I feel like sharing my experience with you guys.
I'm deeply in love with a girl and just about two months ago she relocated to another town as a result of her school. Communication between us as been good but just recently she complained to me that her phone is faulty that she is making use of her mom's phone. I promise to get her another phone and she said she just need a smaller phone. To cut the long story short, I sent her a small phone yesterday. Today I now discovered that she called her friend and told her that she just met a guy over there and that she as falling for the guy that the guy even bought her a smartphone that is bigger than mine. This girl in question each time I ask her if she is tired of our relationship she always get angry. I love her to the extent of even transferring the love to her family. But now I guess It's the right time I let go.

i agree with u... don't tell her jxt leave her 2 be dating herself

Sharply. Once a girl start seeing someone else she can even kill you sef. Run for your life!

Trust a girl to your own peril

Another man in rove

trek away man,don't look back

Ubunja, come out ooo. Another one is about to bite the dust. Coman miseducate him before it's too late.

[quote author=lilmax post=76355742]Another man in rove

trek away man,don't look back

Dude it's easier said than done especially if feelings and emotions are involved

emmaphy22:
I feel like sharing my experience with you guys.
I'm deeply in love with a girl and just about two months ago she relocated to another town as a result of her school. Communication between us as been good but just recently she complained to me that her phone is faulty that she is making use of her mom's phone. I promise to get her another phone and she said she just need a smaller phone. To cut the long story short, I sent her a small phone yesterday. Today I now discovered that she called her friend and told her that she just met a guy over there and that she as falling for the guy that the guy even bought her a smartphone that is bigger than mine. This girl in question each time I ask her if she is tired of our relationship she always get angry. I love her to the extent of even transferring the love to her family. But now I guess It's the right time I let go.

Na so dem be.just leave her to her nemesis...she go cry las for the new guy hand. Moral of the story: never give your heart to any girl.

It's just one girl, one experience. It happens to some ladies too, quit generalizing. If something doesn't work out, you get up and keep moving.

Materialistic and comparisons sported over common phone. I repeat re-evaluate the mission to avoid had I known unless you won't selling your things to keep her temporary happy. Remember you can't drive to miles on a deflating tyres

emmaphy22:
I feel like sharing my experience with you guys.
I'm deeply in love with a girl and just about two months ago she relocated to another town as a result of her school. Communication between us as been good but just recently she complained to me that her phone is faulty that she is making use of her mom's phone. I promise to get her another phone and she said she just need a smaller phone. To cut the long story short, I sent her a small phone yesterday. Today I now discovered that she called her friend and told her that she just met a guy over there and that she as falling for the guy that the guy even bought her a smartphone that is bigger than mine. This girl in question each time I ask her if she is tired of our relationship she always get angry. I love her to the extent of even transferring the love to her family. But now I guess It's the right time I let go.

Yawnnnsss.....same old, same old

emmaphy22:
I feel like sharing my experience with you guys.
I'm deeply in love with a girl and just about two months ago she relocated to another town as a result of her school. Communication between us as been good but just recently she complained to me that her phone is faulty that she is making use of her mom's phone. I promise to get her another phone and she said she just need a smaller phone. To cut the long story short, I sent her a small phone yesterday. Today I now discovered that she called her friend and told her that she just met a guy over there and that she as falling for the guy that the guy even bought her a smartphone that is bigger than mine. This girl in question each time I ask her if she is tired of our relationship she always get angry. I love her to the extent of even transferring the love to her family. But now I guess It's the right time I let go.

And you believed her friend? Whaat happened to communication? How are you sure the friend ain't jealous of her relationship with u?
D way people rush to end relationships these days eh! No b una fault Sha, na social media cause am.

Op you need miseducation

ceeroh:
Ubunja, come out ooo. Another one is about to bite the dust. Coman miseducate him before it's too late.

these Nice Guys. They are the first to defend women and hate on us.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
And you believed her friend? Whaat happened to communication? How are you sure the friend ain't jealous of her relationship with u?
D way people rush to end relationships these days eh! No b una fault Sha, na social media cause am.

