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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Safiaa(f): 8:29am On Apr 18, 2018
rainylad:
All these hungry piss-poor boys with inherent criminal tendencies always crying like chickens about women should shut the hell up....the economy is terrible and you are too wretched to marry..the few who can do so every weekend..

Its funny how junkies,drug dealers,morally bankrupt poo-eating scammers know for criminal activites in and out of Nigeria all expect to marry decent girls...

The average Nigerian male is a circus clown...cry cry toddlers.
Preach! In and out of ashewo parlours, drinking alcohol like it’s water, smoking like it’s oxygen, being a nuisance to society, yet you want to attract quality? You cry they’re no good women out there? Why not look at yourself smh. Nobody is perfect but some of these men are pitiful. Come to the uk, most girls are running away from naija men, it’s sad. They have a reputation for being absolutely useless.

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 8:29am On Apr 18, 2018
KOPT33:
I dated a girl for two years who just got married two months ago. We cohabited for a while, even though it was some of the best times I had in recent memory, I still shudder to think that if I married a woman I:

1- I will lose my personal space. One hour away from her (I work in my home office) she would come and disturb me. Lord! Just one hour

2- Women are too emotional for my liking: she could read the silliest meanings into the most mundane things. I refuse to let explaining myself become a customary feature of my life.

3- Tears. Tears. Tears: at a point, I wondered If I was that bad because I really wasn't doing anything that I couldn't take from anyone

4- Food: I am yet to meet a woman that can match my skills in the kitchen, or have the same eclectic taste for food like I do. I am not interested in changing my cuisine because of any woman

5- Attention: women and attention: ants to honey. I am by nature a very emotionally detached person. I don't want to start relearning how to live my life.

6: Responsibility: I have my life's work. If I get married, I would become weighed down significantly, I would always have to account for somebody. I say NO to that, for now.

There loads and loads of things that I cannot mention, but the joke is on anyone who tells me to "go and marry." Since I screamed at my friends for telling my that crap, it has subsided quite a bit.
GO AND MARRY

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:31am On Apr 18, 2018
PedroEastman:
this is it

grin grin

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 8:31am On Apr 18, 2018
prince3009:


Thank God you said the bolded. Truth is 95% of Naija girls ain't got worth. Take away their punany from them and a vegetable growing by the pathway becomes more valuable. I don't have friends I drink with for your info. My friends are perfect gentlemen and the girls we would kneel for to beg for marriage will be born in a thousand decades from now. (Guess you know what that means). Stop roaring like a lioness who will always end up hunting prey for the lion.
Chai Chai ......i wish wish I wish (in r Kelly voice) am sure u are not even at marriage age lol. I can understand ur case now some of my nephews are acting like u too. Young boys desireingto marry oyinbo.. .hahahahaaa wake-up boy. Which Nigerian girl have u dated self. Girls on ur street Abi. Go South Africa their ladies will rape u am sure u marry a South African girl and ur wife will be planning he to rape all the males in ur family grin or Kenny where the women marry two husband or oyinbo woman that ll divorce u after two years or shoot u for cheating on them. Tell me dear what Nigerian girls did you. The simple truth is u are not been bold enuf to face real girl. cheesy tell ur friend I said dat ND am at work in opebi they Should ComE and beat me cheesy
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:32am On Apr 18, 2018
Safiaa:
oga, that’s not the point.
then what is
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by PedroEastman: 8:33am On Apr 18, 2018
Daeylar:
Men should say why they are scared of getting married. Some went off tangent and started shading all women and even Nigerian women.

Waiting to read reasons why. Not this all women are this and that bs.


what else do you want to hear. All of you have nothing to offer than sex

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by donqx: 8:33am On Apr 18, 2018
hmmmm
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Safiaa(f): 8:34am On Apr 18, 2018
chenzen:
then what is
dont ask me stupid questions, this morning. Please!
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:34am On Apr 18, 2018
ellapius:
Chai Chai ......i wish wish I wish (in r Kelly voice) am sure u are not even at marriage age lol. I can understand ur case now some of my nephews are acting like u too. Young boys desireingto marry oyinbo.. .hahahahaaa wake-up boy. Which Nigerian girl have u dated self. Girls on ur street Abi. Go South Africa their ladies will rape u am sure u marry a South African girl and ur wife will be planning he to rape all the males in ur family grin or Kenny where the women marry two husband or oyinbo woman that ll divorce u after two years or shoot u for cheating on them. Tell me dear what Nigerian girls did you. The simple truth is u are not been bold enuf to face real girl. cheesy tell ur friend I said dat ND am at work in opebi they Should ComE and beat me cheesy
hmm
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:35am On Apr 18, 2018
Safiaa:
dont ask me stupid questions, this morning. Please!
empty trash can
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Safiaa(f): 8:36am On Apr 18, 2018
So glad my guy is not Nigerian. Jesus.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 8:38am On Apr 18, 2018
Tochyodiks:
grin I don't even like girls wtf..never trusted any of you bitches*... Plus I love eating my money only me, it will be a few years time before you start searching for husband when your breast have fallen, why do I have a feeling you're just a troll, you know guys with female troll accounts need to visit Psychiatric centers immediately
then u have gay tendencies dear. And u need help. Ur type fums over a girl ranting up-and down only to Be masturbating With their pictures at night. Why do I have the feelings that u are addicted to pornography. U can settle for girls cos ur life is not interesting to u and ur earnings can't even feed u. U even have trust issues n girl will want to stay with u cos u re a sadistic person.. ..

