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Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by andyanders: 6:18pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
eleko1: Good contribution She should learn to forgive and try to bring the family back.Sometimes you find out that most broken homes come from devils manipulation in order to destroy the a home with future. Devil saw that if he gives peace by having your parents stay together ,could mean that you guys would become something and your parents would enjoy. Op should forgive and try to bring the family together and they all need to go for deliverance so that the children don't suffer broken homes during their own homes because most broken homes affect the children and you find out that the children start experiencing same problems their parents were having that led to their separation. God will help you to forgive and work bring your parents together. Find your Dad to know why he left.You can do your private investigation without letting your mother know. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by eleko1: 9:19pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
God bless U too.May Ur wisdom never turn to foolishness.@ OP,pls dnt flow with unGodly/ignorance advised,another man can't be Ur dad,forgive him biko.I pray and believe GOD for UR RESTORATION and REUNION of ur family.ALL THINGS WORK OUT WELL FOR U IJN andyanders: 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 9:11pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
eleko1: Amen, thanks. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by eleko1: 10:03pm On Feb 09, 2015 |
U need to hear from the horse's mouth.I believe one/2 peeps in ur family knw bout Ur dad whereabouts.Apart from this,dnt fold ur hands and continue with the status quo.U have to hit the ground running(only if u Understand what I mean)U'll triumphy over this Ayoolajumoke: |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 9:51am On Feb 11, 2015 |
eleko1: Thanks brother but I don't just think I want to know anything about him again because no matter what might have happened between him and my mum, his children shouldn't be brought into it at least he didn't have issues with the children... I don't think I need him again though. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by kemiola89(f): 8:21pm On Feb 11, 2015 |
Ayoolajumoke:Deep down you are still hurting! In other for you to have peace of mind you have to let go of whatever grudge you're holding against him and be free minded. Don't let his action define who you are! The only way for you to get back at him is to become successful and treat him better than he deserves, trust me his conscience would arrest and imprison him for life. Talking from experience. 5 Likes |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Olufemiolaolu(m): 4:26pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Ayoolajumoke:U dont need 2 curse him ok. Just study hard 2 excel in sch 2 make ur mum proud. Sooner or later he ll come back begging. Just forgive him & move on. I believe its a blessing in disguised. Its well with you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 6:00pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Thanks Amen to your prayer. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by ehix89(m): 12:01pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke:You don't breed so much hate, love superceeds all, hope you are better for it now? |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 12:22pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
ehix89: Yeah I am, thank you. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by ehix89(m): 12:23pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke:my pleasure |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by bossman44: 12:00am On Feb 13, 2017 |
Ayoolajumoke:seem u not asleep yet.. Wud u be my chat buddy tonight? |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by cris07(m): 1:20pm On May 16, 2017 |
Ayoolajumoke:can i knw u pls...? |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Titilayooni(f): 9:03pm On May 17, 2017 |
A child from a broken home would never want to make the mistake his/her parents made. It is often said that children from broken homes do not make good spouses but I don't believe that is true. As I grow older,am not interested in what happened btw my parents but I just want to take care of them(do my part as an only child)and leave them to God for not fufilling their duties as parents..cos I promised my unborn child"divorce won't be an option for mum&dad" cos a broken home affects a child psychologically,I was just a lil bit lucky. 3 Likes |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by cris07(m): 3:35pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Ayoolajumoke:jumoke |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 3:40pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
cris07:Yes sir |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by KevinDein: 7:00pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Ayoolajumoke:How are you? |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by asjay(m): 7:51pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Ayoolajumoke:may you become a great mother to your children....Amen May your mum live long to witness your greatness....Amen I pray for you today, may you become a source of joy to your mother and I pray you end up in a good family,never suffer this again..... Amen But dear, one thing I have discovered about peeps from broken homes is dat they are somehow deficient either in character or other ways so don't let whatever you are going thru get to you . Be positive always and don't let your past determine or dictate your future. Don't let the anger, the pains you have been thru or other negative things make a monster ( in any way). Don't think all men are bad or irresponsible . Above all love God and be good |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by cris07(m): 9:48pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Ayoolajumoke:mo fo fun e o... Can i knw u? 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by thotianna: 7:08am On Sep 20, 2017 |
