CreepyBlackpool:
your life
your choices.


If you love him then go on with the marraige.
Fvck what your parents think.


Sha don't go crying to them when your husband can't fvck you well or when you get tired of pushing him around

MissRaine69:
So the young lays in question made it clear that he is independent. He got to this stage of his life without this lady physically assisting him so why would she start bathing and carrying him around? What makes you think he cannot climb stairs?
The bottom line is as a society we are biased against people with a disabilities. We assume some external forces are at play, it’s contagious and disabled people should not enjoy life as we do for one reason or the other. That is just ignorance at play.
To conclude it is your life, there is no guarantee that marrying an able bodied man will yield better results.
It might take a bit of time to convince your parents but persevere with this.
Society in general needs to look at disabled people the way you do with this man. View them as people not just focus on the wheelchair as some comments seem to be doing here.

1StopRudeness:
Pele, for our side, them go say the guy don knack you confirm otumokpor...which might be true...but sometimes it's just true love. I congratulate u

Ur parents love u..they don't want u to have a husband that will be a burden to u....push around, help to bath, help up the stairs....etc.i hope u are ready for the stress. Brace urself..I know what I'm saying.

However, u can let ur mum know that, a woman can marry a complete abled bodied man, and accident can make him disabled....one would shaa not divorce such a man....yinka ayefele for example
Let them know u love the guy scatter..with prayers and time....they might support...
.if not....babe.another man dey.....don't go against Ur parents because of man u jam for street

Michelle55:
Being disabled doesn't make him less of a man/human. Apply wisdom when dealing with your parents, I can't fault them because they want the best for you. Just remember that love isn't enough to keep a marriage, since you both love each other and you are really sure that you can tarry on with him no matter what life throws at you then work on making your parents see the positive side of the whole thing. You both can visit your parents and plead. Don't forget to seek the face of God.
Trust me, if you both are really meant to be, you will definitely be!

Ikpongiton:
chai ! i know the reason oo ! disabled people are very good in bed.

ednut1:
Carry belle and tell ur parents when ur 4 months gone

1StopRudeness:
Pele, for our side, them go say the guy don knack you confirm otumokpor...which might be true...but sometimes it's just true love. I congratulate u

Ur parents love u..they don't want u to have a husband that will be a burden to u....push around, help to bath, help up the stairs....etc.i hope u are ready for the stress. Brace urself..I know what I'm saying.

However, u can let ur mum know that, a woman can marry a complete abled bodied man, and accident can make him disabled....one would shaa not divorce such a man....yinka ayefele for example
Let them know u love the guy scatter..with prayers and time....they might support...
.if not....babe.another man dey.....don't go against Ur parents because of man u jam for street

Carrywent:

Thank you so much. But I don't push him, I don't bath him and I don't help him upstairs either. He is not that kind disable. He is independent like I said

Les:
can you explain the disability?

Carrywent:

Nothing much he is on wheelchair but he is extremely independent. He does all activities by himself including washing, cleaning, cooking, he travels around all day and he leaves alone in Lagos

Carrywent:
Hello dear Nairalanders, please I need your help.
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I created this monica account just to hear your advices.
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There is this Guy I am dating, he is a disabled but not that serious. He uses wheelchair but hardworking. We both studied in the same secondary School. We were Besties, we latter turned lovers. He is an idealist, he is also independent. Before you ask his occupation. He was an author and letter turned musical producer. Like i said he is independent. He relocated to Lagos after he finished studying music production and established his own studio in Lagos.
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I love him so much. He also promised to marry me and which I have also agreed to. But we are waiting after my graduation then we keep off the marriage. The problem here is my parents those not agree in our relationship. And they are seriously fighting it. Please I need your advice