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Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by ovanny15(f): 9:36am On Jun 20, 2018 |
dammy13: Both of you did it, both of you enjoyed it. If she is cheap, you are CHEAP too |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by regirich(m): 9:43am On Jun 20, 2018 |
The most useless and dumb question I've ever come across, wtf is wrong with marrying a lady you had sex with on your first date. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Altern8(m): 9:47am On Jun 20, 2018 |
I think a lady composed this story. Well, i have no problem dating and marrying a girl whom I had sex with on the first date. It’s not like she forced it on me or something. In fact I appreciate such girls more cos they’re upfront with their desires. No need for me to be calculating what she wants. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:00am On Jun 20, 2018 |
famosh:and what is the guarantee that you will not be a male olosho, infect her with STD and make her fight with side-chicks everyday and make her come crying on nairaland with stupid stories that we don't care for. After all you've confirmed that you're a randy, non-virgin womanizer? Why should your wife trust you? |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:00am On Jun 20, 2018 |
divinelove: As opposed to the guy who is tight and husband material se? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:02am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Speakdatruth: It's fictional now that it's doesn't not suit you but if the tables were turned, you'll be commenting up and down "fear women", "girls are olosho", "Nigerian girls are too broke and only sell their pvssy", "yen yen yen and other short stories". Abegiiiiiiiii 1 Like |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by fowlyansh181(m): 10:05am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff:please don’t blame guys in general , blame this fool , it’s not like it’s their first date, they were already talking for about 30 days according to him , the lady was really nice to him , but this fool choose to not see that but rather take the words of those stupid Lots he calls friends.. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:08am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Kyllahmc: If you think this is only about reputation and not about character then you've not be following the stories on the internet with married men cheating flagrantly because men have been taught that they have no reputation to preserve so they behave like wild animals, without discipline knowing no one will correct them. It's the same thing with a spoilt, over-pampered child. He talks anyhow, he steals what he wants, he beats anyone because he had been taught that "unlike other people", his "reputation" will not be "ruined". But he does not know he is growing up into a masquerade that will regret it in his old age. Keep saying its only women's reputation that will be ruined, do not learn discipline and self-control. In the next couple of months a new set of statistics on HIV in Nigeria will be released and even then your "gender" or "undestroyable reputation" will not save you. Peace. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:10am On Jun 20, 2018 |
milemimi93: And so? If she does not collect the money back he will still tag her as cheap for having sex on the first date so she might as well collect it back. She can't lose both ways. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by 02Kebreal(m): 10:12am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Saff: CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER? I want tell you something ni. Is not what you are thinking. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:14am On Jun 20, 2018 |
milemimi93:etymology ▼ showadjective (comparative lousier,superlative lousiest) * Remarkably bad; of poor quality, dirty, or underhanded; mean,contemptible. From the definition above out of this guy and the girl who is really lousy? |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:15am On Jun 20, 2018 |
bethyz: Lol no offence but are you gay? |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:17am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Respect55: This is what I hate about guys like you. She is simply saying the same things that many nairaland guys have said about women. Never did I see you call them out or criticize them for once but when a woman says, "this is what men are saying or thinking about us", you come and attack her like you were blind, deaf and dumb when your fellow guys were calling us olosho, kissing and telling and doing the same despicable things. Kindly pack well sir, thank you. Saff 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:18am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Respect55:Abeg leave her and go and face your fellow guys who say the same about women. She is not complaining in a vacuum, she did not pluck the argument from thin air, she has read it time and time again here on nairaland. Do your part by calling out guys who say this. simple. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by conscienceman4(m): 10:19am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Are you a hypocrite? Yes you are. You have been talking for seven good month, chatting, video calling and all that. The two of you did it at first contact. Somebody is thinking without conscience here. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by MarieSucre(f): 10:21am On Jun 20, 2018 |
famosh: Are you a virgin? Are you saying being a virgin is not a good quality for a man? Do you know irrespective of your gender if you fornicate you will got to hell fire? Do you know that God does not know whether it is a man's right to fvck around or not when judgement day arrives? Have a lovely day bro. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by divinelove(m): 11:04am On Jun 20, 2018 |
MarieSucre: Lol but you and I knows her thing would have marked alot of registers We all want a wife DT is a bit reserved not someone who sleeps arnd on first date |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by mhizcassidy001(f): 11:09am On Jun 20, 2018 |
