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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MufasaRebirth: 6:20pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Op that's woman the English people call woman wrapper |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Beedude(m): 6:23pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Cos they are bastards. Q.E.D |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by jashar(f): 6:24pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
The story though.... You can't really blame the lady na. She's not use to such environment... But @ the topic. One of my elder Bros dey do such... Go dey pay babe school fees while he no dey send 50k to awa parents. God is watching him... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by nelsonebby(m): 6:24pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
pocohantas:my own brother did the same thing to me. he got a new iPhone 7 for his girlfriend. I asked him small cash to repair my infinix he said he has no money. this happened last year. since then I don't ask him for anything again. ever.. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by asawanathegreat(m): 6:24pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Lai mohammed will answer this question later? |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Bolaji002200: 6:26pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
I take care of my parent.... |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by ibkayee(f): 6:26pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
jashar: |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by millionboi2: 6:28pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
The stupid ones |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by 5ircreepy(m): 6:28pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Bros I swear, your matter long 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by jashar(f): 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by bezimo(m): 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
I think it's a mark of high level irresponsibility for a guy to have and not want to take care of his parents.. What people don't realize is that you attract devine blessings(Ex 20:12; Eph 6:2) when you take care of your parents by giving to them in the little way you can unlike when you give to a girlfriend who might dump you anytime she gets a better option. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Brunel(m): 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Womanpleaser: According to Robert Mugabe, it is caused by witchcraft. He says when you think of the kind of girls you spent money on instead of your family, you know witchcraft is real |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by zynzyn(m): 6:30pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Benita27: S T U P I D I T Y!! |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Because my father makes at least 14 times of my salary each year, he should be the one helping me, I need more help 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by kitchen(m): 6:31pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Wen u see such guy, u shld ask him. End of story |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by AZeD1(m): 6:31pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
eleojo23:A man's family is his wife and kids..... |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by joenor(m): 6:31pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
You are rightm but if we nor still give una... una go complain say the guy too stingy and only look after his parents. Benita27: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MrRitchie: 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
It's a village ppl something 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by joenor(m): 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Nice write up there, We hope to change and make good use of our money. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Elemi1(m): 6:32pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
My family comes first... |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by samzzycash(m): 6:33pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Whose destiny are they using? The girl's or the mum's |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by eleojo23: 6:33pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
AZeD1:...and the parents can go to hell...awesome! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
The last thing I'd do is spend more on a lady than the least I'd spend on any member of my family 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MaryBenn(f): 6:35pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Iamdmentor1: In all thy fearing |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MaryBenn(f): 6:36pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Elemi1: When you're married your wife and kids comes first 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by lndigene(m): 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Taking care of parents or any human at all, is honourable. But going forward my response may be a little bit of the trend. Firstly l think taking care of family, refers to immediate family, that is wife and children. On the other hand it may be extended to others based on the degree of resources available and the kind of relationship you may have had of them growing up. Secondly, some parents are evil, this is hard to believe but it is a fact of life. The greater your distance from them, the better for your future. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by vicben27(m): 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
life is a circle, once a man finds a woman his attention is automatically turned to her, he feels like her protector, her provider n soo on! he MST times tend to forget his root n MST times if he ain't earning much he focuses on his immediate family first before even thinking of his parents. so its a natural instinct . men let's always try to maintain a balance between the two our parents are our pride once they leave this earth all we'll is there pictures n memories On the other hand. this answer is very simply, "because TOTO is the sweetest thing on this planet" once you test a good one your MUMU button is automatically activated. its not easy sha must times I try to maintain a balance if if am giving some tin to peter , Paul MST get his on too! talk about the power of Pusssy! women you guyz are wndafully n powerfully made. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Womanpleaser: How many parents really take care of their children? Many of them give birth like rats to a million children even when they are unfit to financially support a single child. The poor children then have to go through hell to make something decent of their own lives. Then you see those same parents sitting back and hoping the children they never took care of will take care of them. Let's not get the order right: it is the duty of parents to take care of their children. That is first and primary. Children taking care of parents in return is secondary, though very important too. Personally, I prefer to be the kind of parent that sets my children up for life and make them independently wealthy, and not the kind that cries everywhere that his children are taking care of their women and not of me. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MaryBenn(f): 6:38pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
eleojo23: Mr Man, No one goes to hell, your priority becomes your wife and kids first... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by fatymore(f): 6:40pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Maybe men you know.. In my family.. Family first.. Family over everything.. Only women wrappers and sex freaks 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Rubbiish(m): 6:40pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
Guys will avoid this thread like plague..... |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by AZeD1(m): 6:40pm On Nov 20, 2017 |
eleojo23:It depends, families are different I know people who wished their parents were divorced (meanwhile online Nairaland, the popular opinion is think of the kids before divorce) I have a friend back in uni, he's goal was to make more money than his father because he hated his father and wished him dead. Point is do not judge from the outside. It's easy to ask why someone is spending for the girlfriend and not the parents but have you asked who was more influential in the guy getting the more? |
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