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Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 7:43pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
LordKO: I know why I'm smiling |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 7:48pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
I think the problem here is compromise not really happiness, something that will work for both of you but he's not ready to give in, probably cos you complain and nag about it too much, you don't have to leave a marriage cos of that statement, that's absurd, work on your temperament, attitude and character and see if he'll change. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Nobody: 10:32am On Apr 05, 2019 |
LordKO: Special thanks to you this has been helpful. Thanks to everyone that contributed. 1 Like |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Fhemmmy: 5:25pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
pandv: Happiness starts from you and not the other way around, when you make your happiness to revolve around someone, you are one step from being ripped apart. Make yourself happy first, discover what makes you happy and others will be able to contribute to make you happier or be able to sustain the happiness. 1 Like |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by LordKO(m): 8:46pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Lol. Forget it, clairvoyance isn't your forte. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
bukatyne: I think you should just go back to being single honestly. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by nicepoker101(m): 8:51pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
The period you stay away from of relationship with the opposite sex. That's the moment you can think normal. 2 Likes |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by thaoriginator: 8:52pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
He's right. Happiness comes from within you |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Story of naija Husband: do this so that you can become a more responsible wife. Wife: no, who are you to advise me? You are a wicked husband, you always do evil, you are a snake, you want to dominate me, I can never trust you, bla bla bla........................................ Husband: okay if you feel this way about me there is no point remaining in this marriage. We should separate. Wife: never, we are married and our marriage is not negotiable. Rather than us separating I will rather poison both of us and we will both die. Husband: this marriage is not working so why are you being unreasonable? Wife: I don't care. Rather than see you enjoying a better marriage it's better we both die. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Kay512: 8:55pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
zeb04:The sad reality of this is that this will transfer, sooner or later, to other aspects of the relationship. Another thing is, we react to situations differently and if you pay in same coin, the man can take it to his head. With just #3,500, you too can start a blog. Ask me how. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by ibkayee(f): 8:56pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
No-one owes you happiness but it's a weird thing to say, particularly coming from a partner lol |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Pragmaticman: 8:56pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Guest007:u sound like a wife material. Can I pm u pls |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Emotionss: 8:57pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Op being happy is your responsibility. No body can make you happy but yourself |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Ablechukwu(m): 9:00pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Hmmmmm. Nobody owes yuh happiness.
and whaf if the woman isn't happy after all ur good doing?
some women re naturally sadistic. 1 Like |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Emotionss: 9:01pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color] bukatyne: The choice of being happy or sad your responsibility. In the real sense of the world only you can make yourself happy. Depending on others will lead to disappointments and heart breaks. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by abbatoir(m): 9:01pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
LordKO:Quick one:is this analysis come from your personal psycology of thinking or culled from a book.. please I need an honest answer. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Fhemmmy: 9:05pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Ablechukwu: No one is naturally a sadist without a reason |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by LordKO(m): 9:06pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
abbatoir: It's a "personal psychology of thinking." |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by ggzfred: 9:06pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
http://d10.o2tvseries.com/Legacies/Season%2001/Legacies%20-%20S01E16%20(TvShows4Mobile.Com).mp4 |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by shadeyinka(m): 9:07pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
pandv:You demand for improvement not to make him happier but for your own sake?! It doesn't work like that. Appreciate his area of goodness, complement his area of badness, Overlook some areas of weakness. Encourage the good side for there is no perfect man anywhere Although, it was harsh for him to have said that. There is a natural tendency of a woman to kill love due to over familiarity. We overlook the good sides of him and allow his weaknesses to dominate and kill our joy. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by ggzfred: 9:08pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
http://d10.o2tvseries.com/Legacies/Season%2001/Legacies%20-%20S01E16%20TvShows4Mobile.Com.mp4 yr |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by abbatoir(m): 9:09pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
LordKO:I admire your good reason.. Kudos! 6 Likes |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:10pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
If it is a relationship, quit immediately. But if it is in a marriage, you don't need to quit becos of the kids. Just live your life, do the things that make you happy, and keep a good distance from such a partner, cuz if he does not care about your happiness, den why shd you care abt his? 1 Like |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by abbatoir(m): 9:11pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
LordKO:Good to know... please chat me up on 08091110234 I choose friend only based on good intelligence... being an introvert |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:14pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Apination(m): 9:18pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Very selfish, inconsiderate and stupid statement. Then what's the point of having a relationship? This is why there are so many broken homes and toxic home environment in Nigeria because that statement means you do not give a shit about what happens to them or not. That's why Parents can abdicate their responsibilities towards their families spending on frivolities and the children will grow up bitter and angry and return same favor to their parents and if it comes into limelight, it's the same people supporting this notion that would start saying they shouldn't treat their parents in such a manner. The ripple effect of such a mindset is devastating, please if that's how retarded your thinking is don't bring in more potentially angry people into this world because that's what would play out 3 Likes |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by abbatoir(m): 9:18pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Guest007:If you are not married yet... just maintain this your conviction.. Trust me.. you will attract goodness.. I mean good guy .They were rear though but available! .... words is cheap though...I hope you maintain your words |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by akiOYIBO: 9:23pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
bukatyne:Then u must be an uneducated fool. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by ganganawuj: 9:24pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
pandv: As a man, it would ve taken endless nagging to push me to the point of telling some1 I don’t owe them happiness... And I would feel relief if someone who ‘demands’ things off of me decides to call an end to the relationship for whatever reason of theirs. On to the next woman. Variety, some say, is the spice of life |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by Ablechukwu(m): 9:27pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Fhemmmy:My dear Research more. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by gerizzim: 9:27pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
D man here appears to be a blunt kinda dude and possibly more intellectually sound Dan d woman. It may be an innocent statement from the man bt was misinterpreted by the wife. D meaning the man will give to dat sentence will be entirely different if the woman is to interpret it. Dis sentence "Don't be a fool" will be interpreted differently by pple. The meaning you give to sometin dts wat Dt Tin means to you. Som persons av dis Moody and depressive disposition towards life and they think life(sombdy) owes Dem happiness. We are a separate individual bfor we attach ourself to a spouse in marriage. If you as a separate individual DNT exude happiness ,u can't get such from ur spouse even if ur spouse bcoms a comedian in the huz because of you. if u urself DNT av ur own inbuilt happiness ,u can't get such from ur spouse. We all shud carry our own happiness ND not be waiting for anoda person to mek us happy in marriage inclusive. |
Re: When He Says I Don't Owe You Happiness. Will You Still Remain In The Marriage? by watchindelta(m): 9:27pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Who care about happiness or luv in this new world. Half bake luv everywhere |
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