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There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by BMaretraitors(f): 10:25am On Jan 14, 2019 |
A gold digger is a woman looking for a man that can spoil her rich. She doesn't want to be spoiled surely but wants to know that her man can go all the way for her. And what is wrong with that? i'll tell you... n-o-t-h-i-n-g. Absolutely nothing. No natural woman thinks this is wrong, no natural man sees any wrong in this. If you are black man worshipper woman, please get your sorry self off my thread because lady my threads are for self respecting women not struggle slaves ![]() I have come to realise that the only gold diggers that are demonized and hated upon are black and Nigerian gold diggers. If you are a black woman with more African features, you are not hated because you want a wealthy partner, you are hated because you are looked down upon as undeserving, unworthy of a wealthy mate. You are expected to struggle, suffer and help this men up. You are for the struggle not for the life. Now save it, this is the rule in the minds of many of these black men you pet, i am not dumb enough to know that there are exceptions. Exceptions are a fact of life there are always going to be exceptions, but the rule is what binds me and you, the average black women. A man that loves your image would go to the ends of the world to provide for you, please you, pamper you, see you blossom but a man that underrates your looks would invite you to work with him. There is nothing wrong with working but ensure that you are working because you want to, first! I dislike 50-50 financial contribution because it leaves the woman doing the major work at the end, overtime she wears down, becomes fat, old, less feminine, ugly and cheated upon. The fantasy of many black men is a biracial/multiracial looking woman. For this woman, they know the deal. Work hard, be successful and spoil her. They don't mind getting her official maids, if she sits all day tending to her nails, its all perfect. She deserves it, right ![]() She is not welcomed to work much because her feminity and ''beauty'' should be watered and preserved. She is not termed a gold digger, eventhough she never gave them a chance when they were struggling, to them she is only coming into her place. I kid you not. But she is a gold digger and there is nothing wrong with it. At least to black men, there is nothing wrong with it. What will you do black women and Nigerian women for doing same thing and being demonized? Bleach your skin, change your hair to look like the multiracial women to please black men? Are they pleased now? Black and Nigerian women have created a wrong impression in the minds of these men when we jumped in to cater to struggling men. Don't pet them, don't give yourself to them easily, price yourself so high by opening your options to date other kinds of men(don't give black men the impression that they are the only men you would date, it would not end well for us). Stay away from struggle relationships except the man has proven himself to be worth it. Men pursue women who are desired by their superiors. White men are the superiors here, black men want what white men want, never forget that ladies ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nasri100(m): 10:29am On Jan 14, 2019 |
Mate even some white men are running away from women cause of these gold digging antics. Go on YouTube & Reddit and read about MGTOW 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by BMaretraitors(f): 10:33am On Jan 14, 2019 |
Nasri100:No white men are not running away from white women because of gold digging. They are running away because white women are tired of being seen as soft and want to compete with men. These men want traditional women. The only mgtw complaining of gold digging are black men 3 Likes |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 14, 2019 |
MGTOW... I am not your provider. I am not your protector. I am not your reproductive partner. I AM A MAN. AND I WILL ENJOY MY LIFE. MORRAFUCKERS 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by BMaretraitors(f): 10:37am On Jan 14, 2019 |
TarOrfeek:You are not a man, you are a loser. Stop going your way, get gone 2 Likes |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nasri100(m): 10:38am On Jan 14, 2019 |
BMaretraitors: Are you for real? Maybe you should read the origins of MGTOW then we will have this conversation. |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by BMaretraitors(f): 10:43am On Jan 14, 2019 |
Nasri100:You are the one that is not for real. White men have spent centuries providing, protecting their women and their women in turn, pleasing them with their basic woman roles. What changed? new age feminism that has made their women see traditional roles as slavery. This is the starting point of their grief. 2 Likes |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by kiddoiLL(m): 10:44am On Jan 14, 2019 |
So because I work hard, earn my money, spend on my folks and when I want a woman, k don't want a woman who'll be a leech, I don't want a woman who wants me because of my money or wealth, I don't want a woman who values materialism more than my self worth, one who will bring something to the table and my life and help ease whatever burden that comes along our way, one who doesn't expect me to slave off my whole life taking charge of every of her needs to d smallest, it makes me less a man? you call it being a weak man?? What a glorified first class Ídiot. 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by BMaretraitors(f): 10:49am On Jan 14, 2019 |
kiddoiLL: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:09am On Jan 14, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:All your threads are racist,I don't need negative vibe on this forum, seun your forum is dead, bye. |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:13am On Jan 14, 2019 |
Nasri100:i have never seen a wealthy, masculine man from a non dysfunctional family background join MGTOW. It is only poor/ middleclass fustrated men that have time for such. 3 Likes |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:14am On Jan 14, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:GBAM |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:16am On Jan 14, 2019 |
TarOrfeek:should we open doors for you then. Pls be celibate, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:18am On Jan 14, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:they still go their way and come back full circle. |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:19am On Jan 14, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:i call them pickmesha, and bob the builder women |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by BMaretraitors(f): 11:43am On Jan 14, 2019 |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by TimiRume(f): 11:54am On Jan 14, 2019 |
I've always known gold digging is bad only when you are a black woman. Black guys leech on aged white women too, but they give themselves high-five rather than condemn such. Very ironic behaviour. 1 Like |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:57am On Jan 14, 2019 |
TimiRume:This BMaretraitors fellow is a racist ![]() on this forum I've seen so many guys condemn gigolos so what are you even saying ![]() |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by TimiRume(f): 11:59am On Jan 14, 2019 |
BornagainThief:And so are all the black men that bash Nigerian women. Same thing |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
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Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nasri100(m): 12:25pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: I disagree on this. Again its a fact drawn from your own angle of life. I have seen and met many many rich and masculine men that have embraced MGTOW. Many many at that. And MGTOW isn't a job. Its just a decision. Following it, i certainly have enough cash in reserves deciding to focus on my life than chasing women, cause lets face it most women are all about the cash. I saw a post in another thread of a guy mocking you to be ugly. You are pretty to me. I don't hate women between. Infact i have many female friends. I think life is all about balance. |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Headlesschicken(m): 12:44pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
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Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Nasri100:didnt you read the part of dysfunctional upbringing? I rest my case. |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 8:57am On Oct 24, 2019 |
TimiRume: FACT! |
Re: There Is Nothing Wrong With Being A Gold Digger, 50-50 Is A Scam by Nobody: 9:07am On Oct 24, 2019 |
Headlesschicken: Ideally this is how it should be though and this is how we should raise our children. Equally and independently. But some live it and enjoy the lifestyle. I mean some men love to spoil their women rotten and some women love to be spoilt super rotten. So why do we term these women in Africa gold diggers and our rich wealth men run to women abroad who want to only be spoilt rotten. It's all part of our inferiority complex. Although the op tend to be racist in all post, I agree a lot that, we look down on ourselves in Nigeria. And I understand the difference between a foreigner behaviour towards a Nigerian partner and a Nigerian behaviour towards a Nigerian partner 1 Like |
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