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Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by dukeprince50: 8:50am On Jan 18, 2019 |
dairykidd:Haba!!! are you related to Gbenga? the way you finish op sef, You actually say my mind but please op is going through pains also, I feel her pains 3 Likes |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by olumide81(m): 8:54am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Ishilove:I guess moving on with Olumide is what ishilove is trying to say. Gbenga needs to be convinced further, try something he believes in to convince him and put up positive attitudes towards confirming your action, such thing could be the Bible or something similar. An average guy out there won't tolerate u this much. |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Zither(m): 8:55am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Sushsu7: Guy, what is your problem? Why are you drinking panadol on another person's headache? |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by chinchonglee(m): 8:57am On Jan 18, 2019 |
lemme tell u something sharp sharp! i was in Gbenga's shoe in my second year, my girl friend of over 3yrs started cheating. she cheated on me on more dan 3 occasions, wen i found out i forgave her but became insecured nd started behaving like Gbenga... 4 over 2yrs i was insecured( trying to protect d girl i really loved) N:B; I never cheated on dis girl 4 once... fastforward wen i graduated frm school, i started realizing wat self love is. i started seeing wat am doing to my supposed gf/fiancee as stressing myself so i started giving her space to do wat she pleases, i could stay a whole week without calling her(if she like make she cheat e nor concern me). wen she noticed dis she started being worried nd started caring 4 me( mehn i nor send her again). BACK TO UR CASE why i told u my story is because am very sure dah one day Gbenga will get tayad of u nd start living a normal life... so nor worry, u ll still av all d space u deserve. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by dukeprince50: 8:59am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Yemaica:this woman, tufiakwa, see how u butter olumide, Of all the things funmisticqueen said the only thing you replied to is his fulfilling carrier, its obvious you like material things and can easily be distracted with those. 1 Like |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Ebonko4life(f): 9:02am On Jan 18, 2019 |
GENUINE SALVATION(HOW TO GET IT) Please don't scroll down,at least just glance through it. The starting point for a relationship with God is to forsake sin." Let the wicked forsake his way,and the unrighteous man his thoughts:and let him return unto the Lord,and He will abundantly pardon"( Isaiah 55:7). What separate man from God is sin,and you can never please God without being save.Also, your self -righteousness can never take you to heaven.(whether you are a philanthropist,without being save,your works are all in vain,your generosity can never take you to heaven.), "For they being ignorant of God's righteousness,and going about to establish their own righteousness,have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God."(Romans 10:3)," An hypocrite shall not come before Him"(Job 13:16). Your self righteousness separate you from God. We must turn away from sin and completely surrender our life to Christ.God is ever ready to forgive."There is no sin that is too great for God to forgive if we turn from it to him". It is very easy to have genuine salvation.The first step you need to take in getting it is to; (1) Acknowledge that you are a sinner: "All men are sinners,for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God"(Romans 3:23). you need to be in a serene vicinity inorder to commune with God effectively or right now you can commune with God,acknowledge that you are a sinner. (2) Confess:" ...covereth his sin shall not prosper..." Confess all your sins to God with a contrite heart,plead for His mercy,ask for His forgiveness,cry out to Him with sincerity.(There is no point going through your pastor,bishop to confess and ask God for forgiveness,that was before,but now we have direct access to God, as soon as Jesus died for us,the way was opened into the Holy of Holies,talk to God by your self,confess to Him not through your bishop,revered father,pastor etc). (3) At this point you need to make a covenant with God by promising Him not to go back to the sins you have left behind, forsake your sin wholeheartedly. (4) Believe on Jesus that you have been pardon and forgiven:" If thou shalt... believe in thine heart...thou shalt be saved"(Romans 10:19),"Whosoever believeth Jesus is the christ is born of God"(1John 5:1). The evidence of SALVATION is an unprecedented joy in your heart.The joy of SALVATION is wonderful.(like when you remember that there is no enmity between God and you,oh! the happiness that will spring up from your stomach can be so overwhelming). But you need to go further,though you have been forgiven,but that Adamic nature,that inbred sin is still in You. SALVATION is the first Christian experience, SANCTIFICATION(Holiness) is the second experience.What is SANCTIFICATION(Holiness)?.We are told in Hebrews 12:14,"follow peace with all men,and holiness,without which no man shall see the Lord." We read in 1peter 1:16,... Be ye holy; for I am holy". The word holy is mentioned in the Bible 596times,holiness,43times. SANCTIFICATION means spiritually pure,godly.When you are sanctified,that inbred sin in you will be uprooted,spirit of fornication will be uprooted,spirit of masturbation will be uprooted,spirit of lying,stealing,envy etc will all be uprooted. The urge to do them will not be there if you are sanctified.SANCTIFICATION is real(I have experienced It,that was why I easily gave up on plaiting my hair with any attachment.). The benefit of SANCTIFICATION is so wonderful,those urges will be eradicated.If you don't believe me,try it.Go down on your kneels,pray to God with a contrite heart,plead with God to sanctify your heart.This need deeper consecration.