Listen to this sewage.

faithfull18:
It's just one girl, one experience. It happens to some ladies too, quit generalizing. If something doesn't work out, you get up and keep moving.

must he date every girl in the world to know women are materialistic losers?

Ladies break guys heart, guys break ladies heart.
But I don't understand the incessant whinning of you guys on This forum, it's becoming too emasculated.
Move on and don't disturb our eyes with your cries, that's what ladies do.
We move on!!!

I have always said this and would continue to do so, Women don't love because of love, they would only love you cause of what you can offer in a relationship. A man can see a village girl and desides to marry her, women can't do the same for a village boy!

Women only love cause of security reasons. Its in their DNA security can come in all shapes and sizes. It could be money etc.

faithfull18:
It's just one girl, one experience. It happens to some ladies too, quit generalizing. If something doesn't work out, you get up and keep moving.

.. Hmmm?

The time and love you give to that girl, transfer it to your education or whatever it is you do right now.
You can never be late with love or women but you can with your future. Be wise.

To be honest, sometimes when I visit the romance section of nairaland and see topics or threads like this, I just weak. E makes me tired of anything relationship. I don tire for all this incessant complaining, no reference to u @op. Please someone open a thread and praise ur hubby lemme know if we still have working relationships in Nigeria.

Abortions:
Op you need miseducation

All thanks to Ubunja

lol broke weak man

MARX77:
To be honest, sometimes when I visit the romance section of nairaland and see topics or threads like this, I just weak. E makes me tired of anything relationship. I don tire for all this incessant complaining, no reference to u @op. Please someone open a thread and praise ur hubby lemme know if we still have working relationships in Nigeria.

good news no dey trend

Preshy561:
Ladies break guys heart, guys break ladies heart.
But I don't understand the incessant whinning of you guys on This forum, it's becoming too emasculated.
Move on and don't disturb our eyes with your cries, that's what ladies do.
We move on!!!

that's because you ladies don't have only one source.. you people are the greatest gamblers..
distribute pussy around till you catch the right mugu.. there are always options.. but when a guy loves.. he does it with his whole heart

They've come again!

ubunja:
must he date every girl in the world to know women are materialistic losers?

Hear yourself, including your mum and your sisters infact all the females in your generation right? So, I just broke it down for you, no hard feelings.

faithfull18:

Hear yourself, including your mum and your sisters infact all the females in your generation right? So, I just broke it down for you, no hard feelings.

When they don't know what to say

faithfull18:

Hear yourself, including your mum and your sisters infact all the females in your generation right? So, I just broke it down for you, no hard feelings.

please!! That's the oldest trick in the book. Do you have a better response??

ubunja:
GAME OF EMOTIONS.

women are emotional, men are logical: making practical use of the stereotype.

PROLOGUE
You have heard women say "I don't want just sex, I want something real!". Meaning sex on its own is not real enough for them but only when a certain something is added then it becomes "real". that something is EMOTIONS (or an emotional connection). Once an emotional connection has been made with a woman, then the sexual connection will happen soon enough. And When emotions are part of the sex then it becomes real for her. Meaning Emotions are a woman's reality.

A WOMAN'S MOST EMOTIONAL MOMENT IS ALSO A WOMAN'S WEAKEST MOMENT.
you have seen it before in your hood. a thug hollas at a girl. the girl gives him a cold shoulder. the thug insults the girl. the girl cries. the thug runs to the girl and comforts her. a minute later the two are walking down the road... talking .no more cold shoulders. no more insults. what the hell just happened, you have asked yourself? -----------> Emotional Manipulation.

