ndy87:
I don't understand again. We are certainly in a world where everyone wants to eat his cake and still have it. I wonder what women or ladies did to guys to deserve all this bashing and hate...... Wat do I know self.

dont mind them all men have d***ck but not all have brain

MrHighSea:
Give us their GPS locations.

When you drop that your puffed-up ego and irrelevant high taste of how your woman-to-be must be, your antenna will locate their whereabout.

GeeString:
I won't go into any long sermon on this I'll just speak from personal experience.

No Nigerian woman is worth the trouble ahead. Infidelity is a serious Nigerian girl issue and it won't leave after marriage rather it will only get worse since her lifelong ambition has been fulfilled and she is now at peace.

Nigerian girls are materialistic and selfish. They do not truly understand the term "love".

Every Nigerian girl 25 & above has engaged in prostitution of some sort be it openly or 'coded'. There are corporate oloshos now sef. By prostitution I mean sleeping with a man for financial gain.

They are just not worth it.

I seriously doubt if I'll ever get married to a Nigerian girl. I'll have two kids from 2 different women & that's it.




Quote me & bash me but kindly produce counter-points or disprove my points while you do so. Oh & lest I forget I have no sisters & my mom is late too.

Goodnight.

. D trouble of d 2 babymamas will almst kill U.

Safiaa:
every man on the internet is anti marriage now lmao. Pleaseee, cry me a river ahbeg. Women receive pressure as much as men do. You live in Nigeria with Nigerian parents, you cannot be a bachelor forever. When you’re 38, single all your mates are married and can’t hang out as much, lonely, nobody to call your own that’s when you’ll be looking upandan for a wife. The pressure from family and friends will be unreal. It always happens. It’s doing you now because you’re young, everybody lives their life to learn the hard way. Go and look at toks2008 or whatever his name is, he’s a perfect example. Just pray that you’ll find a good wife.

Se ko re iwo omoyi....kini temi ninu oro to wa nile? ti o ba fe fe mi ko so ki fi e se side chick.

well what I've noticed is that majority of Nigerian girls do not marry who they love. ask them or observe them closely and you'll see. they may love a guy (who's financially inadequate) and go for someone who's ready to settle due to societal and family pressure.

marriage for most girls is another way of slaying. it's a bragging right. a way of showing superiority to others (so as car, kids, clothes, makeup, shoes, THE BIG WEDDING, bridal shower rubbish, etc) and this transcend to focus on the glam n pepper dem gang of marriages n not what it entails. so they are nasty, controlling, frustrating and entitled and selfish unlike our most of our mothers. dunno what caused this cultural shift.

As for the men it's a problem of too many priorities. even if you choose women a topic of a man's priority, he has too many specs. he may say he likes petite and he's cheating on that petite with a buxom. Men nowadays too aren't responsible. they wanna make money and all but wanna be loud and imposing and irrational in Thier lifestyle as opposed to being responsible like most of our fathers. dunno what too caused this cultural shift.

Few have set good examples of what it means to be cool headed like Anderson paak and Kendrick in Rap, Mark Zuckerberg and some other young entrepreneurs who have married early and stayed responsible. it's not impossible... we're just wrong somewhere in our mental.

prince3009:


Continue deceiving yourself

why ll deceive my self. ...ooooo so Becos irks with low self esteem are crawling to you u feel u can dictate for all ladies baaahh. Taah let me learn u something boy.. .girs that knows their worth have boys flocking around them. And for r information some of those ur friends u drink with that form strong head for ladies have one girl they are kneeling for them to marry them

yanabasee:
It doesn't change the fact that you fill in perfectly well into that same category!!!
Its psychologically proven that black women are easily moved with the things they see....materialism!!

I cant influence your dogmatic beliefs since its your choice to uphold it.
So my bros, please yourself.

Grayjoy:
Ur points are so pointless that they don't need to be disaproved. B4 nailing the Nigerian ladies, it is adviceable to make research on non Nigerian ladies.

why are u pained? the guy is wise...

Safiaa:
They think non Nigerian ladies are special specimens that were created from gold dust. It will shock you!!!!! Some of my non naija friends are devils in disguise Loool. They are probably worse, they will suck you dry, but their brains are conditioned to belive anything from their country is less than others. I don’t blame them anyway.

are u better than them?