(don't be distracted),plead with God wholeheartedly,ask for such heart,(a sanctified heart). Name all the spirit you want Him to uproot from your heart,cry to Him.Tell Him You want to serve Him in Holiness,tell Him you don't want to go back to your sins." Father have determine to make heaven,please father,sanctify my heart,come into my heart, I need you father,uproot those spirit that is tormenting me,that makes me to offend you always,Jesus please,help me, I cannot stop them myself please Help me...�����..." Pray that way,with deeper consecration,with a sincere heart.Believe that you will receive it.Evidence; receiving SANCTIFICATION can change your life automatically,no more urges for your sweetest sin,even though you might be tempted,you will have the power to overcome it. Well thats not all,you need to pray further,for the third Christian experience,which is baptism of the Holy Ghost,gbam! Very important.(many people don't believe we can receive it,it is real,i have received it). The work of the Holy spirit; (1) The Holy spirit anoints us with power to witness(Acts1:8,Lk4:18,Acts 4:29,32) (2) The spirit brings forth virtues in our lives(The fruit of the spirit us love,Joy,peace etc,Gal.5:22-23,Rom.5:5,Rom14:17). (3) The Holy spirit comfort us (John 14:16-26,John16:7,Acta9:31,Rom.8:1). (4) The Holy spirit is the spirit of Truth( John 16:13,1John 5:66). (5) The Holy spirit helps us to pray( From.8: 26-27,Jude20). (6) The Holy spirit give us wisdom and guidance(Mk13:11,Lk12:11,12) and many more ... The evidence of receiving it is by speaking in another language entirely,the spirit will overwhelm you, you won't be able to control your tongue.It need deeper consecration. Sometimes it takes a long time to receive it(mine took a long time to come,days before coming,if you are patient you will receive it), sometimes you need to make restitution,before receiving it,holding grudges with your fellow brother can hinder the Holy spirit,make sure you make things right before praying for the Holy spirit. After receiving the three Christian experience,dont just relax,you have a lot to do(so that you won't loose them). There are things you need to do to maintain your three Christian experience; (1)Read your Bible and study the word of God: check the importance(Deu. 32:46,47,psalm 138:2). (2) Pray always,be in a constant attitude of prayer:Read your Bible pray everyday... Pray everyday... Pray everyday...., read your Bible pray everyday...if.. you.. want..to.. grow..(I love that song�)(1chr16:11,Pro.3:6,"Watch ye therefore and pray always "LK21:36). (3) Attend weekly activities in church,it helps a lot in maintaining your experiences, you will be expose to teachings that will help you grow spiritually.( Do you know that absenting your self from weekly activities can take you to hell,as serious as that.GOD NEEDS 100%COMMITMENT). Attend a church that preaches salvation every Sunday.if your current church is always preaching about prosperity every day,i will advise you to leave that Church. The main reason church was instituted by God was to prepare everyone for HEAVEN. Look for a church that will prepare you for HEAVEN..."Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added unto you". GOD BLESS YOU,AMEN. (Modify) (Quote) (Report) 1 Like (Share) 1 Like |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Ayoleeboy007: 9:04am On Jan 18, 2019 |
please some one to summarize the story and mention me
thanks in advance |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by mozel247: 9:05am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Truth is. There is no way a relationship can go back to as it is after cheating especially when u trusted such so much with massive love. My dear. Just move ahead, u guys can't have real peace. I was once in the shoe. I just have to quit a year after she cheated finally. |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Sushsu7: 9:09am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Zither:u write rubbish still dey highlight am for green,at least if u na get sense,u go get the common sense |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Nobody: 9:12am On Jan 18, 2019 |
dukeprince50:there is nothing wrong with material things as they are an indication of a provider alpha male who can give his beat to his children. But she should have replied the rest of my post. |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by ashawopikin(m): 9:30am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Kingdollar28:best advice ever, after cheating on him more than once and he forgave u, u are still meeting men upandan 1 Like |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by ashawopikin(m): 9:35am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Yemaica:very simple, if u want him to trust u. Stay away from other guys, your friend zone or whatever u call it |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by MrPresident1: 9:35am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Yemaica: Put all wedding plans on hold. True love will not hurt you and make you cry, for its own sake it will protect you, because it will break its heart seeing you hurt. Sort yourself out first. Be patient and prayerful. |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by b0rn2fuck(m): 9:47am On Jan 18, 2019 |
After reading everything, you are nothing but a disasters to Gbenga life. If same gbenga had been friendzoning girls and later before you know it, its bed to bed, gbenga is even patient and if I were him, I would have dumb your sorry ass tay tay, every guys will reason same way gbenga did and instead of gbenga to even bring advice, you are the one seeking advice. Must you keep a frienzone when they are not business partner, you are nothing but greedy woman, what if olamide add subtance to your drink or food or some of the guys you called friends, you slept off and they insert better prick inside your pussy,. You will be crying rape, why not invite the guy to come over and let gbenga around same time as surprise to him,.to discuss whatever he wanted ,next time he will use his brain 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by ashawopikin(m): 9:50am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Oluwabash: 1 Like
