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Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Tysam302: 4:54am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Reasonabledoubt:Your last two paragraphs makes lot of sense , that's the best OP can do |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by AvailableCofOLa(m): 5:25am On Jan 22, 2018 |
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Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Blonchilli(m): 11:37am On Jan 22, 2018 |
Ayoolajumoke:Growing up as child a lot of things went through one's mind, even suicide. Divorce is hard. Soooo hard. But sometimes I'm happy about it, not for the lives it ruined but because it actually made me a better person. I've learnt from my parents mistake and although I'm hurt inside and some things I can never get back you have to let it go. It's hard but you have to, else you'll become thesame person you hated. You'll still carry the hurt into marriage but you must learn from it. Some ladies have done extremely well for a single mom same with single fathers. The main thing is to learn from it. 2 Likes |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 5:48pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Thank you all for your contributions. I'm better now, Jah bless y'all. 2 Likes |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Tekecoms1(m): 2:56pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
It's been 22 years ago since my parents divorced. Life has to go on. My dad's own is too much. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by ladycomfort(f): 4:37pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
Neyoor:. Tell the story biko. Let's learn ![]() |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Fundamentalist: 10:37pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
I must say , psychologically you are strong , very strong ![]() ![]() Though , i do feel some form of pity for those who live through such, most do not come out as strong as you did The sky is your limit ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by revolt(m): 5:21am On Apr 07, 2018 |
[quote author=Kanwulia post=27720277] That is the point! YOUR FATHER NEVER LOVED YOU! He walked out on you! HIS CHOICE! The problem is YOUR FATHER, not "a broken home"! ![]() Nothing wrong with broken homes, if the children are LOVED AND CARED FOR BY BOTH PARENTS! WE ALL LEARNED SELF-RESPECT AND HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION!!! LOVE IS NOT BY FORCE! ![]() There are "MANY UNBROKEN" homes were the children are ABANDONED by both parents who still CLAIMED TO BE YOLKED BY POVERTY OR POLYGAMY(PSEUDO-MARRIAGES). . . . .aka SHIARRRRRRING TOTOS AND BLOKOSES! ![]() I will still prefer my situation 100%!!!! The 4 children are THE ONLY CHILDREN FROM MY PARENTS!!!!!!! We grew up to be EMOTIONALLY-FORMIDABLE. . . . . .AND LEARNED TO LOVE ONLY THOSE WHO LOVED US!!!! ![]() We did not miss NATIN!!!! Amen!!!!! ![]() |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by revolt(m): 6:02am On Apr 07, 2018 |
I'll share a lil story here. True life . I had an intern work under me last year, really nice good looking damsel but behind all tht smile I sensed a sense of trying to belong. I'd noticed shed hardly mentioned her dad on matters concerning the home front. Ibe day u asked where's popsy?!! Ofcos I heard every type of abuse, how he'd abandoned her, was a wicked heartless man, infact he hadn't dropped a kobo for her from birth. I asked if shed spoken lately to him, she replied " she NVR wanted to see him, and wouldn't be there at his burial".. Well to cut the story short, I advised her to drop her ego and call him up, introduce herself, and see his reaction (since the last time she saw him she was 7). She viciously rejected this advise but the next day came back to say shed pondered over everything and decided to call him. That same day she came back almost skipping that he was so happy to hear from her and even arranged that she come over to ondo state(he'd started a family there). He even wired some cash to her in minutes. Now what amazed me most was, this was a girl professing hatred and demonizing her dad, who was a gd for nothing broke man, etc here she was so full of joy. Anyways she went to see him, the new wife ironically welcomed her. Now she' didn't even need to hear his own side. She's smply ovdrjoyed she reunited with her dad. If you really want to know how she did this I can give you her number (DM me) only her can describe the feeling of finding out her dad actually loved her but had to let her go for peace of mind. Just wondering hw being an Intern under me saved Her, she's so gratedul . Now this may not be the story for everybody, but it's imperative to always srsy neutral until ur directly hurt by a parent. Op u are entitled to be cared for by yr Dad, if he's capable it's your right. Reach out you might be shocked at how this turns out. Let him directly show himself to you before u decide. When parents fight the children suffer. 2 Likes |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 8:12pm On Apr 07, 2018 |
Fundamentalist: Awnnn, thanks for these kind words. I smiled reading through it. God bless. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 8:16pm On Apr 07, 2018 |