The economic situation(unemployment) is one of the reasons apart from the fear of commitment by some eligible and well to do young men. I knows many young men that refused to get married due to the difficulty in making the decision.
Baby Mama is trending because you do not have to pay pride price and other expenses involved in wedding and marriage and still enjoy all the things the legally married men enjoy such as kids,love, sex etc.

abiolamitodun:
Why are men scared of getting married and why is the number of baby mama increasing
let's discuss

Many men are not scared of marriage but are only scared of committing to just one lady for the rest of their lives cos they have been made to believe in one man one woman..

For me its all about my love for Jesus and i wouldn't like to start sleeping about else i will never bother about marriage but sleep with as many beautiful ladies as i can lay.

Go out and see sweet looking ladies and you will see the confusion guys go through in choosing one,,Have you noticed that it is Christian guys who suffer delay in getting married? that is because they are too careful in selecting but for a typical Muslim guy he knows he can always marry more so he just selects from the available and gladly add to the number in due time.

In Ngeria another strong factor working against guys desire to marry is the economy and i need not elaborate on this.

Another reason is the high expectations of our ladies who who are unrealistic.

Mcy56:
Men makes excuses for not getting married because they can easily get what makes marriage unique effortlessly i.e. s*x.
There are quite a lot of them that are gainfully employed but refused to marry with an excuse that women are this, women are that.
While not totally against them, my question is this: is it not the same men that are sleeping around with some of the ladies and are making them untrustworthy?
You know, I think some are scared of karma actually.
Notwithstanding, I believed there are still quite a lot of ladies that are morally trained and descent out there.
Let me come and be going......

Men now have no reason at all to be married... and it's you ladies fault!

ImaIma1:


As in!!! It makes them sound very unintelligent and unenlightened. Using their shallow choice of girlfriends or the girls in their "yard" or area to judge us all. Very small minded thinking

As if to say you will do a different thing.

If you're asked now what can you offer a man in marriage, what will you say?

Mcy56:

I cant influence your dogmatic beliefs since its your choice to uphold it.
So my bros, please yourself.

This is it..... Ladies will never agree that they're all in for material things.....


Do you wear wigs? Attachments, eyelashes? Would you wnt to wear the most expensive of these items? Even when you can't afford them?

Do you like rich decent single guys with cars and are independent?


Have you ever struggled with a poor guy in ur life?

chenzen:
are u better than them?

oga, that’s not the point.

Mcy56:

When you drop that your puffed-up ego and irrelevant high taste of how your woman-to-be must be, your antenna will locate their whereabout.

in MJ's voice, #speechless.
Just one major box to tick, SHE SHOULD'NT BE PROMISCUOUS. I won't cheat either.
I got ego, damn sure. My ego dnt even let me cheat.
Not messing around earns me the respect of elders.
#pls dnt direct me to church, I from there come outside.

Things in 9ja needs connection, u can be my connect.

Evince:


So are they hustling for marriage with another person. Y not stay with their first guy and marry him. Y cause d new man who sees her as d best and married her problem

Or maybe the ex might not have as much money like the present dude. The present dude might provide the financial needs while the ex provides them with the sexual and emotional needs. Its like having the best of both worlds. Its not advisable engaging with a lady who can't let go of the ex. When she's always sounding off about her ex or still saving up his pixs in her phones then for ur own good let her be to face her demons. Tag along and she will use u as the rebound nigga .

KhadyM:


No, I dont understand what on earth youre trying to drive across. Please explain

Majority of Naija women see marriage as a meal ticket.
Those who dont see it as a poverty alleviation route are minority!
Those who contribute their fair share are outliers!

yanabasee:
This is it..... Ladies will never agree that they're all in for material things.....
Do you wear wigs? Attachments, eyelashes? Would you wnt to wear the most expensive of these items? Even when you can't afford them?
Do you like rich decent single guys with cars and are independent?
Have you ever struggled with a poor guy in ur life?

Chai! Ladies don do this bros something ooooo
Pele ehn. Sorry. I feel your pain.
As for me ehn, e don too tey wey I write exam last ooooo. I no go fit answer those exam questions, no vex.

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ellapius:
dont mind them all men have d***ck but not all have brain

You that think through your Kpekus,
Has it helped you ??

All these hungry piss-poor boys with inherent criminal tendencies always crying like chickens about women should shut the hell up....the economy is terrible and you are too wretched to marry..the few who can do so every weekend..

Its funny how junkies,drug dealers,morally bankrupt poo-eating scammers know for criminal activites in and out of Nigeria all expect to marry decent girls...

The average Nigerian male is a circus clown...cry cry toddlers.

