donstan18:
Drop her number bruv.

I can set Whatsapp and Facebook for older women very well, I can even help them rub cream and take a selfie with their wet nipples.

Just permit me to be her midnight charger, so that you'll focus on your girlfriend.

Jesus!!!!!! D18 you bahd chai

Gloryboy:

Lol... He no talk say e dey do shaku shaku with his girlfriend nau.

Lol. Omo ologo

flyca:
If you love yourself and your future - RUN!

More like FLEEEEEEEEEE.

Dacronym:

But this one is not married

Well he can do it, but he should be ready to face the consequences, because most cougars will satisfy him with material things but he must be ready to do her bidding.

Benz4pimp:
and his girl friend can not suck it dry abi?all dis dumb pamutations

He can marry his girlfriend. But can he marry the older lady Is the older lady looking for a husband

okomile:
Avoid her. Plenty pretty young babes around.
Don't go f u c k I n g your mother's age mate.

Money is not everything.
Will you be proud to show her to your friends that u b a n g her?

Decide what you truly want

is the President of France not proud of his wife? Is Darey Art Alade ashamed of his wife? We have a lot of men that have found love in women way older than them my bestie in the academy got married to an older woman and he doesn't take it lightly with anyone who says sh!t to him about her and he flaunts her. Personally, I like Older women and there's nothing to hide. What matters is how you feel for the person.

Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.

I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.

She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.

This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.

I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me

I have been looking for an older lady, baba just drop d contact or make i PM you?

@Troubledmind if the older lady handles you sexually, you'll probably kick your girlfriend to the curb after the encounter.


It's good to stick faithfully to your girlfriend though.

You can't eat your cake and have it

Since you have benefited from her, let her benefit from you.

BTW I don't know why am not in your shoes right now

One thing is sure, most girlfriends will dump the most faithful guy for money.
I've seen some well to do men today whose wealth story started from a lady/woman who loved them.
If you are focused and intelligent being close to this lady won't harm or derail your future. What she needs is your attention and not to marry her, she's lonely.
If I am in your shoes, I'll open up to her and know exactly her intentions and let her know my fears. Her response and actions will lead you.

Remember I said FOCUSED and INTELLIGENT

INDUSTRIALFAN:
she is single not married. Is it wrong for a young man to hook up with an older woman who isn't married?

But she had a kid which is almost same age as the op, and again you know the relationship is not a genuine one and can't lead to any meaningful destination.
There are two things involved
1. It maybe the lady is lonely and needs someone to have fun with, which has less than 20% probability. OR
2. Maybe she's out to get something(you know what I mean) from him since he's young and vulnerable, which has over 80% probability
I will advice him to run because either way it's wrong and won't favor him at the long run

Hmm.... judging from the responses I see here, I have come to the realization that guys have the tendency to be hoes(probably even more than their female counterparts). Indeed a good person is a bad person who has not been caught. See advice!
The only thing keeping them is the lack of opportunity.

OP do what your mind wants.

Quote me and get it HOT...

Viergeachar:


He can marry his girlfriend. But can he marry the older lady Is the older lady looking for a husband

The op is only 23 and still lives with siblings so therefore marriage ain't in his dictionary yet. The older woman just needs her engine oiled, sadly the op is too green.

Factfinder1:
God dey open door for this one he dey here dey shout please help are you mad

Na which time that same God go open ur own door for me....even if the door no open finish or e don spoil I go manage am..

Gloryboy:
Let's look at this in the spiritual realm, what if you have glory and this woman want to suck them dry?
My brother don't bcs of today spoil your tomorrow o.
A word is enough.

Muthafucka

Please give her my number 08037782248

Just be careful she because she may tell you some weeks later that she is pregnant. What will you do in such situation.? She may be deliberately setting you up to get a child.

This thread is funny

Please give her my number 08037782248 to beep me on whatsapp

sammirano:
Guy, you better not let anyone use you buy Range. No love anywhere, especially Nig. Dear runnnnn.

This kinda diabolical mindset won't get us far.

flyca:
If you love yourself and your future - RUN!

The lady is not married naa. Why would he run?

The new Macron in town, don't worry bleep her you will become president of Naija in future

From the look of things. I think OP wants to do do do but always needs a go ahead from the community. There you have it.

Go and do in peace

donstan18:



But fornication with his girlfriend cannot take his glory?

Oga carry your spiritual realm and glory komot for romance section abeg Go to religion section.

Lol!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The op is only 23 and still lives with siblings so therefore marriage ain't in his dictionary yet. The older woman just needs her engine oiled, sadly the op is too green.

He is not ready to marry his girlfriend either. But they are in a relationship heading for or that can end in marriage. Can that be the case with the older lady
There several men the age of the older lady or older who are very ready to service her engine. Why is she interested in this greenhorn

YOU BETTER STAY AWAY FROM THE DIRT OF ADULTERY

xynerise:
You can't eat your cake and have it

The correct phrase is "You can't have your cake and eat it."

Go and learn your phrases properly

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
This kinda diabolical mindset won't get us far.

It will.

For to be carnally minded is death. But to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
-Romans 6:13

Based:
You can do whatever with her, but i bet you, you aint gonna have a peaceful marriage with another lady around where she resides. This is danger son!

Except if he travels out. Even my friend that was disturbed by one fine rich woman some years back. After she gave birth to her last child, the woman still disturb my friend when he traveled to South Africa with chats and video calls. All these cougars are stubborn.

Gloryboy:
Let's look at this in the spiritual realm, what if you have glory and this woman want to suck them dry?
My brother don't bcs of today spoil your tomorrow o.
A word is enough.

The only thing she'll be sucking is his pennis... Or my huge pennis, if I get to meet her