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My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Segzee1(m): 6:45pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Help! My Husband Wants to Divorce me because I am not a Virgin Hello friends, Please, I want you to help my friend. She is currently in a big trouble and if she doesn’t take care of her marriage of two weeks, it will crash. It all happened that she lied to her fiance then (now husband) that she is a virgin. According to her, she said that when they first met one of the questions her husband (then fiance) asked was if she was a virgin and because she saw the serious look on him and she didn’t want to lose him, she lied. When I asked her why she lied, she said that when her husband eventually finds out in marriage, she would beg her husband for forgiveness. But things did not work out as she had planned for her husband has given her 7 days ultimatum to pack out. Everyone has begged her husband including me but he didn’t listen to our pleading. He believed that if she can come up with such big lie then she is capable of killing him one day. Now, a marriage of just two weeks after 2 years courtship is about to crash. Please, friends, I need your advice on this issue https://dailyfamily.ng/help-husband-wants-divorce-not-virgin/
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Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Segzee1(m): 6:45pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by gabinogem(m): 6:47pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
...two years courtship without testing the engine 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by ogolomachi(f): 6:53pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
why lie? you broke his trust and without trust there is nothing to build on, not even friendship.... if he can't forgive & let go of the hurt, let him find happiness and trust elsewhere 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Telsa(m): 7:02pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
kuku talk say na you be de lady. what's the pretence about? Anyway, continue the apology, he will listen soon. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 7:02pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Plenty of fish in the sea. She shouldn't have lied though, that's trickery. I understand why the husband is angry, she was deceitful. She should just get a divorce & then go interracial Men from other races are less judgemental about divorce. They're accepting, intellectual, logical & of course gorgeous Out with the flintstone, in with quality men with brain 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by mgdimagaladima(m): 7:03pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
abeg make I hear word .... him na virginnhe be!!! 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Telsa(m): 7:13pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
gabinogem:she been dey repair de engine because e spoil wewell, so time com pass, she no wan waste time to give the mech man to test, she just drive am like dat, go meet the owner. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Telsa(m): 7:15pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:Really? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Marshalxv(m): 7:15pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
I know some people(ladies) will still come here to derail this thread with their sentiments ,forgetting the bone of contention. The issue here is not about the lady not being a virgin, it's about the trust. How can you deceive a guy for two years, deprived the taste of that nunu in his salivating moments.Do you know the kind of konjition the guy endure in the two years of their relationship? I can only imagine the thoughts going through the guys mind now like " how many guys the girl must have bleeped in the past two years " shit is very painful I Swear. 14 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by MissWrite(f): 7:16pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Your (friend's) husband isn't divorcing you because you're not a virgin. He's divorcing you because you lied and deceived him. So that adds "dishonest" to your lack of chastity; and if he could have gotten over the fact that you weren't a virgin, a liar is a much harder pill to swallow because it's an ongoing situation: once one, always one. It'll be hard to trust you again. That's not a good start to your ever after. Women should stop working themselves into these tight corners. If you aren't a virgin, own it. Don't be ashamed about it; don't lie about it; don't apologize for it. Not every guy out there prioritizes virginity over everything else. know your selling-point, nurture it, and be sure it is genuine. And then, know your market. 24 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 7:17pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Telsa: About? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Martin0(m): 7:22pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
MissWrite: oh this is why I have remained a virgin, don't want wahala! Are you a virgin like me? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Martin0(m): 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: this is why I have remained a virgin too,to avoid all this wahala |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by brownhawk: 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:u also forgot to mention ur sweet interracia can easily stick a knife into ur guts in ur luxurious apartment when slightly depressed 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by drnoel: 7:26pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Segzee1: When u take marriage as it all in all it tends to be a problem |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 7:32pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
brownhawk: Imagine if that happened in a mud house, my soul would never rest in peace You have a moot point because all men are capable of extreme violence. It's proven by the stories we read here daily. Chances of an interracial lover sacrificing you for rituals are zero. Most are made men, now that's a cherry on top 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by brownhawk: 7:35pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:lol where did u get these facts from .made men and all |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:36pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:On point Reminds me of the other thread the man obviously married her believing she was a virgin and not because he loves her .I plan on marrying a Latino. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 7:37pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
brownhawk: I've lived, honey |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Jaqenhghar: 7:37pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
XhosaNostra: LMAO 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
LIAR!!!!! Imagine the guy respecting this pig enough to wait until after the wedding to yansh her already disvirgined pûnani. What a pity! Divorce her lying ass! No union should have its foundation built on lies. Maybe the guy wouldn't have cared if her pûssy has been made wider than the Grand Canyon 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by brownhawk: 7:40pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
XhosaNostra:in another sentence,u spent most of ur lifetime to sample and research interracial affairs?? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by UDUJ(m): 7:40pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
MissWrite: Nice write-up 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Tozara(m): 7:44pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
MissWrite:Well-said. Hello, Misswrite. Been a while. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Nobody: 7:46pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Telemundo kee you dia! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by highpriestess: 7:47pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
lie kee you there. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by XhosaNostra(f): 7:49pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
brownhawk: Can't help it, they find me attractive 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by MissWrite(f): 7:51pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Tozara: Awwww.......boy, I missed you! Where have you been? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by MissWrite(f): 7:52pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
UDUJ: Thank you. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:53pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Earthbound:How on earth do you know I watch telemundo? I plan on marrying Fabian Rios. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Divorce Me Because I Am Not A Virgin by MissWrite(f): 7:54pm On Apr 09, 2018 |
Martin0: Lol...... Yes, exactly like you. Me sef, no want wahala. |
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