Sorry is a little bit long
But please i really need your advice. Pls palz...
I meant this girl online which happened to be my old neighbor, but have not seen her before, we chart for few weeks, all of a suddenly she text me on messenger saying she need a boyfriend that I should help her out. I told her if looking for boyfriend for you is not possible, I never knew she was referring to me. So later on she text that she don’t need boyfriend again that she has gotten what she is looking for. I ask her who is that lucky one, she reply saying am the one. So I told her until I meet her before I decide whether to date or not. So we became friend for a week and then we started dating, things were moving well for us, she come to my house and I go to her house too. One day she called me, she told me she is travelling to Ibadan, I asked her why, and she said she lost her uncle that she is going with her mum. So I wished her journey mercy. So the following week I travelled to ogun state for a conference. Although we call each other everyday. One day she called me she said want to travel back to jos, so I told her am not coming to jos now till next week, she said the reason why she called is that she is short of transport that she needed 3k to add to her tp, I sent her 2k thinking she is going back to jos the next day. The next day she called and said her dad sent her the tp money, so I started rejoicing with her sayin she is lucky to have double tp, after that in the evening she called me and said her mum collected the tp money to treat her aunty that she fell sick. I muted for a second. So I was angry. To cut it short, after that day i notice she will call me everyday telling me she have headache, stomach pain or teeth problem. Well I sent her 3k installmentally to buy drugs.
One day I upload her picture and I tag her and I also commented “love is like a wind I can see it and I can feel it” so the next day 2guys commented saying “windy love”. So I checked the guy profile and I found out that she is dating the one of the guy, immediately I called and asked her “do you know mr so so. She replied saying “is my cousin but he likes me” I reply saying how can your cousin like you is not possible, she end the call and started saying all sort of things that she is disappointed in me, later on I called her back and apologize for what happened. She accepted, so the following day she blocked me on Facebook, I called her why did she block me, she said she did not, that is as if they hacked her facebook that she is unable to login since tester night. So I kept quiet and started suspecting her.. So the following day was Wednesday I went to the church and decided to branch her house. With a greatest surprised I met mum outside their house, so I prenteded and I did not greet her mum, and I quietely entered their house to buy pure water. So I became surprised and confused how comes her mother is in Jos. So Immediately I called her and told her "I saw your mum at Angwan rukuba" then I end the call, immediately she called me back I did not picked until the fourth call. She said " where did you see my mum, that was how I went to one place, I saw someone like mum so I rushed to tap" then I told her I was just playing, she became angry, I just use some excused shaa. So the next day I called and told her if there is any way she can get 3k to add to tp, she said she don't know but she will look for it, then she replied saying "send d one u have now, pls send it now now" so I didn't send her the 4k. So immediately I called a friend of mine and I told him to follow me to the girl house, we went there, I pointed the house for my Friend, he went in and ask of her, she came out so he told her "brother Johnson sent him to tell her she has been trying to call her she is not picking that she should call him back, she told my friend "I don't know brother Johnson" so my friend scope her shaa. So after my friend came out I asked him if he saw her, he told me he did, I did not believe him and I called "babe howfa sorry I did not send the tp, so how is Ibadan she said is fyn" we talked shaa, after d call I still did not believe not until we planned to call her as brother Johnson, she was carried away, she came out of the house and I saw her, immediately she saw me she turned back, I called and called her she didn't picked not until the fourth time, she told me am stupid, and she end the call.and she went ahead and block me on WhatsApp and so that I will not text her. In the evening around 11pm she unblocked me and text me "now I know you are very stupid, team work is the best" then block me back. So the next day she unblocked me, check my status and block me back, she did for 3days sha. Please palz I need your advice, I so much love this girl and also pretended to love me very well but I don't understand now is like a firm, please palz tell me whatcan i do now, please guys help me out

Ha.. At a point I got fed up in reading this that I even stopped half way.. Nonsense

She only needs your money.
Don't let love blind you.
Wake up.
Ok bye.

Can you just summaries the f*ck you wrote up there in one word pls

it seems you are new to the game.
you are welcome. wishing you many more heart break

Child's play

Why would we advise you when you don't listen? How many times did she tell you the same thing....that you are stupid? Bro...listen to the babe. ..she is right. ... change course.

Me too I don't think I understand him

So I..so we..so she..so that..so we..so I..so she
Ahn Ahn! tbh I skipped most of your post but a girl who calls you stupid on whatsapp and blocks you..which advice you need again

Sir she wants to eat your money and is blocking and unblocking you because you are the only one that is making small payments.

You have to to block her because she is using you. Someone you love will never block you

Sometimes we women act childish and stupid

I can't believe I read everything. Bia, who typed the first four lines?
Damn! I almost passed out.


Anyways, act wisely.

Toddlers in relationship.

What d f**k did I just read....gosh

Hehehe...




Sorry bro, I can't advise you.
I can only laugh

And please, learn to write well.

i only asked for advice not insults, thanks you guys and for your quick response

U deserve to be shot. After all these u still no wise

ednut1:
U deserve to be shot. After all these u still no wise

Lol


The poor guy is inlove nah.

Lol.



Op move on! She doesn't love you, she's just after your money.. Please receive sense!

Too bad of you sir, this is all I can write for now, how can u allow a girl to play you like this? Highest form of GULLIBILITY..... I am sorry sir.

Do you really want to be with such a person that lies,deceitful, abusive and have an anger issue.


you berra use your tongue to count your teeth and let her go.

bluemanice:
i only asked for advice not insults, thanks you guys and for your quick response

which stewpeed advice? very stewpeed

Bro you too nice ooo. For these century one girl dey take your head play ludo.
Person wey you suppose setup she like money abi. Nah wetin go finish her b that i trust my guys we for don sign her contract tey tey
Love scammin of the 2nd order.

She wants to use you as her Private Limited Liability Company with a long term investment plan.

Run with the speed of light

Pls Uncle walk away,She doesn't love in inch

Dump her, Delete her contact she does'nt love You, all she want is Your Money,
Don't fall for her fake love, But if You wanna continue make sure You Bleep her in a very shamefull way, she can't forget
Modifield
If You check well You Go see some small small boys way de shine her kondo

Op how old are you?

dancok:
Op how old are you?

old enough to be a father

Lol....kai that girl use ashes wash your head com deep the head for red oil...


to me even if she go chop money na the first 3k she for chop but the subsequent ones( i mean demand) were so glaring....


a girl that make it so direct to date you, hmmmmm


the moment demand comes in that is a red flag...

oboy I don't take my leave oooo

Lol....kai that girl use ashes wash your head com deep the head for red oil...


to me even if she go chop money na the first 3k she for chop but the subsequent ones( i mean demand) were so glaring....


a girl that make it so direct to date you, hmmmmm


the moment demand comes in that is a red flag...

oboy I don't take my leave ooo

Thank you very much guys I really appreciate your comments

So if this op wants to fill out a form and he is asked to choose gender.

This one too will tick Male abi

The male gender haff suffer

alexistaiwo:
So if this op wants to fill out a form and he is asked to choose gender.


This one too will tick Male abi


The male gender haff suffer

Guy respect yourself, is it a crime to ask question. I didn't force you to comment. Pls respect ur self