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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 7:55am On Apr 18, 2018 |
ndy87:dont mind them all men have d***ck but not all have brain |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Mcy56(f): 7:55am On Apr 18, 2018 |
MrHighSea:When you drop that your puffed-up ego and irrelevant high taste of how your woman-to-be must be, your antenna will locate their whereabout. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Basseybruce: 7:55am On Apr 18, 2018 |
GeeString:. D trouble of d 2 babymamas will almst kill U. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Toks2008(m): 7:56am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Safiaa: Se ko re iwo omoyi....kini temi ninu oro to wa nile? ti o ba fe fe mi ko so ki fi e se side chick. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by BaWoahGDP: 7:58am On Apr 18, 2018 |
well what I've noticed is that majority of Nigerian girls do not marry who they love. ask them or observe them closely and you'll see. they may love a guy (who's financially inadequate) and go for someone who's ready to settle due to societal and family pressure. marriage for most girls is another way of slaying. it's a bragging right. a way of showing superiority to others (so as car, kids, clothes, makeup, shoes, THE BIG WEDDING, bridal shower rubbish, etc) and this transcend to focus on the glam n pepper dem gang of marriages n not what it entails. so they are nasty, controlling, frustrating and entitled and selfish unlike our most of our mothers. dunno what caused this cultural shift. As for the men it's a problem of too many priorities. even if you choose women a topic of a man's priority, he has too many specs. he may say he likes petite and he's cheating on that petite with a buxom. Men nowadays too aren't responsible. they wanna make money and all but wanna be loud and imposing and irrational in Thier lifestyle as opposed to being responsible like most of our fathers. dunno what too caused this cultural shift. Few have set good examples of what it means to be cool headed like Anderson paak and Kendrick in Rap, Mark Zuckerberg and some other young entrepreneurs who have married early and stayed responsible. it's not impossible... we're just wrong somewhere in our mental. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 8:00am On Apr 18, 2018 |
prince3009:why ll deceive my self. ...ooooo so Becos irks with low self esteem are crawling to you u feel u can dictate for all ladies baaahh. Taah let me learn u something boy.. .girs that knows their worth have boys flocking around them. And for r information some of those ur friends u drink with that form strong head for ladies have one girl they are kneeling for them to marry them |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Mcy56(f): 8:00am On Apr 18, 2018 |
yanabasee:I cant influence your dogmatic beliefs since its your choice to uphold it. So my bros, please yourself. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:02am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Grayjoy:why are u pained? the guy is wise... |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:03am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Safiaa:are u better than them? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by kingsmaila(m): 8:03am On Apr 18, 2018 |
The economic situation(unemployment) is one of the reasons apart from the fear of commitment by some eligible and well to do young men. I knows many young men that refused to get married due to the difficulty in making the decision. Baby Mama is trending because you do not have to pay pride price and other expenses involved in wedding and marriage and still enjoy all the things the legally married men enjoy such as kids,love, sex etc. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Toks2008(m): 8:04am On Apr 18, 2018 |
abiolamitodun: Many men are not scared of marriage but are only scared of committing to just one lady for the rest of their lives cos they have been made to believe in one man one woman.. For me its all about my love for Jesus and i wouldn't like to start sleeping about else i will never bother about marriage but sleep with as many beautiful ladies as i can lay. Go out and see sweet looking ladies and you will see the confusion guys go through in choosing one,,Have you noticed that it is Christian guys who suffer delay in getting married? that is because they are too careful in selecting but for a typical Muslim guy he knows he can always marry more so he just selects from the available and gladly add to the number in due time. In Ngeria another strong factor working against guys desire to marry is the economy and i need not elaborate on this. Another reason is the high expectations of our ladies who who are unrealistic. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:04am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Mcy56:Men now have no reason at all to be married... and it's you ladies fault! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by sexdoll: 8:05am On Apr 18, 2018 |
ImaIma1: As if to say you will do a different thing. If you're asked now what can you offer a man in marriage, what will you say? |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by yanabasee(m): 8:08am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Mcy56: This is it..... Ladies will never agree that they're all in for material things..... Do you wear wigs? Attachments, eyelashes? Would you wnt to wear the most expensive of these items? Even when you can't afford them? Do you like rich decent single guys with cars and are independent? Have you ever struggled with a poor guy in ur life? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Safiaa(f): 8:10am On Apr 18, 2018 |
chenzen:oga, that’s not the point. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by MrHighSea: 8:11am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Mcy56:in MJ's voice, #speechless. Just one major box to tick, SHE SHOULD'NT BE PROMISCUOUS. I won't cheat either. I got ego, damn sure. My ego dnt even let me cheat. Not messing around earns me the respect of elders. #pls dnt direct me to church, I from there come outside. Things in 9ja needs connection, u can be my connect. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:12am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Evince:Or maybe the ex might not have as much money like the present dude. The present dude might provide the financial needs while the ex provides them with the sexual and emotional needs. Its like having the best of both worlds. Its not advisable engaging with a lady who can't let go of the ex. When she's always sounding off about her ex or still saving up his pixs in her phones then for ur own good let her be to face her demons. Tag along and she will use u as the rebound nigga . 2 Likes