revolt: I created this topic almost 4 years ago and the only thing that has changed is that my mum became totally incapable to shoulder any of our responsibilities (my brothers and I) so, I just have to be strong for myself. I don't need to reconnect with him too, he is totally useless and he's not significant. Thanks for the offer though, I am not interested. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by revolt(m): 8:31pm On Apr 07, 2018 |
Ayoolajumoke:so why then are u so hurt. Sorry bout ur mum. But u rmba she said exactly the same thing before she decided to try out reconciliation. Well its ur life, ur worries my dear . 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 8:35pm On Apr 07, 2018 |
revolt: It is only normal to be hurt. Yes, my life, my worries! Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Tonalphs(f): 2:33pm On Apr 08, 2018 |
I come from a broken home. But I was 17years n in 200level then. Although the signs that the marriage was heading to the rock were there yl growing up. My parents last born was just two years when they separated. The good part is,both aren't remarried. I lived with my mom but my dad paid the bills n still does. Although my mom is financially bouyant than him. But he's more free with cash even till date. My younger ones shuttle btw mom n dad's place cos they don't stay very far from each other. Although they don't communicate. Like this hols, she's with dad but once sch resumes, she goes back to mom. I never allowed the p get into me. I only pray to become a great wife to the man who earns it n a great mom. I've come to realize that in life, we can't force people nor their actions. Both parents are great. Dad's the best though. Easy man. I pray I end up with his type 5 Likes |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Gliding(m): 7:30pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
Ayoolajumoke: I hope you have graduated and found a good job. Hope you have made your mum proud |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 11:15pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
Gliding: Not so easy, step by step though. Thanks for your concern. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Gliding(m): 6:49pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
Ayoolajumoke: If you need help on some issues, you may mention my moniker. I'm not promising much though. Take care and warm regards |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 8:33pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
Gliding: Awww, thank you. My pressing need right now is a good ppa in Lagos. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Gliding(m): 10:15pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
Ayoolajumoke: I will check with some people and get back to you. What course did you study? You can send a personal message if you wish. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 10:40pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
Gliding: I just sent a PM sir, kindly reply. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Gliding(m): 9:20am On Aug 21, 2018 |
Ayoolajumoke: Sorry, I couldn't view the message neither did I find it in my e-mails. Maybe I'm not very familiar with how to do it. I sent a pm as well, hope you are able to access it. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 1:53pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Gliding: I’ve replied your mail, please check. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Nobody: 12:48pm On May 07, 2022 |
Ayoolajumoke:So touching. It's well with you. You should be through with university and probably working. Who knows, married by now. 1 Like |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by DenreleDave(m): 8:31am On May 13, 2022 |
Ayoolajumoke: Sent you a pm... Care to know you. Jummy |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 7:25pm On May 13, 2022 |
It’s terrible! More terrible than you can ever ever ever imagine! I pity men who feel going the polygamous way will bring solutions to their problems too. Your kids will detest you for life and it will only take the Grace of God for them to really forgive you. I’m married now, but the fact that I came from a broken home still makes me sad as there are so many things I wished I could get my mom and dad involved together. I can’t claim to have a family home, I can’t seek advice from my dad, I can’t have basically a good relationship with my parents as it is just too broken and I went through a lot growing up. Thank God for His Mercies, I would have ended up badly and broken but I chose to avoid the mistakes my parents made by following Christ completely. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Exceed15: 4:30pm On May 30, 2023 |
Ayoolajumoke: This hatred and bitterness might affect your life generally. Take it easy. There's something your mom isn't telling you about what really happened. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Exceed15: 4:46pm On May 30, 2023 |
Tysam302: Lady two paragraphs: she can also unleash her bitterness on the kind man when issues arises. |
Re: What It Feels Like To Come From A Broken Home. by Exceed15: 9:51pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
thotianna: Na mumu u be |
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