Safiaa:
Preach! In and out of ashewo parlours, drinking alcohol like it’s water, smoking like it’s oxygen, being a nuisance to society, yet you want to attract quality? You cry they’re no good women out there? Why not look at yourself smh. Nobody is perfect but some of these men are pitiful. Come to the uk, most girls are running away from naija men, it’s sad. They have a reputation for being absolutely useless.

AstroG:
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Still on Still,
They are better than all these WASTES we have here Called WOMEN(except Good Mothers out there)

ellapius:
hahaaaahahaaaaa....storyfor the gods who said marriage is not do or die for guys. You better wake up to reality son. There are many men out there looking for woman to marry and they can't find. Men are equally desperate to marry. It's only single guys like u that make this kind of topic ur favorite Becos u don't have the heart to toast a girl.. ..most guys run to thread like this to populate it with nonsense so that when girls see it they ll be come scared and start runin after guys ...thistopic ll not make girl friend stick to vision less you all in the name of guys are scarce

angelbulksms:


Could you please shed more light? He is known to posts lots of relationship tips, though sometimes out of point.

BadBradley:


Really? I thought since the dawn of time, Nigerian men in diaspora always come back home to take a wife.

I never knew Nigerian women abroad, most of whom marry during their menopause or never at all, are the ones doing the selection!

prince3009:


Stop blabbering and show me proof where South African women raped their husbands' male relatives and where Kenyan women married more than one man. I can relate to the white women divorcing after 2 years or even 2 months which is better than a Nigerian devil claiming she is an angel staying in the marriage for 10 years but distributing her Toto like Minimie Chinchin promo. Show me stats not talking trash!

swave7:

Lmfao will you take #200 & go to aboki & buy 2 gala & coke sharply. Where do you girls get this stupid idea that there are decent ones among you? E no dey show for face

ellapius:
yea I said it. Let it sink to girls reading thru this Thread. It's sad I came on board late.. .pls don't stay in any abusive relationship with any fool all in the name of no guys out their. It's a lie there are guys good guys who need u good girls. Leave that fool qnd move on. He is a looser. The thing is his type are not much any more other types plenty

mikejj:
haven gone through all the comment ....i can feel your pains..3 categories of people.. heartbroken squad...single and no man is coming...broke guys wey no get money for marriage.... sai jango

prince3009:


Stop blabbering and show me proof where South African women raped their husbands' male relatives and where Kenyan women married more than one man. I can relate to the white women divorcing after 2 years or even 2 months which is better than a Nigerian devil claiming she is an angel staying in the marriage for 10 years but distributing her Toto like Minimie Chinchin promo. Show me stats not talking trash!

ellapius:
mr still on still. ...lol street boys slang. Where has u travelled to sef. I can imagine a guy standing bf me to toast me and he starts with still on still .....what is dat if I walk out on him now u guys will say Nigerian girls are good for nothing.

yanabasee:



This is it..... Ladies will never agree that they're all in for material things.....


Do you wear wigs? Attachments, eyelashes? Would you wnt to wear the most expensive of these items? Even when you can't afford them?

Do you like rich decent single guys with cars and are independent?


Have you ever struggled with a poor guy in ur life?

dgagar:
despite d fact that am not ready to settle down now but i gat no choice because my babe is pregnant, and there is revelation that she shud not abort. so i gotta move on with my life and workhard to make life sweet for us. she's a good and responsible girl and i love her so much.

ellapius:
hahaaaahahaaaaa....storyfor the gods who said marriage is not do or die for guys. You better wake up to reality son. There are many men out there looking for woman to marry and they can't find. Men are equally desperate to marry. It's only single guys like u that make this kind of topic ur favorite Becos u don't have the heart to toast a girl.. ..most guys run to thread like this to populate it with nonsense so that when girls see it they ll be come scared and start runin after guys ...thistopic ll not make girl friend stick to vision less you all in the name of guys are scarce

ImaIma1:


I will say...when you see my husband, ask him.

AstroG:
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Forget All these things your Blabbing abt
There is A Man in my Hood,he is past 40,upon all the pressures from everywhere to marry,he is yet to marry,but still very very happy. And another amazing fact is that he is Lawyer (SAN for that matter)

Not Everyone gives into pressures from people to go and marry
Like me,I don plan am say na two Babymamas I go get,no time to waste on these Nigerian Girls Op Aforementioned

UDUJ:
Majority of men are less keen on getting married. Most men have commitment issues.

