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Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by divinelove(m): 8:36pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
MarieSucre: That's why you must be careful about who you choose to be your husband because after marriage you must submit to him till death do you part except you divorce him |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by dafemnet: 8:37pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
MarieSucre:This single old woman is even talking |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Orgym(m): 8:37pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
emelda86: That is her own side of the story. You never heard from the man. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 8:40pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
divinelove: Uncle you're on your own. Even Naomi did not submit to her husband till death but decamped to King David. Stick to advising men to better servants too. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by proffemi: 8:40pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
MarieSucre: Thin air? Please. That appears to be your forte. I said "obviously" because I have, out of curiosity, followed op's visits here. She has been online half a dozen times, and stopped contributing when the questions got piercing. Clearly because they would not favor her narrative. Oh, how do I know she comes here? Because she obviously created this personae just for this thread. Comprehension guru I am not, but you can certainly learn a thing or two about deductive reasoning from me. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 8:40pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dafemnet: As I said before, even men talk anyhow too. Case in point, the efulefu above. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by proffemi: 8:44pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
MarieSucre: You're demonstrating the full repertoire of annoying female tricks tonight, God bless you. The one you did above is a classic: Refuse to admit wrongdoing, then, when faced with irrefutable evidence, make a quick and shallow attempt at an apology, but quickly follow up with a silly justification. Don't you and your ilk realize that this negates the "apology' or admission of guilt? |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by dafemnet: 8:46pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
MarieSucre:u better look for a female partner asap cos u are getting old for any sensible man. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 8:50pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
proffemi: She got tired of contributing because the thing is already up to page 30. If she needed an answer she probably already got one in the earlier pages. This is not a superstory thread where she will just sit down and be breaking ground nut and gisting with y'all. Uncle do not attribute to malice what can be explained away as distraction or fulfillment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Biglittlelois(f): 8:53pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
proffemi: But oga, why are you monitoring her online presence, you're stalking her already, maka why? do you expect her to dish out every issues she ever had with her husband that may have build up to the extent of the man telling her to pack out we cant know every single detail of what happened so make use of what was said, Yes she has her fault, he also has his fault, even if it was only her the husband threatened to leave the house, do you think any sane woman would leave her kids behind what if that's what she means by she and her kids packing out? there are soo many "if" here so why conclude it may be infidelity some people are already saying her husband may not be the father of the kids that's why he reacted that way smh!! just say your opinion and move on haba. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 8:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
proffemi: It's not my ilk uncle. I learnt from the best on nairaland. When a woman brings her problem on nairaland. You people always follow up with comments like "maybe you're doing something bad, check yourself". Now I'm turning the tables and saying "maybe the husband did something bad and is too arrogant to humble himself". Why is it paining you? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 8:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dafemnet: If you're the only son of your family, then your family is ruined. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by proffemi: 8:59pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: Because she came online and specifically asked for advice. She gave a version of the narrative that favored her.Then she clammed up just after the questions got tough. So I wondered if she'd simply left the thread, or had simply lost appetite to respond. If she didn't want strangers asking questions, she could have stayed offline. Besides, she can simply say when the questions are too personal. As to whether she has better things to do: why don't you read through her posts and decide if that sounds like someone for whom this is a side show? |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by dafemnet: 9:03pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
MarieSucre:I just offered u a simple advice and u got angry.No sensible man will marry, so quickly look for a Female partner to help u, age is no longer on ur side. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Orgym(m): 9:13pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I can see from the comments and contribution of people here, reasons why many marriages could not stand the test of time. 1. The woman could not give detail account of what transpired between them, that led to such demand from the husband. She only gave the result of an argument between them, even until now. 2. Both husband and wife agreed to spend their money on two projects even when she claimed the ownership of the money. Madam it is not your money. 3. A woman disrespect marriage institution by claiming to be the sole ownership of a family house even when she only pay for the land ( as she claimed). She failed to tell us how the house was built and some shallow minded people can only advice her to keep the document to herself. 4. The woman disrespect and betrayed the trust repose on her by her husband. The husband have not bothered, (based on trust), to check the document probably because of love and trust or because of personal reason unknown to us here. 5. Madam, I sense a selfish attitude in you. 6. There is a wide gap between you and your husband and that led to this secrete you kept to yourself. However, I have to be frank here, sometime Nairaland can be helpful because of comments and contributions from some mature and positive minded people but it can also be devastation as some are shallow minded. I can't imagine why some here can give advice that can lead to total collapse of the marriage. A lot of advice have be given here, it is left for you to filter and chose the right one IF ONLY YOU WANTED TO FIX YOUR HOME. Remember, the pride of a RESPONSIBLE, woman is a stable and happy family. Be humble to apologise to your husband, meet your marriage councillor, pray about it, then both of you should see a legal adviser (together after resolving personal differences). See you happy soon. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 9:21pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
