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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by progress69: 12:24pm On May 08, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Bro u just dey run up and down for this thread after u don first Bleep up and another babe talk sense into your head. Why u con dey form one thing now. U first say broke boys go celebrate the guy, and en Bleep up. U con dey form sense for the thread now after u don edit your post |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 08, 2018 |
Hanseel1: I schooled there never claimed to be from there o it’s a gentleman’s way to pay when you invite someone that’s all |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by nahzyla: 12:30pm On May 08, 2018 |
Dottore:Insulting me does not change the fact that you lied. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by kushme: 12:31pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic: Hey, wetin i do you? From your dry face you go know say you no get wet pucci. Old tortoise.. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 12:31pm On May 08, 2018 |
progress69: I only wanted to give her likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Jointhemiltons2(m): 12:39pm On May 08, 2018 |
Saintmary:Close mouth joor. Most of these generation girls lack principles and home training. A principled lady won’t behave that way on a first date no matter how rich the guy is. She can start that madness from maybe the second dates n all. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by abumoney(m): 12:44pm On May 08, 2018 |
Can you imagine! How could she be that heartless? She almost ate the cost price of one bag of rice. Excuse me girl, something is doing you? |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Toide: 12:48pm On May 08, 2018 |
zomoears:. keep shut what do you know,do u even have a girlfriend, show me one woman that is not greedy. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by oshaosha2014(m): 12:48pm On May 08, 2018 |
I no know o! This kind alpha male na akpa (wasteful male) male. The alpha male I recognise is the one that will make the girl go and borrow money to take him out. He will finish the meal and still be angry at for not behaving well during their convo, and she go apologise. The guy fit come go finish make she dey curse am o. But when he's around her she knows who's the boss. sexdoll: |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by oshaosha2014(m): 12:52pm On May 08, 2018 |
Bros, there is alpha male and there is gentleman, which one you dey talk about. proffemi: |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by progress69: 1:18pm On May 08, 2018 |
MissJoy29: I beg to disagree. U can eat food in a fancy restaurant with 3k plus. Doesnt have to be sides, it all depends on what u order. I can take u to a road side Amala joint and i spend just 5h, while u spend 2k. Do u know why, while I ordered Amala 200,and probably just assorted worth 3h, you probably ordered 100 Amala, 2 "egufe" worth 400 each, assorted 3h, maybe eja kika 3h, then maybe pormor 2h. Its already going to 2k in the same road side restaurant i ate with 5h. Dont say nobody can eat all of that. Cos i will devour all without looking back. How.much does a buffet cost in big hotels on the island, at least I have to not less than 4 and the most expensive was just 15k, and u eat all u want. The babe probably stuffs like snail, lobsters or some of this stuffs more expensive that regular beef and chicken In quilox one snail goes for a minium of 1k5. If she orders 4 of that, that iis 6k ready ...remember those snails are not so big. I hope u get where i am coming from. Its a fair date, when u know u cant pay, u have to be fair, or ask politely if u could have those sides and even offer to pay part, the guy will be more reasonable that way and u earn more respect. The guy did nothing wrong IMO. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by SexyDenzel: 1:18pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic:Someone typed something about the looks of these girls that act like the girl OP encountered or support them with their quotes or broke shame guys and its just so true. I just took a glance on your Profile pic LMAO I'm just speechless, its a case of old Layers. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by sexdoll: 1:19pm On May 08, 2018 |
oshaosha2014: Hmm... your own brand of alpha male is equally problematic. To me, a true alpha doesn't not fear people's opinion thus he wouldn't mind telling the girl then and there that he ain't paying for her excesses. He wouldn't necessarily put the girl into trouble by making her to go and borrow money just to feed him and make him happy. It's only immature alpha, or rather, jerks that do that. A true alpha doesn't even have to depend on a girl, or anyone as a matter of fact, to get his own satisfaction. He already has it all. What he doesn't want in his life is someone who will come and destroy his happiness for him. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 1:22pm On May 08, 2018 |
kushme:Don’t take my reply as support For your foolishness im 30 |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 1:24pm On May 08, 2018 |
SexyDenzel:in your mind your sexy abi lol nigga selling here |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 1:36pm On May 08, 2018 |