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 8:39am On Apr 18, 2018
KOPT33:


She was 29 and a few years older. Had been a lawyer for three years before we started dating. Try again.
GO AND MARRY cool
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 8:40am On Apr 18, 2018
KOPT33:


Nope, she was a woman in her natural element. How could you even say she was mentally ill!!!

GO AND MARRY cool

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ImaIma1(f): 8:40am On Apr 18, 2018
AntiBrutus:


No they are not. Their female family members are never among...it's you and I that are the oloshos... grin grin

cheesy
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by rainylad(f): 8:40am On Apr 18, 2018
Safiaa:
Preach! In and out of ashewo parlours, drinking alcohol like it’s water, smoking like it’s oxygen, being a nuisance to society, yet you want to attract quality? You cry they’re no good women out there? Why not look at yourself smh. Nobody is perfect but some of these men are pitiful. Come to the uk, most girls are running away from naija men, it’s sad. They have a reputation for being absolutely useless.



My dear forget these criminals....imagine a nigerian male who have no principles and morality what-so-ever talking against women..

Nigeria is a messed up state economy,socially,political-wise because of these scammers..Internationally,once you say you are a Nigerian everyone runs away because of the criminal activities of these shittt-eating,drug dealing Nigerian males..yet these scammers wont let us hear word here..

After being denied visas at every respectable embassies,fails to scam white women to marry them for green cards,..these scammers will turn on Nigerian females on social media to vent their acute frustrations on...With all their noise about white women ,none gives them the time of the day except for their great-granny's age-mates..That too doubles their acute frustrations and hopelessness,so forget them cos life don tire dem....Their life don cast real bad.

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 8:41am On Apr 18, 2018
KOPT33:


Most women are like that to varying degrees. I have dated enough people so I can tell.
GO AND MARRY cool

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by AstroG: 8:41am On Apr 18, 2018
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ellapius:
Chai Chai ......i wish wish I wish (in r Kelly voice) am sure u are not even at marriage age lol. I can understand ur case now some of my nephews are acting like u too. Young boys desireingto marry oyinbo.. .hahahahaaa wake-up boy. Which Nigerian girl have u dated self. Girls on ur street Abi. Go South Africa their ladies will rape u am sure u marry a South African girl and ur wife will be planning he to rape all the males in ur family grin or Kenny where the women marry two husband or oyinbo woman that ll divorce u after two years or shoot u for cheating on them. Tell me dear what Nigerian girls did you. The simple truth is u are not been bold enuf to face real girl. cheesy tell ur friend I said dat ND am at work in opebi they Should ComE and beat me cheesy



Still on Still,
They are better than all these WASTES we have here Called WOMEN(except Good Mothers out there)
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:42am On Apr 18, 2018
Safiaa:
every man on the internet is anti marriage now lmao. Pleaseee, cry me a river ahbeg. Women receive pressure as much as men do. You live in Nigeria with Nigerian parents, you cannot be a bachelor forever. When you’re 38, single all your mates are married and can’t hang out as much, lonely, nobody to call your own that’s when you’ll be looking upandan for a wife. The pressure from family and friends will be unreal. It always happens. It’s doing you now because you’re young, everybody lives their life to learn the hard way. Go and look at toks2008 or whatever his name is, he’s a perfect example. Just pray that you’ll find a good wife.

Could you please shed more light? He is known to post lots of relationship tips, though sometimes out of point.

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:42am On Apr 18, 2018
The truth is my tolerance level must cave in... l can't stand these ladies inconsistencies
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 18, 2018
Mcy56:
Men makes excuses for not getting married because they can easily get what makes marriage unique effortlessly i.e. s*x.
There are quite a lot of them that are gainfully employed but refused to marry with an excuse that women are this, women are that.
While not totally against them, my question is this: is it not the same men that are sleeping around with some of the ladies and are making them untrustworthy?
You know, I think some are scared of karma actually.
Notwithstanding, I believed there are still quite a lot of ladies that are morally trained and descent out there.
Let me come and be going......

Lmfao will you take #200 & go to aboki & buy 2 gala & coke sharply. Where do you girls get this stupid idea that there are decent ones among you? E no dey show for face cheesy grin

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by SirToothBrush: 8:43am On Apr 18, 2018
BadBradley:


7 billion? That's the entire human population of both sexes!

hahahha madam safiaa is not well informed or she is gender confused. I think she is a feminist and think the entire human population is male grin
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ImaIma1(f): 8:44am On Apr 18, 2018
sexdoll:


As if to say you will do a different thing.

If you're asked now what can you offer a man in marriage, what will you say?


