vuc1:

I've tried that many times she doesn't complain. I try to pick up quarrel she ends up apologizing. She cares but sometimes she acts like a baby. Any small thing she'll say I hurt her. She tries to please me but I want her to be herself. I feel she's not showing me her true self.

Flashylily:
Hate the way he treats me at times. He went for nysc,since the last two weeks, he never called me unless he sees my missed call. When ever I complain of this call,he either complain of airtime or battery issue. The current problem is that I gave him two missed calls yesterday night,he didn't even bother returning it and I also saw him online yet no message not until I texted him and he replied. I didn't complain but I really gave him cold attitude which he observed.

LivingFree:

Thanks dear, I have already said in my heart that I won't call him again. Neither will I text him. I will just leave him and face my book,even though it hurts but I will try and forget him.
You might be too needy... find some other hobby instead of monitoring him. Keep yourself busy and unavailable. Say what you mean and mean what you say... maybe he knows how you will react and he's capitalising on that. Men don't stress themselves, they let you do the stressing for the both of you. Give him space and fill your time with things... absence makes the heart grow fonder or maybe 'He's just not that into you' either way step back and the answer will reveal itself to you.

LivingFree:

*Thanks dear, I have already said in my heart that I won't call him again. Neither will I text him. I will just leave him and face my book,even though it hurts but I will try and forget him.*
You might be too needy... find some other hobby instead of monitoring him. Keep yourself busy and unavailable. Say what you mean and mean what you say... maybe he knows how you will react and he's capitalising on that. Men don't stress themselves, they let you do the stressing for the both of you. Give him space and fill your time with things... absence makes the heart grow fonder or maybe 'He's just not that into you' either way step back and the answer will reveal itself to you.

MichaelBukamzy:
My woman is too shy. Not good at interactions at all.our phone calls always bored with her "yes","no" and haha replies. But she loves me ooo

Flashylily:

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LivingFree:


You don't need to forget him... you need to work on yourself and figure out why you attracted and are attracted to such a man? What need is he feeding?

This is a learning curb and not a blame game. Take responsibility for your feelings and needs. Are you looking for him to make you happy or to entertain you or what?
When you figure out that need then give it to yourself. A relationship should complement us and not used to fill a void. The lesson here might be self-esteem, self-confidence and self love. It was never about him or the next guy.
Best of luck in your studies... Although I think you should allow ALL relationships until you have finished your studies to save you stories that touch but that's your decision to make. Good luck

KangaIye:




Understands what's she is interested in and start conversations on it, let her take control ones in a while.

Flashylily:
thanks but all the same,I just feel like he is not trying at all and I wouldn't mind forgetting him cause I don't really like seeing my self being hurt. I'm not the kind of girl that even send a guy. Its just happening for the first time cause I'm used to him. From the onset of the relationship he doesn't really call which he explained to me but the good thing about it then was that we work together and he is all over me at work. He spoilt me with love there that even make me forget calls. When his call up letter came, I was happy and unhappy at the same time. He told me to wait for him,all those stories. Now he is out if Lagos, him not calling is not helping that waiting. I tried very much calling him often in a bid to make sure I don't fall to guys that are all over me . I work in a hotel part time and I know the number of guys that ask me out. Maybe I'm disturbing him,I won't again. I won't call or text him again. I'm a very busy person self so that time I use in calling him,I will invest it in something better. I won't end the relationship neither will I disturb him again

TonyeBarcanista:

Being single is about not committed to relationship, it doesn't stop me from being friends to females or even flings/side choppings

I can't be lonely in this life, I have never been lonely... Not when I have family and a couple of friends...

Sanemind:
i hate the fact that she is too beautiful,other guys will always want to make a pass at her