mrbyron:
Your mother in law tells you she will take your child and tell her son to chase you away if you give her a grandson. With all your education and exposure, how did you believe she can do that so easily. I just think you are generally put off with having a child and any slight deterrent will encourage you carry on.

Exposure in court?
Are you daft or something?
This is Nigeria where b.s. issues are solved in villages and apparently, the husband is a tweed

Please wait another 7years
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Tick tock tick tock......very soon she will be full of regrets. keep pondering.

Basseybruce:
Pls, kindly send your mtn number to 080.636.7185.1, I need to send something to it. Though may be small.

Thanks for the gesture boss ..Nothing is more pleasing than the joy of inspiring people..No advice sincerely given from the heart is useless..

driand:
Very touching story, more like being in a world where no one knows ur pain,

Understand this, what makes nneka happy is definitely different from what makes ada happy,

Advice is simple, this lady wants something different from every other person, where her happiness lies is different, and the way to that happiness is, she should divorce the husband, after divorce go on vacation and get herself pregnant by a random guy, in that way she'll have a baby and nobody will threaten to collect her baby and her mom will have a grandchild so everybody is happy...

Where can i get details of the child in the picture you uploaded.

Legendkid:

Exposure in court?
Are you daft or something?
This is Nigeria where b.s. issues are solved in villages and apparently, the husband is a tweed

Please don't come and embarrass yourself here. If you have a very low IQ, which is very obvious from your comment, strive to read comments, struggle to understand, and move on. There are courts and lawyers and the last time I checked, the rule of law is still respected in Nigeria.
You might not understand what I just wrote up there but read slowly and repeatedly. God will see you through

duality:


Where can i get details of the child in the picture you uploaded.

check wakanda.com

I smelt sense of arrogance and self accomplishment in the story.

There are many ways to handle mother-in-laws and still come out top.

Do you really want to have kids or not?

Alejob:
You can't have it all......

She can't what all?

Pachesky:
Made up story as usual..but for the sake of commenting, some women need to understand that for most men their first love is their mother. You have no idea what she must have gone through for them over the years. The sacrifices, that listening ear when we fathers are not available for some reason, constant encouragement the list goes on.
Point is you cant just come in and act like spartacus with the "Kill them all" mindset.. remember she loves her son and has his best interest at heart so she will be overprotective at the initial stage. Prove to her that you also have his as well and watch her back off over time as she knows a better caretaker has emerged.
Final note, best strategy for young women in marriage is to win over your mans mother( some mamas strong ghan!!! )not only will he love you the more but also you have a new ally when the going gets tough..She will fight your battles for you will you the lady will hold your peace..

If a man is not willing to set the boundaries and understand that his wife is now number one, then he shouldn't bother getting married.

A widower is less damaged goods than a divorcee except you are extremely lucky to be a first hand witness.

A new wife should ask the ex what's up and take it from there.

In the mean time, she should get off the pills; she is 38!

awelekiti:
Hello. First of all, I blame your husband for not being able to counterbalance the relationship existing between him and yourself and that of his mum though I'm still coming back to you, woman. I also experienced same in my early days in marriage when my mum came visiting. My mum didn't even do one-quarter of what your mother inlaw did to you when my Wife began to complain. I had to calm my mum down and also told my wife to take it easy and try to study her and her character especially when it comes to preparing her meal and serving her the time she needed one, my mum loves dry fish with vegetable soup alot but my wife would always complain that she's tired of preparing her soup separately as it's stressful. On one occasion had my mum wanted to leave for Ekiti without giving us any notice the previous night . She had packed all her things without us knowing. In short, I had to play a husband with 2 wives' role in the house on several occasions otherwise, things would have gone out of control. One thing that amazes me is that no matter how old or mature our mothers could be, they still behave like babies and always see their daughter inlaws as rivals hehehe. If you leab to your wife more than you do to your mum whenever she visits, she'd complain and vice versa.

Now to you woman, you shouldn't allow your career to encroach on your marriage. Career women always find it difficult to cope with marriage. Career is an institution on its own, just like marriage is and they're both different. Many wives had resigned their appointments from their well-paying jobs in order to keep their homes, which is more important. My wife and I would go to work early momo, leaving our little girl and first born under the care of a nanny. By the time we got home, our daughter had slept off probably on empty stomach because she wouldn't eat anything until she sees us. If mama was also around, her meal would have got cold inside the cooler by the time we're home. I sat my Wife down one day and pleaded with her to resign. She was a manager in the company at such a young age while I was also on a well-paying job. After a while, she accepted and resigned. I told her I'd share my salary with her and she agreed. Now, she's a businesswoman of repute cos I compensated her well. I later resigned from my job to set up my business over a decade ago. The rest is now history and I bless God . We never took a maid. She was always there for my children whilst she was out of her employment I want you to consider this Madam. Your age too is of a great concern because after you've made all the money, I'm sure you wouldn't be glad to donate them to charity. You need to have children who will be your Joy at old age. Be that as it may, I have noticed one thing in everywoman. 99.9% of women don't like seeing their mother inlaws. If they ask their men when meeting for the first time about their mums, it's not that they like them so much but they just want to know if their mothers are still alive or not. They don't want their mother inlaws alive. There's something called the law of karma which is very stubborn. No matter how religious or fervent or nice you are, the law would definitely come for you at the nick of time. The way you treat your mother inlaw is the same way you'd be treated in your time. This law keeps raging because that's the way women have been from time immemorial. Be at peace with your mum inlaw and reconsider your stand on childbearing. Good luck to you

See maturity.

While I might not agree with some things, I admire the way you stated your points.

bukatyne:


See maturity.

While I might not agree with some things, I admire the way you stated your points.

thanks ma'am

Op is not serious.
She had better free her husband, divorce him and live the single life, she silently craves for..

Shes not OK mentally.

At 38 years! Still taking pills!

O ga o!