bussy2rhymes:
I'm a Oct 2016 mom.

My birth story

zaynie:
Bussy..2rhymes,this your BS coming from last year is sweet o, but since last year? I suppose flog your bonbom.

Better late than never right?



Fe..ddy27, come and carry your file here o

sassyangel1:


Shopping from Amazon or mallforafrica, which 1 mk sense pass? Ayam jst thinking of which bank to rob mk I do better Christmas shopping cos as I dey look this my oga, he'll keep saying our children v Enof clothes dt will last them till menopausal age.

chrissyjay:


thanks for the response.
mama, I do all d house work, wash baby cloths, cook sweep serve her food pack her plate, wash the dish, change my baby's diaper, she only eats and sleeps. am so exhausted, i dont know what to do. my mom was around helping out with d work but from my mil's body lsnguage, she wanted my mom to leave. Immediately my mom left she started showing me me her true colors. Even when my mom was around she didnt help, she only managed to sweep.

Sansa143:
I hear u sis !

chrissyjay:


thanks so much sis I'll work on that.

Maggiespecial:


honestly, av bin reading all ur talk talk but dis one is too funny. i cant stop laughing. "dt will reach dem to menopause...kilode

sassyangel1:
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Mango seed inside pororo?!!!! Abi Nepa v taken light in my eyes? Hope it's nt circumcision procedures u mistakenly uploaded?

sassyangel1:


I see u sis!!!

Fyngal1:


wehdone ma! as doctor 'ban' you from kpekus ministry, you don enter talking ministry. but seriously sha, mango seed! iffa hear!

kelizosuy:
FINLove sis

sassyangel1:


Lmaooooo.... I talk am say FINsters mst dey brekete 4 dis thread. FIN cares to u sis..

zaynie:
Bussy2rhymes,this your BS coming from last year is sweet o, but since last year? I suppose flog your bonbom.

Better late than never right?



Feddy27, come and carry your file here o

spiceeamiee:
Good morning mamas. Congrats to mamas that have delivered their LOs. May Gods blessings never depart from you. TeamJuly, how una dey? Who else feels like they have a stone tied to their vaginas? That place hurts no matter what I am doing, sitting standing, laughing, cough8ing. It hurts like hell. I have complained at the hospital and they said its because baby's head is down. Na so w go dey??

Abeg, I get one issue and I would like y'all's contribution. I and hubby work at Marina and our offices are 5mins apart so we basically go to work and return home together. The plan was to have LO registered in a Daycare close to my office, that's where most people with nursing mothers in my office complex use. We both close by 5pm so we would just pick her after closing and go home. That was the plan. Last month, hubby got a transfer order to resume at their Ikeja office in July. I don't have a car as hubby picks and drops me off at work. Since hubby is now going to Ikeja, that plan of registering LO in a Daycare close to my office is now going up in flames.

Plan B; My MIL called and said she would help me get someone. I did not tell my mom about this because we had a very scary experience with a maid when we were little so since then, my mom believes all maids are ***** so when my MIL said she would help me get someone, I did not know how to tell my mom about it because I know all hell would break loose. My MIL called on Sunday to say she has found a nice 17year old girl and she would be coming next week. I then called my mom to intimate her of this development and now my phone wont stop ringing. My Dad, aunts, Uncles, Cousins and everyone is calling to dissuade me from bringing the girl(their reason being she may be a witch and could harm I and my family ). I know their intentions are from a good place but how do they want me to cope. My family house is in Igando and we live in Okota. If my mom was closer, I would not even think twice about dropping my baby with her but the distance isn't feasible. She suggested dropping her on Monday and picking her on Friday . Like how is that even possible sef. Now one of my cousins is saying that she does not think a 17year old girl can watch a baby in such a way that I would be at rest, that instead we should get a nanny who resumes at 6:30am and closes by 6:30pm.

So mamas that have gone down this road before, how did you cope? Did you get a nanny? Did you register your baby in a creche? Can a 17year old girl not really take care of a baby? Did anyone here have any issues with their maids and how did they handle it? I just want to hear different opinions so I know the best course of action to take.

beyedew:

Odiegwu!
No try turn her head with that scottish thing jare. My Naija born is capable mbok!

curvilicious:
Pweetiebabe my bae, how is you now? I hope u dey kampe!
Kelizo.suy, my 1&only oniovo of live how my son wife?
Proud.mom38, how is your borri?
Blosse.dcherry, pop in o we beg you
Golden.heart002, i see you sis
Iya Zay.nie, i & John humbly wish Atinu baebae happy borndae
Iya wa t.owerofgrace, how is you? I don milz u o. How is ur borri?

Over & out!

Trish102:
please ma, i need it

sassyangel1:
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Which kind wicked tin I jst use my eye jam? It's nt jst fair @ all. Be considerate to ur fellow comrades Na.

sassyangel1:


I see u sis!!!

sassyangel1:


Hmmmm... My sister, e reach to ask o cos wen pelzin is pregnant, pelzin may forget dt she's uploading somtin else.

Ammy5565:


My MIL cooked all my meals and on time too, made sure i ate because i had crazy loss of appetite. Helped me do my sitz baths, pressed my whole body, stomach especially with hot water twice everyday, baths the baby too, den holds the baby during the day for me to rest. I allow her at night so she too can rest. Dunno if there is more to be done but this was wat my MIL did. She also did baby's laundry a couple of times too.

sassyangel1:


Where's dt meme weh turkey dey use side eye look pelzin. Dt's d side eye I'm using to look at you. Walai, even after doctor told me to calm down for kpekus matter, I nod my head. But this my hubby knws Hw to stroke my nipples like guitar n Na so I jst throway wrapper n gave what the heck kinda attitude. Buh, it wasn't prove a point style o. Lemme not use my hand and akoba adaba myself.

P.S: wat is wrong wth dis mods sef? I wanna type N.I.P.P.L.E.S, they r showing me tips as if we v virgins on NL. Bia, those pipu shd b careful b4 I enter their computer room n format NL systems.

casler:

You are back. How every?

Sansa143:
Make I no b sadist sha.But truth b told,i doubt if it will fade oh except u get special skin !Mine appeared late too,u need to c my tummy now!Black ugly stretch marks ,no b small black oh(Ghana black)u knw wat I mean!Saw ur mention,tnks 4 checking!Kisses to lo.

sassyangel1:


Lollllzzzzz.... The talking ministry v been there time immemorial o. No b today yanning ministry start. My hubby said I gat a quiet face buh can worry for Africa.

beyedew:


I'm good Sis. How you?