babuji:

"Thank God I and my wife agreed we'd never be found and caught with these trends that has only come to dismantle most marriages and cause confusion and anarchy in many homes.

You did the best thing my guy,  Let her go, I'm sure after a couple of years she'll be tired of that guy as well and find another new Romeo,  Some
Ladies are just born ashawo and no matter what amount of love you show to them, they'll still sleep with other men. move on with ur life my guy."

@Sdbaba, did you really mean what you said "that all ladies are just born ashawo"? And you have a wife?

ThiefOfHearts:

who cares? You obviously! That makes it better? It gives his sentence/point a different meaning and interpretation
.

arent you Muslim? Yes I am, what else?

ThiefOfHearts:

learn to quote before I reply you.

Druss: Here is my concern. You claim to be an IT company owner or some other IT related schmuck. Yet your typing skills and written language appear shiite. That said continue with your yarns.

Outstrip: You just come across like the kind of husband that hides in the bushes and puts tracking devices in his wife's car. Anyway maybe you guys need to be at the very least separated for now. The fact that she just walked out quietly shows that she has already checked out of the marriage. She was even shopping for replacement daddy for the child. That is really bad. Your marriage has been damaged for a long time and it is not what happened even a year ago that caused it. Everything about you shows that you are over bearing and sneaky. Even this last fight was a conversation you were eaves dropping on. Bottom line is she does not respect you and you do not respect her. I feel bad for the child.

obasijoy: No dear I'm not the girl but I'm talking out of experience. That's guys for you when the stuff back fire them they will start complaining as if the girl is the devil. They are always the bone of the contention. They innocent girl has left you so that you can have time to enjoy as many girls you wanna catch fun with. Feel free and fly.

obasijoy: From my own experience, I think the Op has been doing this already to his wife when she doesn't have a job. Maybe b/c he was the one bringing money for the house up keep he has been into different ladies not caring about the wife's feelings. She has made up her mind to leave the marriage with her son b/c of OP's infidelity when she doesn't have a job. Now she has one and she wants to treat you back how you were treating her when she has no job. OP please tell us the whole truth abeg. And I promise you that she wouldn't come back to you again no matter what. How can you be a loving, caring, hard working, innocent and faithful you claim to be and your wife will be discussing with her sister on how to leave her matrimonial home. Don't believe OP at all b/c I have had such experience b4. OP started using girls first as his DP, calling and answering their calls etc. That's why she started hers when she got a job. Respect is a reciprocal.

OAM4J:

This your experience sounds like an insider experience.


Anyways am glad the thread is back, maybe the OP will be back. Was kinda disappointed we didn't get to the point of naming the nairalander that contributed to the break-up.

Well the OP said he is a well known Nairalander based in UK. Thank God I don't live in UK again . Let us guess, here are some of the big boys from UK:

1. Sagamite
2. Jay bee
3. r231
4. Justwise
5. Coogar
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.

Somebody should help me fill the remaining blanks and let get to the root of this matter

moremi2008:

These are your version of "big boys"? Chai! See low standards. I think you're mistaking active members with "big boys".

chaircover:

OAM4Jenny Na jealosy dey kill u oooooooo
Abeg leave all my bois alone ooooooo. I can vouch for all of them on that list

moremi2008: I think it's somebody from the politics or romance section.

moremi2008: I think it's somebody from the politics or romance section.