a cold shoulder or indifference, is a shield a person puts up against the world, but that shield drops when the person is made emotional. when the girl on the street put her ice shield up, the thug used insults to "break the ice" (gentlemen use jokes). both approaches work because its not about making the girl feel happy or feel hurt, but about making her FEEL. the moment the girl is hurt by the thug's insults or the moment she laughs at a gentleman's jokes its GAME OVER for her. For she is FEELING. the ice has melted. The shield is down. How she feels doesn't matter because feelings by nature are temporary and can be influenced and changed.

the girl who visits you to cry on your shoulder when her father dies and the girl who visits you to celebrate a big achievement and the girl who just lost her dream job and the girl who just got diagnosed with the worst disease in medical history, will all have sex with you; the common denominator being they're all EMOTIONAL.

being emotional for a woman makes her vulnerable to dick because her "shield" (the c0ck-blocking shield) is down. a girl will fvck during a funeral as easily as she'll fvck during a wedding. its not about the ceremony but about how emotional the ceremony makes her. The more emotional she is the "easier" she will be. wherever there's an outpouring of emotion, painful or joyful, a woman's C0ck-Blocking shield will be down. To get pussy learn to hang around places that make women emotional, like Hospitals, funerals, weddings, graduations days etc...

EMOTIONAL THINKING VS LOGICAL THINKING
What Is Emotional Thinking?: it is Processing feelings not facts where the solution is not what is truthful but what feels good to the person. That's how women generally make decisions, checking how good or bad a situation makes them feel. The reason women love lies because lies are sweet but hate truth because truth hurts. With women flattery will get you everywhere.

Do Men Ever Think Emotionally? Yes: take Your choice of Presidential candidate as an example. that's an emotional decision that no amount of facts for or against him/her will ever change. Just like your favourite Football Club is "the best football club in the World" no matter how bad it plays and your tribe is the greatest no matter how small or useless it is. these are all emotional decisions that come from the heart and feelings not the mind and logic. And as such no amount of logic or facts can change them. and anyone trying to reason with you on these decisions will be wasting his time and energy because you're not prepared to be reasonable.

women are labelled Emotional Thinkers because this type of thinking (processing feelings), is their default factory setting. emotions are a woman's thought process .while men process facts, women process feelings. a woman weighs statements/situations/developments against how they make her feel, not how true they are; and a man weighs statements/situations/developments against how true they are, not how they make him feel.

You ask a man "What do you THINK of x and y" but you ask a woman "How do you FEEL about x and y". and because you ask a woman how she "feels" about things it is unreasonable to try to REASON with her. You can't reason with emotions. men consider women complicated and hard to deal with because men employ logic where logic won't work. While logic is about rationality, consistency, fairness, justice, predictability, and common sense (the male approach to the world), emotions are about HOW A SITUATION MAKES A PERSON FEEL AT THAT SPECIFIC MOMENT. regardless of whether there is justice, fairness, consistency or common sense. Hence women have a reputation for being shameless hypocrites and pushing double-standards because in everything it's about what feels good to them and to them alone.

now, men (by processing facts), see the world in black & white / good & evil/ right & wrong/ Yes & No/ 1s & 0s; while women (by processing feelings), see the world in shades of gray, where there is no absolute good or absolute evil but where everything is relative ("it depends" ). where "Maybe" is as good an answer as Yes and No.
This is all to say - with emotions, "under the right circumstances" anything is permissible. If the "emotional weight of the moment" is correct, a woman will agree to anything. Be it cheating, homosexuality, murder or suicide.

furthermore, While women think with their feelings, men "feel with their thinking". while women are guilty of being emotional in logical situations like business, men are guilty of being logical in emotional situations like relationships. Men love with their heads (their love is a decision) while women think with their hearts (their decision is a feeling). And so, to get a woman to understand something make it emotional. And to get a man to be emotional about something make it logical.

because women think with their feelings, Any problem a woman encounters, she views it through an emotional lens complicating simple things by bringing in unnecessary emotions (try working at the same company as your wife if you want headaches: "you must always take my side, I'm your woman" ) ; meanwhile, because Men are logical, Any problem a man encounters, he views it through a logical lens, making him take cold businesslike steps to solve even problems that needed an emotional touch (you cant break up via Whatsapp. Its logical, but emotionally insensitive).

