I don't want to visit him anytime soon cause I'm not ready for sex.

Millenniumlady:
Don't give in to him that's how they are......But hope you're getting lots of gifts from him as deserve

dingbang:
his body language shows that he is sexually active and that should alert you of his kind of person. if you feel you cannot live up to his terms, then you quit the situationship you have with him and hatch on to someone who keys into your long term goals. there are good men in nairaland also, ask lefulefu.

Sapphire11:

Thank you. Do you mind hooking me up with the good men?

Millenniumlady:
Don't give in to him that's how they are......But hope you're getting lots of gifts from him as deserve

Sapphire11:

I'm not even the type that knows how to ask guys for money or gift as such. I just want to be sure he is serious about me but the way he shows he's interested in sex is putting me off.

Millenniumlady:
Just try as much as you can to curve him whenever he brings up those sex issues........Make sure you start getting those gifts from him the earlier the better..... I trust you

dingbang:
thats not a good character

Sapphire11:
Lols Thank you

dingbang:
whats your kind of man?

Millenniumlady:
When is he coming to see you ?

Millenniumlady:
What's not a good character they are in a relationship so it's her right to take those gifts from him

Sapphire11:

He was around this past week, I have not exclusively told my mum I'm dating him tho I've hinted her. I just want to be sure about his kind of person first.

dingbang:
it would make it look as if she is exchanging gifts for her body. a lady is worth more than material gifts. if you are the type that expects men to shower you with gifts then you need to stop kill that character because it wont take you far. the intent behind the gifts is far more important than the gift instead. i have a sister i advise alot and i do well to let her know if she needs anything, she should inform her brothers and not depend on men she dates, or if she is independent, she can get stuff for herself. when a man sees that a lady is not interested in gifts, that makes him respect her the more and even showers gifts on her family.

Millenniumlady:
Make sure your next meeting with him be at an eatery...... So you guys can eat and drink to success then you see him off from there....


Note :- Don't take him home

Millenniumlady:
What's not a good character they are in a relationship so it's her right to take those gifts from him

Sapphire11:

you're a very funny lady

Millenniumlady:
It has taken me far away more than you can imagine and will still do more.....For the fact that you don't spend on your girl doesn't mean other guys won't.....Leave this young lady alone dingbang lemme advice her properly back off

Tallesty1:
Pre-marital favors are her right but Pre-marital sex isn't his right. This is how you ladies set yourselves up for rape.

Millenniumlady:
So this is what you do RAPE young ladies How dare you

dingbang:
do you have a functioning relationship?

Tallesty1:
Rape isn't enough, sometimes I seize their things. Nonsense

Millenniumlady:
You've been on this thread asking career ladies series of questions like you're any better Boy what do you have

dingbang:
you keep on asking for money from nairalanders, dont let me spool all your comments and expose you, you better behave your silly self

Millenniumlady:
You still had the guts to quote me back

Tallesty1:
You really don't wanna do this with me

Millenniumlady:
That's what you do go around all threads begging for cheap favours like you're not a man.... get out

dingbang:
cheap favours like?