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Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by SAMAYODELE(m): 12:09am On May 22, 2018 |
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Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Bluezy13(m): 3:48am On May 22, 2018 |
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Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Gbenga11111: 4:01am On May 22, 2018 |
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Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by femi4: 5:19am On May 22, 2018 |
RealAdewole:When instruction comes from the altar, its for your own benefit. Why go to Church when you cannot obey simple instruction. Even in the place of prayer, obedience is key. If you are alone, you can pray anyhow you like but when it comes to group prayers, the person leading the prayer is the authority at that moment and instructions coming from the altar should be obeyed |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 5:51am On May 22, 2018 |
Berlyn1: Yes a very big favour, I wish I could do the opposite . 3 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by larrynakel: 5:59am On May 22, 2018 |
Madam. .relax your mind and the only one u need to explain yourself to is your husband. You didn't do anything wrong. . |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 6:07am On May 22, 2018 |
@ RandyX , thanks so much...I'll do as uve said..... @ |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 6:15am On May 22, 2018 |
Wiseandtrue: I was too tired to stand and had stomach cramps in the process, so I was going to reluctantly stand and then he started saying, look at how reluctantly she wants to stand, or are u pregnant?, this one shouldnt be a member of the choir oo, stand up now, which I did, immediately the prayer started I bent my head backwards towards the chair and after few minutes I sat, my anger wasn't even about standing, what infuriated me most was that he saw that I was down and weak but he felt he wanted to do me a favour by asking me pray whatever problems I came with off....That I don't believe in. 2 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by WhoBeThisMan: 6:38am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:they are right. You probably should serve your punishment and move on. You had no reason whatsoever to be in the choir if you do not wholeheartedly believe in the ductrines of that church. What you did is more of rebellion, if you are a Christian you would know from versions examples in the Bible that God doesn't support rebellion in His house no matter tge condition. If you don't like a church or their ductrines just silently leave . Just humbly serve your punishment and move on. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by WhoBeThisMan: 6:42am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:what WENT down pls explain 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by kense88: 7:56am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:And your husband couldn't try to stop the pastor from hitting you, even at your condition? This is really not acceptable. That's why I can't marry an over religious person. A pastor once did something similar to me when I was younger. He felt I wasn't dancing enough and decided to call me out to dance in front of the church(imagine such embarrassment). First he called a lady out, who he accused of similar offence, and humiliated her in front of the congregation . When it was my turn, I simply told him point blank, that am not doing it. He was shocked. He came to me and asked why I decided to disobey a servant of God, I demanded that he hands over his micro phones to me, so I can say my reasons to everyones hearing. Sensing I might say something nasty, he refused and left. Marriage is not easy at all, dealing with over religious man, who doesn't see anything wrong with a fake pastor hitting his wife, even at her condition. You should have worned him seriously not to hit you again. Don't apologise, if you do, next time he will hit you harder or even ask you to kneel down in front of congregation. Just tell them, your doctor advised you not to over stress yourselves. If is not acceptable, tell them to go to hell !! 4 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by kense88: 8:03am On May 22, 2018 |
WhoBeThisMan:Oga abeg park well . Didn't you read where she stated she is an expectant mother ? If it was the pastors wife, will he hit her like that ? Who even punishes the pastor, when he does something wrong ? Nonsense 7 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by WhoBeThisMan: 8:13am On May 22, 2018 |
kense88:are you a Christian? If you are truly one and you know your bible you won't talk like that. Rebellion in church or on the house of God is a serious thing with God. Even if the church is a small church praying the "wrong way" according to her judgment. The best thing is this, humbly face the punishment and when you are done go to another church you feel comfortable with so as not to grieve the Holy spirit. I'm sure the punishment is not anything serious 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 8:40am On May 22, 2018 |
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Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 8:45am On May 22, 2018 |
WhoBeThisMan: When I see him again, I'll remind him of everything he said to me at the vigil, how he was making unnecessary jests saying Amen and Awomen when people's voices weren't loud enough, I'll also remind him of how he revolted and left his main church and went ahead to establish his own church thereby packing a whole lot of members with him when he couldn't be obedient and submissive to his boss.....This are the things I'll remind him of ....I've done it before and I can do it again, but I just don't want problems for my family...I'm just caught in a web...but trust me if I'm giving the microphone to talk , I'll say things that are not unwarranted no matter how hard I try...I don't think I'm sane enough to just let things slide especially when the reality is everything he asked me to do is against my faith and still they want an apology for it, trust me it will not be easy, if I actually do that ,I'll never be able to forgive myself... 3 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 8:52am On May 22, 2018 |