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Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by kullozone(m): 9:53am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Yemaica: Shut up 1 Like |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by b0rn2fuck(m): 9:56am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Remember you have once cheated and he knew about it, if he forgive you, it will linger in his heart forever, cheating like a relationship is a like broken mirror, if fix , can never be the same again,. The best you could do is stay away from male friends or dumb gbenga that is you will do him a favour , he will at peace rather than suspense of keeping male friends just like we all reason as men, even if you jump into another relationship,if they tolerate same male friends for short time, after they get tired of your pussy, they won't tolerate same male friends again. Its same circle has gbenga reason that will men will also reason, don't smell what you don't wan to eat . |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by ashawopikin(m): 10:01am On Jan 18, 2019 |
b0rn2fuck:she said she cheated more than once, it could be 3,4 times or more |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by b0rn2fuck(m): 10:04am On Jan 18, 2019 |
ashawopikin:gbenga need to be worship then, na gbenga suppose type for advice and not this ungrateful woman, how I wish gbenga dumb her because gbenga will has a bitter side even after 20 years if visitor come home and he is left alone with her woman. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by mctowel01: 10:14am On Jan 18, 2019 |
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Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Nobody: 10:31am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Hmmmmm I read through all the comments. Am not in any way disappointed, sanity and santity still rules. The law of life is still intact. Whatever you sow, is what you will reap To the Op.. You are really an ingrate. Sorry, let me restructure what I mean: In the beginning, you took gbenga for granted. You think you have the freedom to either agree to be tamed or to be wild. You chose the later. Guys are flocking in and out of your life. You are a social media freak. A cough draws in 200 comments. You are young and agile. Your body is looking firm and this is too good and can't be for only gbenga. You were rocking your spotlight. Life must be really good. Hahaha. Like a commenter clearly put it, good guys are always the ultimate looser. You FRIENDZONE GUYS. You are the inventor of FRIENDZONE. What I don't understand is, what the heck do you want from gbenga? You don't want to loose him? He is too good for you to let go? How can you live in between light and darkness? You ate your hot cake and you want it back? You are a kiddo. U lack the capacity to decide what you want. You want gbenga to remain absolute and committed while you frolic with different guys in the name of having ONLY GUYS AS YOUR FRIENDS? YOU ARE A BIG FOOL. wake up babe, scratch your tiny brain and dust off those cobwebs. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Yemaica(f): 10:58am On Jan 18, 2019 |
I think i have seen enough. i knew this was a bad idea. Thank you all. |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Oblongata: 11:29am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Ishilove:i am sure you are all these single or separated come feminist ... For and ex Mod... Not good Modified : Saw your comment later and couldn't agree less with you... Sorry 4 initial outburst. Bye |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Akious2k2(m): 11:34am On Jan 18, 2019 |
Moneystopnonsen:I'm just curious... What actually guarantees a happy home? |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by jeff1607(m): 12:27pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Gbenga deserves a trophy some woman don't deserve good things |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Auladimeji(m): 1:54pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Zither:Olumide the patient pussy devourer spotted 1 Like
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Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Yemaica:Aunty, it is better you stay with him, in fact he is building you up. it is better to know the truth person you want to marry. there are many guys outside there that would deceive you. I guess he's been honest with you. but if you think otherwise you can leave him |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Auladimeji(m): 2:17pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Yemaica:You have not seen anything let me call the mod(lalasticlala) to push it to front page for people to eat you raw.Nonsense Meanwhile Can I be your friend,it seems you are a cheerful giver aka Animashaun 3 Likes
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Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Auladimeji: I swear the girl na free to air... If na me be that Gbenga guy, after I done tire for the pûssÿ all my guys must take share & pass am round before her eyes go clear say na pass me pûssy she be |
Re: My Current Relationship Problem. Should I Marry This Man Or His Beast. by Kenley: 4:25pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
To be honest with you, you are the source of the problem How would you keep having opposite sex as friends when you know u are in serious relationship? How do you think he will believe you are a changed person when you keep adding to your male friends?. The same way you were carried away with the business Olumide introduced if it were to be true would have been the same way you would have worked out of that relationship if he sweet talk. Thank God your boyfriend is very calm to have been able to tolerate things all this while but I think there will be a big problem if you continue with this habit of adding and given unnecessary chance to opposite sex. How would you feel if your boyfriend is the one doing this? please try and limit that habit if truly you need a "home" for yourself. God bless you |
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