sacramento1212: But right thinking men chase their wives out of their house. Let's turn the tables. Right thinking women will take a man chasing them out of both their matrimonial homes se They way you men make excuses for each other sha. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by kamkechi(f): 9:22pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Don't shift ground at all, this is not pride at all but wickedness , think with your head and not your heart, imagine it was in his name, you and your children would have been homeless by now, madam don't shift ground oh and he will come around and if he doesn't let him be. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by bukatyne(f): 9:24pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
kay9: Hmmmm |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by bukatyne(f): 9:24pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
iPopAlomo: Not seen an answer o. Cc: platony, obason22 and oklander |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Biglittlelois(f): 9:41pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
proffemi: Does it really matter if she is online or offline this thread is close to page 30, do you expect her to answer each and every questions asked she can choose to reply or not and she may also be online to read more opinions, why are you so worked up on that you are taking it personal, typical of a man!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Biglittlelois(f): 9:47pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
bukatyne: You are actually waiting for an answer lol!! you actually expect her to tell every single detail of what transpired, what if it was a build up of issues that has been going on for a very long time if she decides to say all do you know how many pages it will take there are soo many "what if" so contribute your opinion on the little detail laid out and move on. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by proffemi: 9:49pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Biglittlelois: Comprehension 101. Online => she came to the Internet to ask for advice. Offline => she could have left her problem off the Internet (in this case, Nairaland home page). What manner of person runs somewhere agitated, seeks for advise, and then disappears when the adviser asks for clarification? Worked up? Not at all. But yes, I did have a lot of time on my hands today. Ends now. Bye. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 9:49pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
YorubaEmir: Op if you take this advice you will homeless in under a year I am warning you. Next time oga odd not like the amount of salt you put in his food, combined with his sugar baby he is hiding outside He will tell you to get out and this time you're on your own. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by bukatyne(f): 9:51pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
[quote author=Biglittlelois post=69415944] Well she told us a part, she can as well tell us the rest so we can advise objectively. According to her, they had a fracas that led to him packing out. The advise/approach she would receive if the fracas is not cooking his favorite soup at 1 am will be different from the husband finding out that 2 out of their 3 kids are not his. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by MarieSucre(f): 9:52pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
offshoreking: Women always feel pride and ego, yet every day it's always men telling wives to get out of their house, stop one job they're doing because it is hurting their pride, not acquire so and and so property because they're the man what will people think, breaking their homes by fvcking up and down because it's their pride to be naturally polygamous. Mtchewwww it's like your new to nairaland and don't see all these post. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall: A lot has been said but no one remembered to ask you what "MAJOR" disagreement that led to him saying you should pack out. Can pls add that part? |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by dafemnet: 9:57pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
MarieSucre: |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I have a unique solution for the OP. But she would have to contact me privately off this thread. A solution that will allow her to regain both her husbands trust and also be safe for her so she doesn't lose all if the man is not actually as good as she thinks he is. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Obason22(m): 9:59pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
paulynpen:God will help u. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Biglittlelois(f): 10:06pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Orgym: Geez y'all asking for detailed info of the arguement, what do you need that for if you dont believe her dont comment, just read and go, she said he's a good man, obviously she wants him back, he mis-talk saying she should pack out, she mis-talk saying the house is hers, she still begged him ooo, what details do you want to hear again obviously they are both selfish, self centered beings!!! Initially the plan was not on 2 projects oga but one(house), emergency came and he used his' for his parents abeg and she did not claim any ownership, where did you get that from she used her part to buy land and quote" they built it together" obviously she had more or less 75% stake in the house. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Biglittlelois(f): 10:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
dafemnet: Why the defamation you really dont need to do this to prove a point 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by paulynpen(m): 11:24pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EagleNest: I understand your position but you were biased, now when the MSN spent his money in treating his dad, did he told his dad that the money was from his wife? Of course no, so how did he still expect his name to be solely on the property without considering the wife who sacrificed her share?. You try to put holes in the story in favour of your friend without criticizing the MSN inhuman act of throwing his wife and kids out of the house they laboured to build, even if the man had used his portion to join in the building is is fair to remove his wife's from the ownership? Obviously you were biased. Treatment or not, do you think the woman does not have pressing need at that time? If she had used it like him would he have come to drag the house. What I am criticizing him for is his inhuman act, over bloated ego and wickedness |
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