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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:10pm On May 08, 2018 |
Winter na correct guy! I'm sure the girl would never forget this lesson. It will help her in the future 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Mofe72: 2:12pm On May 08, 2018 |
proffemi: She could have simply said “sorry, I thought you would cover it”. She basically wanted to seem like she wasn’t cheap, and it backfired. Me, what I’m aware of is that the bill is/was not an issue for ‘Winter’ |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 2:16pm On May 08, 2018 |
Mofe72: Well, we'll have to take your word for that now, won't we? All I know is, whatever the offense, you don't leave a lady you took out on a date in the lurch like that. What next, abandon her in a deserted part of town because she dissed your car? 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by skywalker240(m): 2:25pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic:All dis pipo weh go skul sefu, hmmm! And i know say na either 1 thick urhobo or yoruba village them stay. Hmmm, Madam parLANCe weldon iyo Buckinam pipo i salute iyo d |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Fedrickcity: 2:26pm On May 08, 2018 |
the guy no whats up Angelicka: |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:27pm On May 08, 2018 |
skywalker240:haha I did it purposely to stress my point I know how to speak to everyone but I have my own accent too you will hear it more in my songs I really doubt it this is the lower lounge my temp office ..don’t like to show too much but I’m no village babe We are blessed that’s all |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by skywalker240(m): 2:35pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic:I no doubt you o madam |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by skywalker240(m): 2:38pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic:I no doubt you o madam I been think say the correct spelling na Buckingham Palace iyo |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:39pm On May 08, 2018 |
proffemi: 11k isn't my problem guy. The fact that I'm made doesn't mean you should order for things anyhow. I don't see you as a maga either your life, your choice. I can't order for 65k clothes in a shopping and you order for 100k clothes and still expect me to pay, I'm I mad? 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:40pm On May 08, 2018 |
skywalker240:you don’t understand the phonetics behind my statement you see I know my target audience those who get me do those who don’t try to insinuate a sense of grandiosity when in fact one is enjoying life |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 2:49pm On May 08, 2018 |
Hanseel1: That is all well and good. But take it from me, unless there's more to it (the guy forming much?), he would tell her to tone it down, not wait till after the fact and then, ask her to pay because - was it ATM he said he forgot at home? I mean, what sort of decent guy does that? If you think she's pigging out and you know you don't intend to (or can't!) pay, call her to order. That he asked her to pay at all ("testing" her, abi?) is a fail. What sort of big boy asks a girl to pay because he doesn't have N11k on him for a date? Of course, the girl also failed on an epic scale, but I'm hard on the guy because he's the one who came online to crow about what amounts to shameful behavior. Abeg make I pass joo. You guys are trying too hard to justify obnoxious behavior, and make out a broke-azz nigga into a he-man. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by xtraordinariguy(m): 2:53pm On May 08, 2018 |
pocohantas:extremely true talk, a moderate and considerate order would have saved her the embarrassment. being decent is not just in appearance but in thinking too. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by McBrooklyn(m): 2:53pm On May 08, 2018 |
Dottore: 2 Likes
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Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:55pm On May 08, 2018 |
proffemi: and what is the girl? isn't she a broke, frustrated and hungry bitch?? Guy stop speaking like a kid.. do you know what these girls have done to guys Even me I'm a retired maga Instead of paying 11k for your meal I'll use that money to fuel my car for 4days. if I initiate a date with a lady I order for more and expect her to order for less because it's my money not yours. #No hard feelings 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by skywalker240(m): 2:57pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic:Mama, i don hear 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:58pm On May 08, 2018 |
skywalker240:Ose |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 08, 2018 |
See as Ashawo them full foe this thread Learning the ways of the wild |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 08, 2018 |
solasoulmusic: In your mind ..... are you the old lady on your profile |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by proffemi: 3:00pm On May 08, 2018 |
Hanseel1: With the part I highlighted above, I understand you clearly now. If you read up, I think you'll find out that you've perverted the meaning of the expression "invite someone on a date". #nohardfeelings 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 3:05pm On May 08, 2018 |