THE WEAKNESS OF WOMEN
Now, because women process feelings not facts ( "guys, i don’t know how i feel about this!" ) things don’t have to be right to be accepted but they have TO FEEL RIGHT: and herein lies the weakness of women: IF SOMETHING FEELS GOOD THEN IT IS RIGHT and if it feels bad it is wrong. How many times have you heard songs by women about cheating with lyrics that go something like: "How can something that feels so good be wrong?" Or "how can something that feels so right be wrong?"
To a woman if it feels good or right, then its good and it's right.

And by the same logic, the quickest and easiest way to spoil something for a woman is to MAKE HER FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. No matter how perfect and healthy it is for her. Either by shaming her for it or straight-up bad-mouthing it.

THE LIMITS OF LOGIC.
Logic built our civilization but it is not omnipotent. It can be overthrown by emotions with so much ease. e.g When you wanna discredit a popular scientific fact you make it an emotional question: "Women are less intelligent that men?" (the truth); "how can you say such a degrading thing about your own mother and sisters!!" (The emotions) And boom emotions win as the scientist reconsiders his statement in an effort not to hurt his mama's feelings.

But perhaps the most important thing to know about logic is that Logic is a C0ck-Blocker. follow logic and you'll die a virgin because logic will always misinterpret, explain away and find an excuse to ignore Green Lights. Why? Because Green Lights by nature use logic as a defense. A Green light is never 100% sexual unless it's given by a prostitute. A girl gives you a Green Light in such a way that it can be logically explained if you shame her for it. Its how she protects herself and her reputation around prudish people. E.g "can you come fix my TV?" where "Can You Come?" is the green light and "fix my TV" is the logical reason she uses as a cover. It's "logical" because she can break the TV for real should people call her a hoe for inviting you to her place so her inviting you will be vindicated and her reputation stays intact.

And men who excel in logic: geniuses, nerds, geeks and professors are usually hopeless with women, because all the logic in the world will not help you with an emotional situation. Emotional situations require emotional solutions, just like logical situations require logical solutions. Its the reason why girls tell guys "Don’t over-think it, just do it". because men wait for things to make Logical Sense (which never happens in sex) before acting, even though things already make Emotional Sense (she just got engaged but is calling you non-stop? zero logical sense; but lots of emotional sense: she wanna use your dick to double-check her emotions concerning her fiance). a woman tests the strength of YOUR love for her by putting temptation in your path (setting you up) or by watching you deal with other women; meanwhile she tests the strength of HER own love for you by putting temptation in her own path (tasting the forbidden fruit). If After cheating with you a woman's feelings for her fiance still remain as strong as ever, then she knows those feelings are real and she'll marry him with confidence. Your dick was a litmus paper test. no matter how sweet it was, it did not make her forget her man. her feelings for him were bigger than your dick. So they must be real. She reasons.
Just like a lesbian will fvck a man to establish beyond doubt that dick ain't for her.

meanwhile, Logic is about analysing and predicting situations and problems safely from afar (e.g learning from other people's mistakes or reasoning from Cause and Effect to predict an unpleasant outcome and avoiding it); meanwhile emotions are about feeling or experiencing something first hand to form a conclusion. Emotions cant be predicted ("I will keep having sex with this guy i know i will never fall in love with him" - NO!! there is a chance your heart will surprise you and fall in love).
most women will be advised over and over about Bad Boys but still they will fall for and be hurt by the Bad Boys. Why? because Its the nature of emotions. With emotions experience is the best teacher, making women generally bad at taking advice. Women learn by experience (or personal mistakes) while men learn from other people's advice and mistakes. Men "watch and learn" from others because life and its lessons are logical and logic is predictable and men are logical. but women "experience and learn" personally because they deal with the emotions of life and emotions can't be predicted. A Man can learn sex by watching porn, but a woman must actually have sex to learn sex because it is by actual experience that she can discover what she likes or hates. Women are Emotional and emotions are feelings and feelings need to feel to discover what feels good or bad.

