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Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 8:22am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Good morning NLS.... I'm not really a lover boy type and all that....but am starting to feel very different far from the real me for the past few months now. After my once called babe broke up with me 2years ago, due to some complicated issues, I promised myself to stay single and even created a goddamn thread here titled "why i vowed never to get married". thanks to all the people who advised and insulted me then lol. well to cut the long story, I met this charming and irresistible lady last year at an event last year and couldn't just resist her at every sight.....because she's extremely radiant and flawless.... but I could tell she's older than me a bit...... tho I thought the difference could be 2years....and I didn't have the courage to approach her cos I never liked dating someone older than me I was scared of even saying hello to her. so i didn't bother talking or exchanging contacts with her. But few months ago I saw this same lady on facebook. ...Facebook suggested her profile on my wall, I took a good look at her pics and knew she was the one. immediately.... I added her and fortunately, she accepted my request and we started talking and I told her where and when we met and she was so cool and glad about it especially us meeting again via Facebook. she told me she noticed me that same day at the event and i was feeling blushed a bit on hearing that. We continued talking on Facebook and our friendship grew gradually we exchanged contacts and it seemed like we couldn't do without talking to each other a day...she told me all about herself and I found out that she's all I want in a woman...like she's got all! she's an extreme Godly person 100%...... unlike me a Godly and street/social dude too.....I later asked her out after 4months with a lotta trials and stress before she accepted.... tho her nature doesn't like people like me, but she confessed to me she love me the way I am.....that was when I knew something is fishy....her voice tickles me like an infant I can't even sleep well a day if I don't hear her voice. we are so much in love that we can't do without each other. whenever something is wrong with both of us we know without even telling each other. Now I haven't asked her age all this while, neither did she asked mine too but all I know is she's older than me, but deep down within me I always feel like "I fell in love with a lady probably 2 years older than me" ......one day we were out and we were in a happy mood and I decided to ask her age, she told was reluctant at first, but she later did and I got the greatest shock!! she's 5years older than me. I composed myself and pretended I wasn't surprised.... I told her my real age too she wasn't shocked really she told me she knew I wasn't her mate agewise....but she still can't tell why she's so attracted to me uncontrollably. I smiled her and kissed her on the cheek. But I really can't imagine this happening..I mean what can I do?? my babe is 5years older than me with a lot of maturity and am getting scared by the day it could end bad. I love her irrevocably and she does too. please I need some advise on how to handle the situation and stop the negative thoughts coming to me. Thanks!! 1 Like |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 8:23am On Nov 09, 2017 |
i dedicate this to my FTC |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by nNEOo(m): 8:24am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Op chill ....reality is coming ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by amnesty7: 8:26am On Nov 09, 2017 |
If your story is true, then the 2 of you are born again in love, sharing the same birthday. So carry on. |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by khome(f): 8:28am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Them say age is just a number 1 Like |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 8:29am On Nov 09, 2017 |
She might be older than you in age.... But that can't deter your maturity.. There is a way you live your life that even older people start praising you for your maturity.. You are supposed to be a man, forget about the age difference and treat her like a raw egg... .Age is just a number.. Make her want to be with you always.. Let your maturity makes her see you as her daddy.. 7 Likes |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Ajoboss(m): 8:29am On Nov 09, 2017 |
leorayvon:seriously?? |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by TeamLeader(m): 8:32am On Nov 09, 2017 |
You want to marry your ancestor. Issorait |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Ayblaize(m): 8:39am On Nov 09, 2017 |
TeamLeader: 1 Like
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Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Toshiba49ja(m): 8:48am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Age is jus a number dude! Love is Important! 4 Likes
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Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by CROWNWEALTH019(m): 8:53am On Nov 09, 2017 |
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Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 8:59am On Nov 09, 2017 |
5 years , OP you are a learner , the French president is married to someone way older than him. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by TheManofTomorrow(m): 9:08am On Nov 09, 2017 |
I can see why she love you irresistibly on ur pix. dude u re really handsome oo. I can relate to this too. Most of the girls in my level in the uni re a lil bit older than me course I gained admission Early. But the way they respects me, you will think I'm older than they are. I depends on ur behavior and maturity. She must have seen something in u to conclude that u deserve her love. Don't make her reconsider. Continue with her and u may end up marrying her. Most of this young girls sef are far from being mature till dey grow older. A 40yr old may behave like a child and a 20yr old may have the maturity and responsibility most ladies desire. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 9:10am On Nov 09, 2017 |
op you need to go single again to learn age is nothing but figure. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 9:35am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Age is really just a number, I don't see the big deal although your family members especially your mother will see the big deal. Be realistic your family will never be happy with your gf, the age will always come up and u might begin to lose respect, do the right thing now. Break up that relationship and flush that love down the toilet. |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by OPTIMUSPRIME08: 9:38am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Bro you're lucky there is someone i really love with all might. Cos of age iss i find it very hard spilling it out, and the worst be say she is my ex aunt.. I call her ANGEL.. simple and very matured lady God bless her for me.. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 9:40am On Nov 09, 2017 |
TeamLeader:check the meaning in your dic. and come back |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Evaberry:oh God |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 9:42am On Nov 09, 2017 |
aaronson:thanks |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 9:43am On Nov 09, 2017 |
TheManofTomorrow:thank you so much |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by BunbleBee: 10:04am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Op please be patient oo.
every relationship brings with it the 'Initial gragra'. **My Advice** GIVE IT TIME! peace! |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by imma2(m): 10:28am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Iyam not understanding. How are we to help you? If it's too much to handle, pass her to me. Don't be a societal bigot |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 10:31am On Nov 09, 2017 |
imma2:shut the Bleep up nigga |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by imma2(m): 10:37am On Nov 09, 2017 |
praiseneofingz:Your reply speaks much on how you're just a common low-life. I won't waste my time in exchanging words with you. Go and find better things to do with your life Mr. Loverboy |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 10:42am On Nov 09, 2017 |
imma2:ok
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Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by imma2(m): 10:57am On Nov 09, 2017 |
That's not all. Goodluck with the hood hoe that is using her womanly charm of what lies between her legs to make you not think straight as a man. The moment you start to loose sleep over a lady your are not married to, I can only pity your predicament. I can see you are only sex starved, thinking it's love and you just need space to release your dry powdered akamu. 2 Likes
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Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by idu1(m): 11:08am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Na lie you dey lie.... |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by sod09(m): 11:27am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Nobody: 12:06pm On Nov 09, 2017 |
Dont have anytin to say.. maybe the poster can help out ![]() |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by Rukkydelta(f): 1:14pm On Nov 09, 2017 |
As. W |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by SHEAU(m): 1:41pm On Nov 09, 2017 |
praiseneofingz:How come? upon say u worgly |
Re: Help!! She's 5 Years Older Than Me, And We Are Madly In Love. by tunize(m): 2:06pm On Nov 09, 2017 |
Nothing really special about her older than you what matters is respect, love and maturity i believe is d keylock to everytn(except u nor really love her as u claim so it will become and issue). |
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