tonak:
10th january this year,my marriage to E.L finally came to an end,february 17th would have made the union 5years,it was a very turbulent marriage right from the start,filled with intrigues,drama and fast paced.quoting her ex bf,who incidentally is the reason for this break up 'may be the marriage itself was a mistake'i totally agree,E.L wasnt prepared.on that faithfull day,i overheard her discussing with her sister that she was still plannin to leave me but she wasnt sure when, she went on to tell her little sis about a particular guy,how the guy loves her and has been giving her money,wat further infuriated me was wen she said she was sure the guy would accept and take care of our 3yr old son.i immediately went in and confronted her with all i heard,she initially played dumb bt later agreed she planned to dump m later in the year.i told her not to bother to wait that we should just end it now,i have accepted my faith,she has moved out and im trying to rebuild my life.my question dear nlanders was i too hasty. 2 should i have played along.i hate pretencies and hate to live a lie.3 one major issue we had was her constanty communicating with her ex bfs one of who happens to be a prominent nlander,always referring to them affectionately as 'babe','sweetheart'etc,even goin as far as using their pictures on her bb dp.im not a saint and i always acknowlege my own shortcomings as a husband and father.she treated me so badly, i feel so sad but im happy it has now come to an end.but,she has my son with her and i miss him so much.i just cant imagine him not growing up under me.so sad.sobs,

tonak:
10th january this year,my marriage to E.L finally came to an end,february 17th would have made the union 5years,it was a very turbulent marriage right from the start,filled with intrigues,drama and fast paced.quoting her ex bf,who incidentally is the reason for this break up 'may be the marriage itself was a mistake'i totally agree,E.L wasnt prepared.on that faithfull day,i overheard her discussing with her sister that she was still plannin to leave me but she wasnt sure when, she went on to tell her little sis about a particular guy,how the guy loves her and has been giving her money,wat further infuriated me was wen she said she was sure the guy would accept and take care of our 3yr old son.i immediately went in and confronted her with all i heard,she initially played dumb bt later agreed she planned to dump m later in the year.i told her not to bother to wait that we should just end it now,i have accepted my faith,she has moved out and im trying to rebuild my life.my question dear nlanders was i too hasty. 2 should i have played along.i hate pretencies and hate to live a lie.3 one major issue we had was her constanty communicating with her ex bfs one of who happens to be a prominent nlander,always referring to them affectionately as 'babe','sweetheart'etc,even goin as far as using their pictures on her bb dp.im not a saint and i always acknowlege my own shortcomings as a husband and father.she treated me so badly, i feel so sad but im happy it has now come to an end.but,she has my son with her and i miss him so much.i just cant imagine him not growing up under me.so sad.sobs,

tonak:
10th january this year,my marriage to E.L finally came to an end,february 17th would have made the union 5years,it was a very turbulent marriage right from the start,filled with intrigues,drama and fast paced.quoting her ex bf,who incidentally is the reason for this break up 'may be the marriage itself was a mistake'i totally agree,E.L wasnt prepared.on that faithfull day,i overheard her discussing with her sister that she was still plannin to leave me but she wasnt sure when, she went on to tell her little sis about a particular guy,how the guy loves her and has been giving her money,wat further infuriated me was wen she said she was sure the guy would accept and take care of our 3yr old son.i immediately went in and confronted her with all i heard,she initially played dumb bt later agreed she planned to dump m later in the year.i told her not to bother to wait that we should just end it now,i have accepted my faith,she has moved out and im trying to rebuild my life.my question dear nlanders was i too hasty. 2 should i have played along.i hate pretencies and hate to live a lie.3 one major issue we had was her constanty communicating with her ex bfs one of who happens to be a prominent nlander,always referring to them affectionately as 'babe','sweetheart'etc,even goin as far as using their pictures on her bb dp.im not a saint and i always acknowlege my own shortcomings as a husband and father.she treated me so badly, i feel so sad but im happy it has now come to an end.but,she has my son with her and i miss him so much.i just cant imagine him not growing up under me.so sad.sobs,

Diamond23:
Hmmmmmmm,PROMINENT NLANDERS breaking homes....... Sorry OP!

Theyoungmatron:
The man is still living with his wife after 7 years of creating this thread. He knows he CANNOT leave the marriage because he CAN'T and the wife is still communicating with the ex........lmao

MajorJeffery:
...and na this obodo oyibo guys. In fact. I must relocate to obodo oyibo too, even if na Cotonou.

xo u wan join d League ...... Never knew Nlanders break homes too, tot it’s only on Instagram andFacebook?