by sekem: 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: I figured out women a long time ago When you are dealing with someone who is NATURALLY selfish, you need to learn how to be extra careful. Can you imagine, you will do everything for a woman thinking you're helping a human being but watch what will happen when it's her time to pay you back Trust no woman even the one you call your wife The day she will surprise you with her true nature which is wholly irrational and of course, unbridled selfishness, sorry will be your name 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Blackhawk01: 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much: He fvcked up big time. Op must get her money back oooo. I don't, I totally disagree. Only an idiot, self - centered person is capable of doing such. I just need you to let me know what's going on and we're cool. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
kimbraa: I'm the one .... Long story.. The society is stuck in average, and guys and babes alike, many need to work on their mental acquity... God help us... I'm back for good..I hope i don't deactivate this account soon... |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by tosyne2much(m): 9:12pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Hahahahaha But na the truth I yarn so nah A story is usually sweet without hearing from the other person nah |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 9:13pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Gloria3389: YOU ARE THE SMARTEST LADY ON THIS THREAD.YOU TRULY UNDERSTAND. GIRLS ON THIS THREAD ARE JUST NAIVE EMOTIONAL FÛCKTARDS 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by elokason: 9:13pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Just take it easy with him, u said he has some scores to settle in his company. Even if u don't trust him again, guide ur grounds now. But try to behave as if the money is not ur concern now. Ask about the business, from they u will get facts. Don't bother going to his house. Call and send text about his business. Let the money issues wait for now. But next time give out only money u can't feel about or worry about. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
sekem: It is well. What do we do? We need to marry females, we need them to love us, nurture and train our kids, take care of the home and support us in every way possible while we're handling other matters.... What's the way out with all this women-mistrust that is pervasive in this society ? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Well....the matter get as he be. I really want to see how this ends, i'll bookmark this thread and don't mind waiting for one year ( God preserve me life ) |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
whitetiger511:Some ladies keep falling victim. Well, love could make the wisest in his/her own eyes dumb before the person not clouded by love euphoria. 1 Like |
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