I will say...when you see my husband, ask him.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by ellapius(f): 8:45am On Apr 18, 2018
chenzen:
hmm
yea I said it. Let it sink to girls reading thru this Thread. It's sad I came on board late.. .pls don't stay in any abusive relationship with any fool all in the name of no guys out their. It's a lie there are guys good guys who need u good girls. Leave that fool qnd move on. He is a looser. The thing is his type are not much any more other types plenty

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:45am On Apr 18, 2018
Thegeneralqueen:
GO AND MARRY cool

Go to hell & suck some extremely large demon d!ck grin

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by IamD18: 8:45am On Apr 18, 2018
rainylad:




My dear forget these criminals....imagine a nigerian male who have no principles and morality what-so-ever talking against women..

Nigeria is a messed up state economy,socially,political-wise because of these scammers..Internationally,once you say you are a Nigerian everyone runs away because of the criminal activities of these shittt-eating,drug dealing Nigerian males..yet these scammers wont let us hear word here..

After being denied visas at every respectable embassies,fails to scam white women to marry them for green cards,..these scammers will turn on Nigerian females on social media to vent their acute frustrations on...With all their noise about white women ,none gives them the time of the day except for their great-granny's age-mates..That too doubles their acute frustrations and hopelessness,so forget them cos life don tire dem....Their life don cast real bad.

Then after succeeding and making money with criminal activities, do ladies who chase them like flies think about the decency you are claiming about herein?

Social media shaaaaa

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:46am On Apr 18, 2018
ellapius:
then u have gay tendencies dear. And u need help. Ur type fums over a girl ranting up-and down only to Be masturbating With their pictures at night. Why do I have the feelings that u are addicted to pornography. U can settle for girls cos ur life is not interesting to u and ur earnings can't even feed u. U even have trust issues n girl will want to stay with u cos u re a sadistic person.. ..
you don't even have anything to say this morning, see how pointless you are.. Even most clueless about my life grin olosho like you wey we d Bleep* for club like beans for 10 niara.. Abegi girls like you insulting people on niaraland are so bitter and there is nothing more a guy will see in you than to have sex with you day and night then leave you by the roadside... You are even a troll, guy what sort of weed are you even smoking cos a girl on her right senses won't even say Rubbish on niaraland talk of.. Mad woman grin

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by BadBradley: 8:46am On Apr 18, 2018
SirToothBrush:
hahahha madam safiaa is not well informed or she is gender confused. I think she is a feminist and think the entire human population is male grin
and to think females make up more numbers of that figure.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Coldfeets: 8:46am On Apr 18, 2018
The two main reasons why I don't want to get married yet are:

I haven't found a lady interesting enough to go the whole hog with.

By interesting, I mean, a lady who can thrill me body, mind and soul. I want the full package. I cannot just settle for anything less... yet. tongue

And then secondly...

I cannot carry another person's problem

I just can't. Deal with your own problems. Be it emotional. Be it the need for social acceptance and keeping up with the Joneses. Be it making decisions. Be it family problems. Be it female drama. Be it financial. Be it whatever. I am not just interested in any of that. Just deal with your own problems. Let me deal with mine.

Unfortunately for me, most of our ladies think marriage is an avenue for the MAN to bear ALL their problems.

I can't be such a man... yet. tongue

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:46am On Apr 18, 2018
ellapius:
Chai Chai ......i wish wish I wish (in r Kelly voice) am sure u are not even at marriage age lol. I can understand ur case now some of my nephews are acting like u too. Young boys desireingto marry oyinbo.. .hahahahaaa wake-up boy. Which Nigerian girl have u dated self. Girls on ur street Abi. Go South Africa their ladies will rape u am sure u marry a South African girl and ur wife will be planning he to rape all the males in ur family grin or Kenny where the women marry two husband or oyinbo woman that ll divorce u after two years or shoot u for cheating on them. Tell me dear what Nigerian girls did you. The simple truth is u are not been bold enuf to face real girl. cheesy tell ur friend I said dat ND am at work in opebi they Should ComE and beat me cheesy

Stop blabbering and show me proof where South African women raped their husbands' male relatives and where Kenyan women married more than one man. I can relate to the white women divorcing after 2 years or even 2 months which is better than a Nigerian devil claiming she is an angel staying in the marriage for 10 years but distributing her Toto like Minimie Chinchin promo. Show me stats not talking trash!

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Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:46am On Apr 18, 2018
ellapius:
dont mind them all men have d***ck but not all have brain



I weak o. Dead self esteem people looking for someone to oppress.
Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Getting Married? by Nobody: 8:51am On Apr 18, 2018
ellapius:
then u have gay tendencies dear. And u need help. Ur type fums over a girl ranting up-and down only to Be masturbating With their pictures at night. Why do I have the feelings that u are addicted to pornography. U can settle for girls cos ur life is not interesting to u and ur earnings can't even feed u. U even have trust issues n girl will want to stay with u cos u re a sadistic person.. ..
and err even if I am addicted to porn is it any of your business? is not my life? grin your English construction is so bad.. Anyways I pity the guy who will marry you.. Me am single all the way and I don't give a fvck about women than to fvck them and throw them one side tongue (if you are not my employee of course)

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