oshaosha2014: The mistake some of you guys are making is to put words in my mouth. I never said ALPHA-MALE. I said "alpha in the relationship". That is, the dominant partner. Such a partner demands respect, and generally needs to earn it. Some of us believe being a gentlemen at the appropriate time is an excellent way for your woman to respect you. If being juvenile works for you (or others), great. Hope you are clear about my usage now? 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by erico2k2(m): 1:37pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic:Agreed . But I'm very sure you know where I am coming from.ladies should wise up and try as much as possible not to be embarrassed like this.If I was a single babe no way I'm going on a date without my own money worse worse I can pay for myself and book uber . |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 1:38pm On May 08, 2018 |
oshaosha2014: Being a neanderthal works for some guys. But I think most self-respecting women wouldn't stay long with such behavior. Do you want your woman to love you or to fear you? 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 1:43pm On May 08, 2018 |
Hanseel1: I can guess the age and marital status of most posters from their posts. By whatever definition, a real man doesn't start what he can't finish. You don't take a girl to an eatery you can barely afford. And when you're there, and she's pigging up and ordering things, a real man will gently give her a hint what's up. What looks like a maga-defining expense for you (N11,000) is chicken change to some. Are you telling me that my paying N11,000 for a woman's meal makes me a maga? Not unless that is a substantial percentage of my monthly income! Obviously, the dude saw an expense of N11,000 as maga-defining. You probably do too. I don't. I guess it all depends on the sort of women you and the poster are used to ?? 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 1:43pm On May 08, 2018 |
erico2k2:I understand and respect your point but not stating in clear terms before the date and ranting about it on social media is different It’s when you have money you van whine or dine |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Mofe72: 1:46pm On May 08, 2018 |
justtoodark: Lmao, this is someone that can cover 5 times that bill without issue. The girl was mannerless and he thought her a lesson. It’s not about the cost of the order. It’s the way she responded, knowing she didn’t have money. It’s a matter of etiquette. You don’t behave like that. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by kushme: 1:46pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic: Hehehehe, I don't give a sh**t about your age. All I know is that, you look like an old tortoise with a dry face and a dry pucci... Lips like dry chilli pepper.. Next time, quote your match with that stupid cliche.. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by mechanics(m): 1:47pm On May 08, 2018 |
Nawa o, the girl is not considerate at all, how will she eat that food of that amount at a stretch. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 1:47pm On May 08, 2018 |
erico2k2: Buhari period, yes. But guy, if he no reach to carry woman to expensive joint, na by force? Could he not take her to a place more his level? Yes, I know why: a lot of you guys like forming to babes that you are worth more than you actually are. But when the babe now starts making demands (especially if she's a little lacking in the self-control department), you feel the pinch. But whatever else, he shouldn't take to social media to boast about his shameful behavior. Nigerians blame all manners of nasty attitudes and values on poverty. Poverty my foot. 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Mofe72: 1:49pm On May 08, 2018 |
proffemi: It’s not the money. He had the money to pay. He was vexed by the way she reacted like it was her right. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 1:53pm On May 08, 2018 |
Mofe72: Guy, don't lets kid ourselves joo! If you go on a date with a woman you like, and she's misbehaving like that, the best way to put her in her place is to pay the money and let her know how little you think about her behavior (or insert whatever other punitive measures here). It's when broke-arse niggaz that can't really afford the bill that they balk at it. In which case, he should have told her. Abi are you saying they were not conversing all the while? I bet he was busy forming Dangote's nephew. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Mofe72: 1:56pm On May 08, 2018 |
A lot of you here, keep missing the point. The point is not that the food was expensive. The point is that she was rude!!! Even when she had no right to be. If you know Winter, the guy behind a hoestory, 50k dinner is not the problem. Someone that’s enjoying his life... The girl was downright RUDE!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by ElmaSpeed(f): 1:57pm On May 08, 2018 |
Dottore: Standing ovation man. Well played. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Mofe72: 1:59pm On May 08, 2018 |
proffemi: Bros, I know the guy, that money is change to him. He wanted to teach her a lesson. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 1:59pm On May 08, 2018 |
SexyDenzel: Chai!! Ur badmouthed o. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 2:04pm On May 08, 2018 |
Mofe72: I truly doubt that. A guy to whom N11,000 is chicken change is unlikely to have such hunger-stricken ladies around him. There are many things wrong with our society. People justifying terrible manners for whatever reason is part of it. If you want women to treat men like men, then you should ask men to act the part, and not be douchebags. How is leaving her in the lurch a commensurate "lesson" for pigging out? He should blame his choice of women, and do what real guys do: pay the %$#$$% bill on a date you initiate! 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:07pm On May 08, 2018 |
kushme:is that all bro what is you ish static dick? Abeg disappear mature niggas only I love me ok sorry I don’t stalk photos dry lips or not it’s moving bitch |
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