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My Boyfriend Wants Me To Accommodate His Ex With Three Kids / After Three Kids... I Dont Have Urge Fir Sex Anymore / Read For The Sake Of My 2 Kids Please! (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Hillview200: 3:22pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Oga marry her 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Met her at a restaurant? The jazz no be here. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by friendl: 3:22pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Guy ,you don taste her sweetness 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
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Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by afroxyz: 3:23pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
32 year old man still calling his mummy. WTF is wrong with my generation? Which do us this Kain thing. That we can stand up and even defend our decisions even if it is wrong in the eyes of others? Your mum would kill you not because of the woman's age and kuds but because you are still a kid 11 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by buchilino(m): 3:23pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
LIKE SERIOUSLY?, OP IS ASKING FOR HELP. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by weyreypey: 3:24pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Legaycey:Keep quiet when reasonable persons are talking 1 Like
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Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by LegitBoyy: 3:24pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Homeboiy: Because mathematics isn't taught in English? Ve never seen any dumb thrash like this before. 8 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Octaves(m): 3:25pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Homeboiy:pls you are not any better than him. answer his question if you can. this is not an English class. 8 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by okwabayi(m): 3:25pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Introduce her to your parents and tell them this story verbatim. Ask them for blessings since you want to marry her and build a home for the children. Anything your parents say is what you should take. Forget whatever nairalanders give as advice. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by EdoBoy90(m): 3:25pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Homeboiy:. Mathematics Students or Mathematics Student? Learn plural and singular next time "You Mathematics Students?" plural. mathematics Students that know how to construct English. I am just laughing at you Please before you post or comment next time, go and learn singular and plural using Brighter Grammar 17 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Olafisoyem: 3:26pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
smoke123: It’s up to you!! 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by 3RNEST(m): 3:26pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
smoke123:your mum..... Lolx |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by MaziEDOZIE(m): 3:26pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
smoke123: Continue with her, after all age is no barrier as far as she dey knack wellaa |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by ObaKlaz: 3:27pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Homeboiy:''...can't construct a simple English (sic)'' ''...can write a better English (sic)'' You see your life, Mr. Perfect?? 7 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:28pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
You can milk the cow, but you don’t have to buy it... 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by BeeBeeOoh(m): 3:30pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
The lady's toto is what we call "tOtO-Extraordinaire, see as my guy reasoning don jam hightension But, come to think of it; The kind ingredients and spices wey God put for this tOtO is beyond men's comprehension 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by jibs4lv(m): 3:30pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Homeboiy:you are a big fool 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by imperiouxx(m): 3:30pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
uwa1: Don't mind that mumu. Those are the kind of Nigerians that irritate me on forums like this. You would think their articulation in English language would ever make their life better..... but no 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Photizooo(m): 3:31pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Bros, u don chop omo mi bami joko, enjoy ur ride 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by FairAdvocate(m): 3:31pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Brother! Brother!! Brother!!! You better wake up from your infatuation and understand the clear-cut difference between love and whatever thing you feel for her after the mind-blowing sex you had with her. Marriage is more than just "I love her and enjoy sex with her" it means you are ready to carry her burden...are you man enough 11 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by darkmarky(m): 3:31pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
daewoorazer:lol my mommy will kill Me..this is hilarious.. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Lexusgs430: 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
smoke123: Why you chop her food + HER FOOD, when you no wan marry? 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Viking007(m): 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
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Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by 3RNEST(m): 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
BeeBeeOoh: Guy behave... 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by DaRuud(m): 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Hit like ifvyou think this guy is reasoning with his d**k rather his brain smoke123: 5 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by mimimile93: 3:33pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
smoke123:whatever makes u happy and it does not hurt others or offend ur creator, do it. Older women tend to be more tender and loyal than these 23 yrs old slu.ts 9 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by 3RNEST(m): 3:34pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
darkmarky:Like seriously I'm still laughing my chest.... @32 still talking about mummy... i guess he must be last born child... 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by fynex(m): 3:34pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
smoke123: Your mum didn't kill you when you had sex with her... Are you sure you're 32 because you sound like 22.... When you realize that she's pregnant with her fourth child and your first child, hope you will ask mummy if you should accept it.... 4 Likes |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by williams080: 3:34pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
well na toto they sweet you, for now, soonest your eyes go open 1 Like |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by AreaFada2: 3:34pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
smoke123: Dude let me advise you. Do not allow just good sex blow your mind and feel you're in love. Are you truly in LOVE? Do you know her real marital history? I need to WARN you about step-kids. Her age is not even the issue. 5 years difference, if she's ready to be "submissive as a wife" should things go further, no problem. But ask yourself how mature you are to manage a more vastly experienced woman. MOST step kids I have known never appreciated efforts of their step-dad. They always felt their biological dad would have cared better, even if no evidence for it. Most step-dads often bend-over backwards just to please step kids. He'd also let step-kids get away with many things so that people won't say he's punishing them because they are not his biological kids. It becomes a very delicate balance to ever get right. Also remember you will have to help raise three kids of another man before even starting yours. With a VERY high chance of not been appreciated for it or get mentioned on social media as "BEST DAD EVER" on father's day! It not their fault, they will miss their dad and MOST do not ever accept another man replacing their dad. NEVER. I know too many sad cases currently. If you're very rich or famous, they might enjoy your wealth or enjoy your famous name to make them accept you better. Your woman currently lives for her kids, fending for them. That will remain so until they grow up. It is MUCH more complex than "If I am good to them and treat them well like my own kids, they will accept me". Human judgement of good treatment is very subjective. Things we might accept as normal from own blood parents, we might never accept from others. Your step-kids are like your in-laws. They "allow" you marry or date their mother. No much appreciation therefore for your efforts. It takes an individual appreciative nature of a step-kid or an in-law to value your efforts. Certainly not a given. If you're so very keen to do charity, there are many NGos out there that help very poor orphans. That way you truly get nothing back. But in this case you have their mum. So not charity anymore. Do not let people convince you by saying just carry on, marry her, love will see you through, etc. Love in the Nigerian setting is very ambiguous and tenuous/flimsy. You must wonder if anyone actually knows what it means these days. BE VERY SURE that you want it. If you're double-sure, good luck. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am In Love With A Woman With Three Kids. Please Help by Lexusgs430: 3:35pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
ObaKlaz: Hin don show hinself....... For hin mind, hin dey perfect..... The same complaint he had, he committed the same error... 1 Like |
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