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Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by gotnel: 9:16pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Not really bad for him to marry a woman that has gotten three kids from her first marriage. Let him take a proper check on himself and the woman. Once he is satisfied with what comes out of his analysis of the previous, the present and future life of the woman and the children, he is good to go. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by ladyverere(f): 9:18pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
It is funny. A divorcee or even a widow with kids can't get married by Nigerians standard but if it was the man who is a divorcee with even 7 children none of you advising against it would have told the lady not to go ahead! Such hypocrisy. That lady is really strong, courageous and independent. She sounds like she knows what she wants cos it won't be easy being solely responsible for those kids. But he should really find out the real reason for her divorce in order to avoid matters that touch. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by badesco(m): 9:21pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Capital No...No...No... and if you do, you will regret throughout your life time. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by ItzBIM(m): 9:31pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
cococandy:No one is saying they don’t deserve love, but three kids is a bit too much especially in Nigeria where there is no child support coming from the ex husband. The new husband will also want to have his kids, too much. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by olabright11(m): 9:34pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
What a rare responsibilities, it's good bcs such a woman will be so much careering but he should think twice bcs. It's Not easy, Best of luck. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Jeff9498(m): 9:49pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
It is very very wise. Infact, it is the wisest decision any man can make right now. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by bouncing99: 9:50pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
majamajic:you are confusing me in 3D, going x, y and even z axis at the same time |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Adavizeisaac(m): 10:04pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe:I'm 100% sure that you've already known the answer to your question. So, why seeking for justification? |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by allanphash7(m): 10:04pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
I hope you don't find yourself in some shiit Then you will know there is different between six and half a dozen Swint: |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
any man that marry a divorced woman commits adultery with her |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by victorian(f): 10:26pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Well if the man knows deep down in his heart, he cannot impregnate any woman, which means he's infertile? Then he can go ahead and marry her with her children. But if he knows he wants his own child to be born as well, through that same divorcee, then he's digging a deep hole for himself and his own unborn kids. It's not in Nigeria, one can try such. Not even at this recent times where most people no longer appreciate anything their partner's do for them. He's on a suicidal mission and regrets will be the end result. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Ishilove: 10:29pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
milemimi93:You latter statement is glaringly lacking in intelligence 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by allanphash7(m): 10:31pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Maybe you've not see or heard about some shiits about women before If you ask me im ready to tell you Im a living expenses dominique: |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by allanphash7(m): 10:34pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
I can read some sentiment in your comment But alot is happening that you don't know Women do play a victim game alot I'm a man with experience of you don't know SapphirePRINCEX: |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by cococandy(f): 10:37pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
That’s definitely true ItzBIM: |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by cococandy(f): 10:42pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Yea each to their own franchasng: |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by bukatyne(f): 10:55pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
milemimi93: Not true |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by onyekabe(m): 11:03pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
ladyverere:if it is a man he will remarry with problems because he provides for everyone in the family but if it is a woman she will shift the responsibility to the new husband. Just like this my brother is facing now. Imagine a struggling man taking another man responsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by onyekabe(m): 11:06pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
As a result of this bros relationship with the witch he has has never contributed money for the upkeep of his mother. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by onyekabe(m): 11:08pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Adavizeisaac:I posted this here so that he can see how bad his plan to marry the witch is |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by milemimi93(m): 11:08pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
bukatyne:What's not true? |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by bukatyne(f): 11:40pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe: To marry a divorcee, you must know their story. It is not enough to say her husband was abusive. What was/is the proof? You do not want to be number two for a serial monogamist. What striking character does she possess that makes him leave all the single ladies to marry a divorcee with three kids? Is he financially capable to care for them? How would he feel if later, the kids refuse to accept correction from him because 'he is not their dad'? How would he feel if three years after the marriage they are unable to conceive for whatever reason? What happens if the wife 'loves' her first kids more than his? So many what is that the woman must be expectional to worth it. But again, if she was amazing... why is she divorced? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by bukatyne(f): 11:41pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
milemimi93: That men only allow the kids go with their mother when they are not theirs. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by milemimi93(m): 11:50pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
bukatyne: According to op, those kids are not infants.. So why will a man allowed his grown up children to be in the custody of a prostitute? |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Kezlink11: 12:09am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Bad idea. I have an uncle rich and single who got married to a lady he met in one of the Nigeria cities who is divorced with three kid,the eldest 12 at the time. she left them with her mother somewhere. When she became pregnant her real attitude began to show.When family member started finding out stuffs about her she claimed that her children were adopted at first, but when it became obvious her story changed to Her ex is a ritualist, he deal in drugs, he is into human trafficking and so on. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by yussuph: 12:37am On Jul 06, 2018 |
May God help us when it come to who to marry. [color=#000099][/color] 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Obodo999(m): 12:50am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Your brother indeed |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by newslifeop: 1:03am On Jul 06, 2018 |
hmmm |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by OyinO: 2:56am On Jul 06, 2018 |
He is about to embark on a journey that leads to a destination of lasting regrets and sorrows. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Flye: 5:51am On Jul 06, 2018 |
ladyverere: The only funny thing here is you women sees everything as a competition or it must be applicable to both genda not realising that every genda has peculiarity and role. If a woman marries a man with 7kids, she is sure those children are not her responsibilities, in fact on many occasions the woman dominates and overshadow the presence of the children at home. Many time those women ends up molesting and abusing those children. It also does not prevent the other woman from having her own children. If a man marries divorcee woman with 3 kids, this is Nigeria that child support is not in existence, the man is certain to take partial or full responsibilities of those children. After 3 children, how many more children is the woman willing to give birth to for the man? Don't you think the man also needs 2 or 3 kids of his own? This should not be seen as gender thing, it goes beyond common gender sentiment. What the woman needs is divorcee or widower like herself who really does not need children and his own children are old enough to cope with competing interest and dominance rivalry in the family. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 6:05am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Interestingly a couple that were our good friends got divorced. The wife is hot, competent successful, born again. The husband is my friend, but I blame him. Anyone who marries the ex wife will how they say, have found a good thing. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by godofuck231: 6:22am On Jul 06, 2018 |
the gods are wise and they knew no native doctor can cure self poisoning, the child who is not guided when looking for yam Beatles to eat might end up eating Beatles that eat shit. |
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