PREDICTABLE LOGIC; UNPREDICTABLE EMOTIONS
logic is predictable: if you run something in your mind and it makes sense, run it by another mind it will make sense also. Laws, rules, formulas etc all rely on logic. Logic is a rock, it doesn't change, making it predictable. the ever-fixed never-failing Laws of Nature make Nature the most predictable thing known to humans: what goes up must come down (the law of gravity), the higher you go the cooler it becomes (the processes of radiation, convection, turbulence etc) heat water and it will boil (the laws of thermodynamics) and so forth and so forth. It is this predictability of nature that makes it possible to cook, build, fly and forecast the weather. Similarly, If you know how a person THINKS you know that person forever. People seldom change their mind, their thought process or their way od thinking. You can predict and anticipate how that person will react in almost every situation for the rest of their life. Because how a person thinks today is how a person will think tomorrow. This is how men are predictable.
If a man tells a woman he loves her you can bet 10 years later he will still love her because his love is a DECISION unlike the love of a woman which is a FEELING.

But emotions are unpredictable: if you run something in your heart and it feels good, it doesn’t mean if you run it by another heart it will feel good also. emotional sensitivity varies from heart to heart; women being the most emotionally sensitive. Since emotions are unpredictable and because women are Creatures of Emotion no two women are the same. what works on Sandra is not guaranteed to work on Maria. One woman's pain may be another woman's pleasure.
with emotions there's no standard and no two people process emotions the same way. That is: no two people love the same way, no two people hate the same way, no two people grieve the same way, no two people revenge the same way etc. Now because of these variations, there can be no law that can be created to force people to love, hate or grieve the same way. No law to direct people to behave in a common manner in emotional matters. Where emotions rule there can be no law.

Women view logic as too rigid, too fixed and too unbending to have any fun and spontaneity with because logic is uncompromising (hence women always urge men to "lose themselves in love" or "to surrender to the moment" that is, to put a pause on their logic for once and think with the heart); on the other hand, men view emotions as too fluid, too unstable and too unpredictable to build anything of lasting value on. both are correct. logic is unchanging, making men predictable (how a person thinks today is how a person will think tomorrow) which makes men reliable in the long term because they don't change, but unspontaneous and boring in the short term because they cant compromise and "let go and enjoy the moment"; meanwhile emotions are ever-changing making women unpredictable (how a person feels today is not necessarily how a person will feel tomorrow, feelings come and go) which makes women unreliable in the long term because they are always changing, but fun and spontaneous in the short term because nothing with them is set in stone, they can " flow with the moment" and follow where the wind blows. the unpredictability of women's emotions is such that women themselves cant predict themselves and regularly end up surprising themselves ( "one thing led to another" / "i don’t know what came over me" ). with a woman and her forever-changing and unpredictable emotions you win by getting all you can TODAY while you still have her emotional goodwill and her feelings are still favourable to you; making the most of the present moment, because tomorrow the weather changes. emotions are an extremely perishable product. More perishable than milk. every moment counts and tomorrow nothing will be use-able. your goal is to keep pushing on and on TODAY - until you hear the girl say "i don’t usually do this but,...".

You exploit what is unpredictable (women/emotions) by making maximum use of it while the mood favors you. and you exploit what is predictable (men/logic) by attending to it last when you have explored other options, after all its not going anywhere and its not going to change. thats why women have men as Plan B, C and D lined up that they love one at a time. Some of these men will have their chance 10 years from now. there's no hurry with logic. Logic is like wine. Time only makes it better. You can forecast and count on logic. Thats how women save the Good Men for last (AKA Nice Guys Finish Last)

A Player wins the Game of Emotions with women because the age when a woman is at her freshest (late teens and early 20s) is also the age when her emotions are the most unpredictable to herself as well since she's discovering herself as a young woman. Knowing that, the Player catches them young. While other men cry out: "women give their best years to the Bad Boys!".
Players 1 - Emotions 0.