Another way to rephrase this question should be: Why are women more keen on getting married than men?

Women want to have babies before their ovaries stop functioning, while men have virtually no expiration date on their fertility.

As a result, women want to solidify a family partnership earlier than men. This gives a power advantage to men and results in women being the more eager for marriage.

Men can play around throughout their thirties, knowing that they still have a chance to reproduce if their current relationship doesn't work out. Women who spend their late twenties and early thirties with a man want to stop playing and get married because they might not have time to establish another serious relationship before conception becomes difficult.

Of course, there are also societal reasons that compound the power dynamics that results from this biological reality. Women want a wedding more than men.

The wedding industry is targeted at women and girls. Men's wedding attire is classy but standard. Tuxedos have little variety, and there are other occasions to wear them. Wedding dresses, on the other hand, are magnificent and oftentimes very expensive.


Bridal gowns are masterful pieces of art. From a very young age, girls dream of the day when they will be a beautiful bride, not only because these dresses are truly stupendous but also because girls are socialized to decorate themselves in a way that boys are not. Women so desperately want to wear a white dress that they'll put themselves through the torture of wedding planning.

There is also some cultural holdover from the days when women felt marriage necessary for financial security. Women now hold their own in the workforce, but the cultural idea remains that a woman needs to marry.

Sadly Older bachelors (who are referred to as "confirmed bachelors" or even "playboys" are regarded much better than older spinsters or bachelorettes.

Ebuka2016:
sorry to say but if not for social conditioning, this is what a man really wants:

1. Money
2. Steady supply of sex
3. Kids (his own fresh and blood)

a woman comes with her own set of wahala and responsibilities. The responsibility woman dey carry dey come eeh, e no be here.

Men dont really need a woman to live with them for the rest of their lives, they rather need that which only a woman supplies- sex and kids

If for say men can impregnate themselves and give birth, no single man go ever marry.

mikolo80:
which wan be corporate olosho again
suit and tie ish/

IamaNigerianGuy:
When you count the number of unhappy marriages ...
When you count the number of divorces...
When you witness the humiliation and spousal abuse both parties go through...
when you witness spousal infidelity...
People living in pain and dying in silence...
When you consider the unrealistic demands of women...
When you realize 'most hoes a'int faithful'....
When you come to know that sex is cheap and abundant in our time...
When you consider the bad economy.....

You will be afraid of marriage too OP

chenzen:
good luck man

lefulefu:
well sometimes though not all ladies are eager to get married. There's a nurse i know. She's well into her forties and she's still slaying. Different men with flashy cars always pick her up. Even Cossy the big breasted slayqueen....is she not up not to forty something? But then she has become the footmat for abuja big boys na. During the Jonathan era i heard how a lot of PDP bigwigs really chopped cossy and her big boobs and she made quite a lot of money from it. It was during the early Buhari days i heard she relocated to lagos cos the APC boys are quite stingy with money. So my bro a number of ladies love that street life. It gingers them up...its like a drug to their system. They love it when men spend on them. Sex to them is like a weapon they unleash on men. It makes them feel they have the control over men with sex.Marriage is a big bore to them. They slay well into their 50s and when their body gives away they recruit young girls into their league.Na so e be.

Toks2008:
I repeat..if not for the love of Christ in me..marriage will never ever cross my mind cos I can always get free s.x and infact they are begging me for it and I can always have a baby mama and all that comes with marriage and when I'm getting close to 70 I can always marry one small sweet lady to take care of my old sef.

Ladies think its all the men that have time for their baseless drama...many of them are very single and seriously searching and when they see a man who is serious to be with them they start act ing up like ogbanje....they will see a man that wants them but they prefer a man that just wants to use them...most of them have nothing to offer except their depreciating sexuality....ladies are their own problem...MAY GOD HELP THEM.

Daeylar:


Not to derail and as much as this can be a topic on its own. I'm interested in the answer to this.

Ebuka2016:


money and love to mention but few

yanabasee:




The morally trained and decent ones are virtually the ugly ones!!!

The beautiful ones get deceived easily.....and turned haywired!!!

UDUJ:


Chief Lefu good morning. I agree with you 100%

Your words are always laced with wisdom.

Very true, there are some of them that prefer this type of lifestyle and end up becoming Madams to younger ones once they retire from the business