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Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
We are still talking but I want to make her my Friday night paddy. ibkayee: |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by ibkayee(f): 11:16pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
DonPiiko:Just don't be creepy mate lol good luck |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Maxi112: 11:23pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
DonPiiko:All right bruv, just asking, nothing serious. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Colourich:No! Dating isn't supposed to be fun filled but duty filled. Don't get me wrong, I'm not insinuating you have to work yourself out In a relationship. My point is having the idea that dating should be fun filled is totally wrong. Dating should be for matured minds who are ready to accept, love, care, support one another to but a lasting relationship (Marriage ) and not to have Fun. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Lool I won't be. I wish me well. ibkayee: |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
It's all good. Maxi112: 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Alariiwo: 11:28pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
you're dating the wrong guys. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by banre(m): 11:30pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
MissRaine69: lol, who used you and didn't appreciate 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Dating itself is a challenge! Accepting another person who is almost completely different from you into your life for a long period of time isn't an easy task. But dating has become almost impossible these days because of the misunderstanding people have of it. To some dating is all about getting involved with whom you are attracted to. If only people master the act of taking a step back to observe whom they are attracted to before getting closer, we wouldn't have recycled bin of ex's we have these days. To some Dating is about getting a girl to cook my food, warm my bed and pay my bills . So when they see someone who does these better, they leave to be with them. To some dating is to have " someone to call mine". Now this is the most awkward but common reason of all. Dude! Girlie! No one is yours! Except the person wants to be yours. You have no power to own anyone's emotions. Dating has also become almost impossible these days because people are no longer ready to sacrifice the love, time, patience, materials etc. People do not have faith and hope in one another, People do not want to fight for each other anymore. They prefer to move unto the next 'one' than to make it work with the present one. (A perfect example is Donpiiko who has decided to hook up with a fancy because he is having issues with his reality). Dating has became impossible because everyone wants love but no one wants to be love. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
MariaLavina why you mention me, I owe you |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by sacajawea: 11:45pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Where do we start @op We'll it can't really be Explained like that, but visit the Ashawo thread too see why, see reality |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
DonPiiko:Read up and be enlightened. You can not owe me, We have no dealings. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Dacronym(m): 12:03am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Look at all your topics, Are you making money from this? You don chop belleful abi I No blame you After they say the country is mourning Give me Something make I take Stake sure games tomorrow |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 12:31am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina:There is a different between dating and marriage, marriage is a different ball game altogether. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 12:36am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Colourich:Lol, please read my response over again. To your opposition, If dating isn't intended to lead to something lasting (Marriage / Long term relationship ) Why date? |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 12:45am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina:The thing here is, we all don't have marriage in mind while dating, if you keep having marriage in mind while dating, it becomes boring and you won't be free and expressive. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by donjobill: 6:30am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Colourich: |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Stycon(m): 7:38am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Yeah, it's supposed to and it could be. It's a phase in the forever journey where two people purposefully choose to get to know each other, build each other up...towards an end. You are not wrong MissRaine69. It's Just that the process could get frustrated if the other party doesn't see it that way. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Colourich:Quit the generalization, some people still have a clear understanding of what dating means. To you dating is for fun, to some it isn't. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 8:44am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina:I like fun . |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 9:20am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MissRaine69: My dear, time's have changed. I hate reminicing on the good ol' days but I do miss it. Genuine attraction, genuine smile, the way their eye's light up when they see each other. We will never experience that again, that smile, that enthusiasm, all gone ; ( Its one of the disadvantages of technology. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by PUSSYHOE(m): 10:08am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MissRaine69:we both know no Nigerian lady is seeing just one partner at a time yet no Nigerian girl in history has ever agreed she is a hoe! 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by romenna: 10:25am On Jul 07, 2018 |
LivingFree:dear u r correct. Alot of pipo go into relationship wit a wrong mindset, a mindset to defraud the other party. Whoeva goes into any relationship empty handed is a fraudster wether male or female. Some go into it with only their bodies, no single personal life achievement and expect to feed off their partner. Fraud! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by jorion(m): 10:25am On Jul 07, 2018 |
fact is most girls don't know how to hustle n strive for success. they don't even know that it is a process that involves gradual and steady growth. When girls start placing more values on running a successful business rather than running down their partner's pocket in shoprite, then things might change. FYI, not all girls |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by romenna: 10:30am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Dacronym:aggressive begger |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by donjobill: 10:33am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina: Different strokes for different folks! |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(f): 11:07am On Jul 07, 2018 |
banre:So every post has to have some personal story? You are incapable of thinking objectively or talking about what you observe around you? If this is how you view life in general you have my sympathies. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(f): 11:12am On Jul 07, 2018 |
PUSSYHOE:That’s your view your are entitled to it. And I am certainly not in that category of yours. And I know many who are not as well. Whateever it is you are trying to justify with the name calling is generalisation and stereotypes . You are just one big ball of anger misplaced anger. |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(f): 11:13am On Jul 07, 2018 |
Admin401:Depends on where you cast your fishing rod .... |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by MissRaine69(f): 11:13am On Jul 07, 2018 |
ZxN657:No thank you |
Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by Nobody: 11:15am On Jul 07, 2018 |
MissRaine69:That's the thing about catching fishes, you don't tell the sea what kind of fish to give you. |
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