Op how far? Has ya self centered irresponsible papa come back? |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by ImaIma1(f): 10:19am On Sep 20, 2017 |
Op just live your life and leave your dad. Don't worry about the things you cannot change. Besides there are some people that have both parents living together but life is still hell. Having both parents is good but it does not guarantee a better life. Make up your mind to be a better parent and spouse to yout kids and partner. There are people out there that have a blissful marriage and family. Aim at being one of them. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 12:11pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
thotianna: That's too harsh ma'am, way too harsh! 3 Likes |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 12:12pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
ImaIma1: Thanks for this ma'am, the advice too. Jah bless you plenty. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by forlahkhe: 9:52pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
My story is similar to urs.....i soooo much miss my mum. quote author=Temibassie post=27726070]Op,I feel your pain because I also come from a broken home,the only difference is that my dad didnt abandon us but honestly my dear mum(God bless her soul) went through hell raising the 3 of us singlehandedly, depriving herself of basic comforts of life just to make sure we turn out well. Sadly she died shortly after I graduated and till date,I ask God why He permitted her to leave when it was time for her to reap the fruit of her labour. As for my dad,I don't hate him(though it takes the grace of God not to do that) but he cannot impose His needs on me,I assist him when/if I want. My advice to you,is to face your studies,(ranti omo tio oje) and God will perfect that which concerns you and always pray for good health and long life for your mom,she deserves to live in comfort after all the stress. Peace!!![/quote] 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by MrMcJay(m): 5:00am On Sep 25, 2017 |
thotianna: As a married woman, you should learn to mind your business and tend to matters that concern you. If you must talk, it's important you exercise restraint over your tongue and process your words before you spit them out. You should consider the actual meaning, the intended meaning and the connoted meaning. 5 Likes
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Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by cris07(m): 3:55pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
Ayoolajumoke:i jus mailed u... |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by TheEminentLaity: 7:32pm On Sep 25, 2017 |
You must have graduated by now ... Better to live with single moms than dads that I know. You look great by the way, hope you are doing good? 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 2:50pm On Sep 26, 2017 |
TheEminentLaity: I should have graduated but ASUU and funaab choose to delay me a bit, so I have a semester left, we just resumed. Yes I'm fine, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by TheEminentLaity: 2:52pm On Sep 26, 2017 |
Oh right. Keep your head up and good luck Ayoolajumoke: 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by thotianna: 11:39am On Sep 28, 2017 |
MrMcJay:I am not interested in your opinion. Stop quoting me to tell me what you think. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Tysam302: 3:01am On Jan 22, 2018 |
I can't help but break down while reading posts like this , I mean how on earth could a father be so mean to his own fruits and the wife he got married to, I'm happy for you sis , sure you will take good care of your mum and siblings. I bet you don't wanna hear my story also , it might make you hate men even more, and as regards being raised by a single parent, maybe it's all about predestination as some people will say. All the same we thank God for life , here we are doing great stuffs that even children that got the best parental support couldn't do. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Nobody: 4:22am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Ayoolajumoke: That’s not harsh actually. From the post you put up, is he not self centered and irresponsible? Or because he is your father that term can’t be used to describe him? When you bring your issues to a public forum you have given the public the right to voice their opinions. I have read the regular African advice for reconciliation, and how it’s the devil’s manipulation that people are giving you here. But the truth is, a responsible man will not leave his children to starve to even if he hates their mother. Your father doesn’t love you and your siblings, I won’t bring your mum into this, because his behavior towards her tells it all. You guys shouldn’t waste your emotions on him, move on with your life, and when it’s time for traditional marriage if you like pay your dowry to him in the name of father, when he hasn’t earned that title. Make something of yourselves and support your mother, then do your future children a favor by marrying a good and kind man. Forget all this he must be God loving story, if a man is first of all kind, he will not be able to watch another person suffer. 1 Like 2 Shares |
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