A Woman takes advantage of the predictability of logic to make men a reliable Landing Gear for when she wanna retire from fvcking around. She wins the Game of Logic with men because the age when a man is at his best career and financial-wise (30-35) is also the age when he's set in his ways and even more predictable than in his earlier poorer years! So having slept with dozens of men and aborted dozens of pregnancies, the woman goes through her phone book and that boring good guy with a steady job and money saved up who, for years, has wanted to wife her up and "save her" finally gets a call from her...the Nice Guy is finishing last! And himself he can't believe his luck that after so long the girl of his dreams is actually available!
Women 1 - Logic 0.

WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
because women's emotions are unpredictable even to themselves, they end up contradicting themselves when what they claim to hate today pleases them tomorrow (you cant predict how something will make you feel until you feel it), earning them the infamous reputation: Women don’t know what they want!

its a little flaw in women that a Player capitalizes on with statements like: "try this, you might like it" or "lets try it once, if you don’t like it we'll never do it again".

And true to the unpredictability of emotions, some things that his GF previously claimed to hate, she will try out and find that she now likes them. For whatever reason!

With emotions change is the only constant and the only thing predictable about them is their unpredictability.

C0CK-BLOCKING WITH LOGIC; PUSSY UNLOCKING WITH EMOTIONS.
Although Emotional Creatures, women themselves use logic for C0ck-Blocking. where logic rules sex rarely happens, remember "when a woman has beauty without brains its her private part that suffers", so a woman with brains protects her pussy. so she'll block with logical statements like "im married/ i don’t cheat/ its wrong/ i don’t know you" etc. common sense excuses.

But a Player is never logical (that's for Nice Guys) and he is never emotional (thats for Emotional Tampons). he is a cold-hearted manipulator who uses the EMOTIONAL WEIGHT OF THE MOMENT to counter: "You've an innocent face and i know you don’t usually do this but its Dec 31st baby" /" you just told me its your birthday", etc knowing Dec 31 (last day of the year), birthdays etc, are situations with "emotional weight" and that with women, the more emotional weight a moment carries the more she will do.

THE PROMISED LAND
emotions are like a steam engine, they begin cold like the water in the tank. but once the water is boiling and the steam pressure is begging to be routed to the wheels you
don’t walk away ( "it was nice talking to you, thanks for your number i will call you tomorrow morning" - NO!!! ) try your luck TODAY. Dont wait for tomorrow. tomorrow the girl will have cooled down and came to her senses and realized she dodged a bullet. once you get the steam engine boiling put the locomotive on the rails and press ahead towards the Promised Land and see how far you can go before your luck runs out.

# TheRedPill
# MGTOW

Preshy561:
Ladies break guys heart, guys break ladies heart.
But I don't understand the incessant whinning of you guys on This forum, it's becoming too emasculated.
Move on and don't disturb our eyes with your cries, that's what ladies do.
We move on!!!

who is forcing to stay if this forum irritates you?
Go to Facebook or Instagram... Oh I forgot, you don't have the looks to make it on a picture-driven site so you hide on nairaland that is words-driven. Smh.

Losers everywhere.

PrimadonnaO:
They've come again!

they never left.



I love how posts that worship women are virtually disappearing on NL



.even the White Knight losers that write sewage on our posts CANT EVEN WRITE ORIGINAL POSTS OF THEIR OWN PRAISING WOMEN

sukhothai:
that's because you ladies don't have only one source.. you people are the greatest gamblers..
distribute pussy around till you catch the right mugu.. there are always options.. but when a guy loves.. he does it with his whole heart

yes sir.

I strongly recommend you watch out for my next Miseducation called LESSONS FROM A BÎTCH it tackles this same issue of women having options.
I'm uploading tonight before midnight.