so you mean because a girl make you go hell before fucking her,you gonna respect and marry her. or because a girl hard sex with you on the first date she is a slut.try and stroll into her DM you will see alot of ignore messages. nigga HOW OLD ARE YOU? OkpaAkuEriEri: |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by mhizcassidy001(f): 11:11am On Jun 20, 2018 |
MAYBE if you get married to a virgin,just maybe,cause all this holy holy long skirt sisters i dont trust them.they are all fuckers,come to kwara state come and see hijab sisters at every coner at night.just pray god should give you ya RIBS divinelove: |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by mhizcassidy001(f): 11:15am On Jun 20, 2018 |
you are there.they forgot we dont do olosho with trees,water,air but with them,they tag us olosho.if u wear nice out fit u r olosho, u r pretty,you are olosho,u build a house olosho,u buy a car olosho,you post wedding pic olosho,u post pre birthday pic olosho. but guys why now. MarieSucre: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by divinelove(m): 11:28am On Jun 20, 2018 |
mhizcassidy001: U r right Sha na God I tell guys DT one man's bae is another man's whor.e All na packaging |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by divinelove(m): 11:28am On Jun 20, 2018 |
mhizcassidy001: U r right Sha na God I tell guys DT one man's bae is another man's whor.e |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by famosh: 11:29am On Jun 20, 2018 |
MarieSucre:Madam, I don't know why you Nigerians are like this! You don't have a problem with people who choose spouses based on physical appearance which is the way God created them, but you have a problem with people who don't want to marry a "non-virgin" which was under their control, right? Again, even if I'm not a virgin, it's not absurd to want to only marry a virgin! You don't complain when short & dark guys or girls claim they want to marry a tall & fair person when they're, in fact, the opposite of what they seek! It happens all the time, madam! That's life! |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by McBrooklyn(m): 11:31am On Jun 20, 2018 |
BiafranBushBoy:Lol... Mo for ooo... |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Respect55(m): 11:31am On Jun 20, 2018 |
MarieSucre:So throwing tantrums unnecessary on social Media is a yes to u |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Respect55(m): 11:33am On Jun 20, 2018 |
MarieSucre:Bird of a feather |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by demum(m): 11:39am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Marry her if you love her. Is not big deal. People have denied so many of there friends Opportunity of marrying good girls they meet because of irrelevant caricature and cheap gossip of so many things. Sex before marriage is not ideal whether first or 10th day, is same thing. If there is cheap stuff here, I think is both of you |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by Kelvin30286063(m): 11:46am On Jun 20, 2018 |
I slept with my fiancée the first day she visited me. We've been together for 5 years. And we are getting married this October. There is no big deal. The dating started only so its not exactly the first day. Naija and wahala... Love is different from sex. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by milemimi93(m): 11:50am On Jun 20, 2018 |
MarieSucre: If op said the lady did all those stuffs without asking for a refund maybe my mentality towards y'all naija women would have changed. I'd have droped the notion that 'all naija women are the same'. My work today maybe would have bin reaching out to ladies I might have hurt either by my words or actions and telling them how sorry I am. Starting from my uncles wivies down to NwanyiAwkaetiti and UyaiIncomparabl. But you see! Y'all are the same. Religion, tribe or education couldn't change y'all. Ho.es gonna be ho.es. I feel sorry for men who still take y'all as wivies and girlfriends. The said lady is 29yo and she's desperate. Looking for who she will trapped with her fake kindness. Y'all are written-off. Y'all are disgusting. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by austyn0(m): 12:04pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
MarieSucre:Laughs...I read it like thrice before I realized it was edited...Cuz I was like,, this wasn't how I placed the words..... I hope you didn't think I am laying the blame on just the lady....The miss was tryna blame just the dude for being confused forgetting the lady should be faulted as well. |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by austyn0(m): 12:12pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
sarahade:There you go,, our reasoning as humans differs... |
Re: Is It Safe To Marry A Lady I Slept With On The First Date? I’m Confused by tulk2mi: 12:31pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
My wife slept with me the first day she came to visit, u would think she was cheap right? she wasn't, she had been celibate for two years b4 then cos of a heartbreak from her ex who married someone else while he was still wit her cos they were not of the same tribe, it was a colleague of his who was disgusted by his action that told her. He was so callous that even on his wedding day he was calling to check on her while she was traveling to Lagos on a business trip. Also at that same time she had about two suitor who were earnestly seeking her hand in marriage ( both of them were well to do) yet she paid her own transport traveled down PH were i was residing then and we did it. When a decent girl does something she would not be too proud to tell her friends just for you, just know that she has fallen in love wit u without realizing dat herself. She spent the remaining 18 months of our courtship trying to prove her love without knowing that i already know. I am glad dat i was matured enough to know the difference btw a cheap girl and one who does crazy things for love. Today am glad i married her, she still does those crazy things and interestingly i dont have trust issues wit her. The lady u described does not look cheap to me, she seems to be an independent lady who has been unlucky to meet pple who cannot see beyond her financial status or beauty, i think u connected with her during ur chat, and she trusted u enough to be dat stupid, i guess she was wrong abt u cos u r a typical nigerian man who equates playing hard to get to decency |
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