Hanseel1:your probably older than me sef seeing that my age bothers you |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by melodyogonna(m): 3:07pm On May 08, 2018 |
I have wondering, how can one person eat something worth 11k in less than one hour? And I was thinking I can eat. . . chisoz!! |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by mrphysics(m): 3:07pm On May 08, 2018 |
proffemi: You are hard on the guy because he left the girl in a stranded way. You wanted the lady to win or be indifferent after behaving like a prostitute being taking to the bar. I have read your post severally and all you were pointing out was how the guy left her in a lurch. You haven't gone hard on the guy but you were 'pained' by the fact he left her stranded but you didn't consider how her order or so would make the guy either stranded emotionally or financially. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by ponti93(m): 3:09pm On May 08, 2018 |
Saintmary:so because the guy asked d gal to order anytin... D gal will now be displaying her lack of home training... Its like goin to a serve yourself party and deciding to eat every dish on the table |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by chuggy(m): 3:15pm On May 08, 2018 |
Dottore:Most Valuable Player 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 3:16pm On May 08, 2018 |
proffemi: Yeah. ..the first date should be sponsored by whoever initiated it but don't order things unnecessarily. Telling the girl to return the food because it's not okay to you is a big disgrace to her because she might be ashamed not to return the food... So a sensible lady is supposed to follow the orders of the guy not ordering things anyhow when she's broke herself. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Daeylar(f): 3:19pm On May 08, 2018 |
You've tried abeg, been reading your posts on this thread. You did very well Both are wrong in this case. The lady is wrong by not being able to pay for herself, so she could have walked out of there immediately he started that nonsense ATM card talk. The guy is wrong for every damn thing he did. Like you said. He must have been forming dangote's nephew He should have been able to pay or let her know what's up so she knows how to order. How can he invite someone on a date and start all those rough play jokes of I left my ATM card at home? Like the girl said, who does that? That's where the girl should have paid for her meal and walked out. Block the fool's number and his entire existence and move on. But unfortunately, she fuckêd up by not having cash to pay. Anyways you're on nairaland. Where as long as it is an issue involving a man and a woman. Even if both are wrong or the guy alone is wrong. Only the lady will be blamed. While the guy will be made to look like a saint. proffemi: |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by karli4nia(m): 3:21pm On May 08, 2018 |
pocohantas: Nope, I beg to differ. The homie didn't do well. Granted the lady might have come off as greedy.. But then, that Guy isn't intelligent at all, there are even effective ways to deal with such kinda ladies than acting like a brute, like he reasons from his behind and thinks he did well... Such kinda Guys only end up creating issues for themselves in relationships simply cos of their cheer clumsiness and dunderheadedness. What is tomfoolery in this day and age is customary and applauded as being smart and intelligent. 1 Like |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by mrphysics(m): 3:22pm On May 08, 2018 |
Hanseel1:These days, when ladies go on a date, they go with money and order in the range of the money they have with them. This is a Plan B should things go south. Seeing this lady went with only N5k and ordered for a food of N11k, I think she deserved the treatment she got. I am very sure, if she was aware that the bill is on her, she wouldn't have ordered up to that amount. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by mrphysics(m): 3:27pm On May 08, 2018 |
Daeylar:I think the guy was wrong when he foolishly told the lady to order for whatever she wanted. That's his sin. He should be man enough to caution the lady when he noticed the outrageous demand she was making. Trust me, the lady has no intention for the guy, she only wanted to maximize that moment and carry on with her life. This is where I blamed the girl for everything that happened to her. Like you rightly concluded, the lady will be blamed for ordering for something she can't afford. It means living above her means. 2 Likes |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Dvd4: 3:34pm On May 08, 2018 |
boyjo:LOL! |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 3:37pm On May 08, 2018 |
mrphysics: Perfect treatment. |
Re: Guy Left His Date Stranded, After She Ordered For What She Couldn't Pay For by Nobody: 3:38pm On May 08, 2018 |
mrphysics: leave the poor girl alone that might be her first date Don't be surprised these are the type of ladies that always broke shame people on nairaland and they don't have kobo |
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