BigIyanga:

Majority of Naija women see marriage as a meal ticket.
Those who dont see it as a poverty alleviation route are minority!
Those who contribute their fair share are outliers!

Cause you allow them to, duh! Thats what contributes to this mentality. I have a friend who's already decided that his future wife wont work. That he doesnt want his child raised by some nanny. That he'll be the provider and she stays at home. Most women have already been fed the idea that their hubbies will provide. Just look into the average African home already raising daughters to be someones wife and home carer!

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2face,Davido,Wizkid and Flavour are All Dead na

Babymama is the best ALTERNATIVE To Marriages now

ellapius:
why ll deceive my self. ...ooooo so Becos irks with low self esteem are crawling to you u feel u can dictate for all ladies baaahh. Taah let me learn u something boy.. .girs that knows their worth have boys flocking around them. And for r information some of those ur friends u drink with that form strong head for ladies have one girl they are kneeling for them to marry them

Thank God you said the bolded. Truth is 95% of Naija girls ain't got worth. Take away their punany from them and a vegetable growing by the pathway becomes more valuable. I don't have friends I drink with for your info. My friends are perfect gentlemen and the girls we would kneel for to beg for marriage will be born in a thousand decades from now. (Guess you know what that means). Stop roaring like a lioness who will always end up hunting prey for the lion.

Mcy56:

Chai! Ladies don do this bros something ooooo
Pele ehn. Sorry. I feel your pain.
As for me ehn, e don too tey wey I write exam last ooooo. I no go fit answer those exam questions, no vex.

Funny enough.....I've never been into one sided relationships..... And i dont do relationships anymore!!

So you don't judge me by my posts....


Stay cool....mi lady!!

ellapius:
see otondo.. .....hahahaaaa one cry cry baby has been spotted omo mummy.. ..keep shouting boys are scarce by the time Ur mates pick up the few good girls available u ll die in depression. ...olodo oshi

I don't even like girls wtf..never trusted any of you bitches*... Plus I love eating my money only me, it will be a few years time before you start searching for husband when your breast have fallen, why do I have a feeling you're just a troll, you know guys with female troll accounts need to visit Psychiatric centers immediately

Revolva:


true talk...bro u know dem weller...i just bang one finish today self..and she was calling her boyfriend after we banged finish...with my fone self....d babe na heavy olosho......sha ...i laff
this is because so many naija women are not worth it...they are fake..

See am??. ....this one too wants a decent girl lmao...get ready for AIDS since olosho na your speck

this is it

Going through this thread, reading the comments it’s clear that this generation...I don’t know, smh. Wish I was born in the 70s.

prince3009:


Thank God you said the bolded. Truth is 95% of Naija girls ain't got worth. Take away their punany from them and a vegetable growing by the pathway becomes more valuable. I don't have friends I drink with for your info. My friends are perfect gentlemen and the girls we would kneel for to beg for marriage will be born in a thousand decades from now. (Guess you know what that means). Stop roaring like a lioness who will always end up hunting prey for the lion.

Chai Chai ......i wish wish I wish (in r Kelly voice) am sure u are not even at marriage age lol. I can understand ur case now some of my nephews are acting like u too. Young boys desireingto marry oyinbo.. .hahahahaaa wake-up boy. Which Nigerian girl have u dated self. Girls on ur street Abi. Go South Africa their ladies will rape u am sure u marry a South African girl and ur wife will be planning he t rape

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rainylad:
All these hungry piss-poor boys with inherent criminal tendencies always crying like chickens about women should shut the hell up....the economy is terrible and you are too wretched to marry..the few who can do so every weekend..

Its funny how junkies,drug dealers,morally bankrupt poo-eating scammers know for criminal activites in and out of Nigeria all expect to marry decent girls...

The average Nigerian male is a circus clown...cry cry toddlers.

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Ladyhippolyta88:

Geestring Na you talk this one so?
Wetin Nigerian women do you?

Well, harsh as it may sound, I just typed the reality love.

Nigerian women did nothing to me. I have compared my interactions with Nigerian & foreign women (even Africans) - its totally different. The Nigerian woman is more interested in mundane, material things while the foreign ones are interested in your personality.

I typed based on my own personal experience & observation & I went to sleep. No bias.

Never knew this will generate this much buzz - over 30 mentions of varying opinions (& insults). Honestly, I'm no good at online arguments & exchanges. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion including me. I'm replying you cuz you & I have some sort of relationship here.

I stand by everything I typed up there.