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by BigIyanga: 8:13am On Apr 18, 2018 |
KhadyM:Majority of Naija women see marriage as a meal ticket. Those who dont see it as a poverty alleviation route are minority! Those who contribute their fair share are outliers! |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Mcy56(f): 8:15am On Apr 18, 2018 |
yanabasee:Chai! Ladies don do this bros something ooooo Pele ehn. Sorry. I feel your pain. As for me ehn, e don too tey wey I write exam last ooooo. I no go fit answer those exam questions, no vex. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by AstroG: 8:16am On Apr 18, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color] ellapius: You that think through your Kpekus, Has it helped you ?? 1 Like
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by rainylad(f): 8:18am On Apr 18, 2018 |
All these hungry piss-poor boys with inherent criminal tendencies always crying like chickens about women should shut the hell up....the economy is terrible and you are too wretched to marry..the few who can do so every weekend.. Its funny how junkies,drug dealers,morally bankrupt poo-eating scammers know for criminal activites in and out of Nigeria all expect to marry decent girls... The average Nigerian male is a circus clown...cry cry toddlers. |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by KhadyM(f): 8:18am On Apr 18, 2018 |
BigIyanga: Cause you allow them to, duh! Thats what contributes to this mentality. I have a friend who's already decided that his future wife wont work. That he doesnt want his child raised by some nanny. That he'll be the provider and she stays at home. Most women have already been fed the idea that their hubbies will provide. Just look into the average African home already raising daughters to be someones wife and home carer! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by AstroG: 8:19am On Apr 18, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color][quote author=Basseybruce post=66808228]. D trouble of d 2 babymamas will almst kill U.[/quote 2face,Davido,Wizkid and Flavour are All Dead na Babymama is the best ALTERNATIVE To Marriages now
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:19am On Apr 18, 2018 |
ellapius: Thank God you said the bolded. Truth is 95% of Naija girls ain't got worth. Take away their punany from them and a vegetable growing by the pathway becomes more valuable. I don't have friends I drink with for your info. My friends are perfect gentlemen and the girls we would kneel for to beg for marriage will be born in a thousand decades from now. (Guess you know what that means). Stop roaring like a lioness who will always end up hunting prey for the lion. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by yanabasee(m): 8:19am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Mcy56: Funny enough.....I've never been into one sided relationships..... And i dont do relationships anymore!! So you don't judge me by my posts.... Stay cool....mi lady!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:20am On Apr 18, 2018 |
ellapius:I don't even like girls wtf..never trusted any of you bitches*... Plus I love eating my money only me, it will be a few years time before you start searching for husband when your breast have fallen, why do I have a feeling you're just a troll, you know guys with female troll accounts need to visit Psychiatric centers immediately 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by rainylad(f): 8:24am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Revolva: See am??. ....this one too wants a decent girl lmao...get ready for AIDS since olosho na your speck |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by PedroEastman: 8:24am On Apr 18, 2018 |
this is it 1 Share
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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Safiaa(f): 8:25am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Going through this thread, reading the comments it’s clear that this generation...I don’t know, smh. Wish I was born in the 70s. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 8:27am On Apr 18, 2018 |
prince3009:Chai Chai ......i wish wish I wish (in r Kelly voice) am sure u are not even at marriage age lol. I can understand ur case now some of my nephews are acting like u too. Young boys desireingto marry oyinbo.. .hahahahaaa wake-up boy. Which Nigerian girl have u dated self. Girls on ur street Abi. Go South Africa their ladies will rape u am sure u marry a South African girl and ur wife will be planning he t rape |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by AstroG: 8:28am On Apr 18, 2018 |
[color=#006600][/color] rainylad: DEAR VALUED CUSTOMER, Your Brain and Sense Packages you ordered has been successfully registered and shipped.. You will received the Packages in next 24hrs.. KINDLY BEAR WITH US... 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by GeeString: 8:28am On Apr 18, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Well, harsh as it may sound, I just typed the reality love. Nigerian women did nothing to me. I have compared my interactions with Nigerian & foreign women (even Africans) - its totally different. The Nigerian woman is more interested in mundane, material things while the foreign ones are interested in your personality. I typed based on my own personal experience & observation & I went to sleep. No bias. Never knew this will generate this much buzz - over 30 mentions of varying opinions (& insults). Honestly, I'm no good at online arguments & exchanges. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion including me. I'm replying you cuz you & I have some sort of relationship here. I stand by everything I typed up there. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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