WhoBeThisMan: I have no problems with serving punishment bro, if it's what they want it's fine na...I can't force my self to be part of a group where I'm not accepted due to my actions, but continuing to attend the church is what I'm worried about cos obviously It would be more of pain to me going to church,and my hubby I'm sure would be displeased if I attend a different church......I'm sure he won't accept it..... |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Wiseandtrue(f): 8:53am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:So the cramp normally happens when you are in the church ![]() You need a conviction within yourself shall on why you have to believe in the ALMIGHTY and not be forced to go to church. While you are at It, to avoid calamity in your marriage like I said do it wisely before your husband thinks the reason for your avoidance is because you are possess! Some pastors can be overzealous so don't allow anyone to cause katakata for your marriage This is Africa! Go and see the pastor first so that next time he sees you or someone sitting he would realise that the person might be in pains. Talk more with your husband, let him understand you. Remember that your children are also watching, don't pass a wrong message across! Are unemployed or a house wife ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by WhoBeThisMan: 9:17am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:Do you know why the Christian faith has so many denominations? Its because there is a church for every one. One person may not feel accepted in Catholic Church, but feels at home in christ embassy and vise vasser. You don't have to attend the church after this. Just go to a place where your heart is settled, a place where you can grow spiritually. Pray and God will direct you. Just don't be rebellious 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by WhoBeThisMan: 9:22am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:calm down I know how you feel. You know I was once in a very funny situation myself, though not as bad as yours. My former church pastor laughed me to scorn because of a very valid idea I gave him. He made me feel stupid. I was so angry. But I just looked away from all that and moved on to a church I felt accepted and knew I could grow spiritually. Don't confront him., pls don't. Hold your self in. Serve the pirnishment and move on. It can't be so bad 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 9:30am On May 22, 2018 |
Wiseandtrue: The Pastor is an invited guest... I've seen my own pastor and he understands me well , he only said he understands that I wasn't feeling too okay but I should have just stayed at home instead of coming but of course he wasn't happy that all that scene happened in his own church. As regards my faith, I didn't say I don't believe in God , I'm just not a religious person......I'm convinced about my beliefs and faith in the creator and I stand by it...... I'm not a full time housewife, I'm self employed, I run a laundry business and into some side jobs. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Wiseandtrue(f): 9:52am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:A visiting pastor ![]() ![]() He could have called you afterwards and reprimand you if need be. The Church is not your pastors it's the Lords If truly he understood you, then he should have just advise you and move on. Your occupation is not an easy one coupled with the fact that you have other domestic chores and children to look after Women are really trying It's your husband who needs to understand you more and like I said when next such happens and he insists you go with him, go then excuse yourself then when you feel better, you join the congregation again Someday, he would see the efforts you are putting in and he will understand Men's reactions are different from each other, he would come around 4 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 10:30am On May 22, 2018 |
Wiseandtrue: The laundry Job is a discussion for another day....Not easy is an understatement, it's terribly not easy @ all.... I'll go for the verdict today and brief the house pn how everything unfolds....... |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Holymann(m): 10:30am On May 22, 2018 |
There was a way out at the beginning of this mess, but pride didn't let you see it. When he asked if you were pregnant or cold, a simple YES would have ended the drama. but because you felt he was praying the wrong way, you ignored him. Another chance presented itself when your pastor came to you, but you ignored him too (if you had told him you weren't ok then, shit wouldn't have gotten to this stage) IMO, the only way out (if you want to keep your home) is to apologize to the church. leaving the church will only damage your husband's reputation in the church and his work place to an extent (i remember you said he got his job thru a vip in the church). 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by Wiseandtrue(f): 10:42am On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen:I wish you the best and God who sees everything directs you in what to do and say. All the best! 2 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 11:21am On May 22, 2018 |
Wiseandtrue: Thanks dear. 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by adontcare(f): 11:29am On May 22, 2018 |
WhoBeThisMan:this is what I termed ' reasoning from the anus' 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by UnknownQueen(f): 11:58am On May 22, 2018 |
Holymann: I wasn't standing close to the Pastor, he spotted me from afar, and asked from the altar , so u expected me to shout from where I was that I was pregnant so he could hear me When my pastor came to hit me at the back, I already covered myself up with my wrapper and I couldn't see him but I knew he was the one hitting me, but I didn't say anything because I was madly provoked already, yes I was provoked and couldn't react to him at that moment...... Yes I've been thinking of the consequences my today's actions would have on my family (husband and children) I've accepted to apologize for the sake of my family....but continuing going to the church is a no no ....Cos henceforth things can never be right, besides I'll be going to church to warm the bench just like I've been doing, but it will be worse after the scene that played out between the invited preacher and I. |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by WhoBeThisMan: 12:05pm On May 22, 2018 |
adontcare:urs? |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by FriendofGod: 12:12pm On May 22, 2018 |
UnknownQueen: Listen, my dear, I am the friend of God. Don't let anyone boss you around in the body of Our Lord. The body does not belong to any man. It belongs to Jesus the Christ. 3 Likes |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by balaclava: 12:40pm On May 22, 2018 |
This setting called church denomination is silently becoming a CULT Members no longer have free will. Even God gave us free will. Nothing is by force with God. Church denomination is gradually becoming a problem rather than a blessing. That was how one G.O said if u don't pay tithe you won't make heaven. Full stop! 1 Like |
Re: Judgement Is About To Be Passed On Me Tomorrow,please Advise Me On What To Do by RealAdewole(m): 3:31pm On May 22, 2018 |
femi4: even when you have arthritis or pregnant? and hope you know that the woman in question is pregnant a church setting should be built and centred around love 2 Likes |
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