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My Wife Just Delivered 2weeks Ago - How Long Should I Wait / Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? / "My Boyfriend Jailed For 15 Years Abroad, Insists I Wait For Him" - 29-Year-Old (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Bbbwings: 11:22am On May 18, 2019 |
asuzor11:The guy is abroadIan. Op sees him as a getaway from this shithole. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Olorunnim: 11:22am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:My heart would start beating faster I can tell the love you had for him was deep, I have felt this way before. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Ishilove: 11:23am On May 18, 2019 |
Toks2008:Truer words have never been spoken 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Predstan: 11:23am On May 18, 2019 |
Tripitaka: Yes I’ve seen 45k at a time. Champions league second leg Barca and Liverpool 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Austineva(m): 11:23am On May 18, 2019 |
Dear, dis is a painful truth! He is no longer into u( doesn't love u anymore) or he is seeing someone better than u buh doesn't knw how to open up to u to avoid breaking ur hrt. Give him chance 4 sometimes buh always mingle with other guys in order to avoid depression. Just with time, Love will find u again. Love u 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 11:23am On May 18, 2019 |
namiji2598: Let her be! "Abroad" was probably only a "sealant". |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by sansid(m): 11:24am On May 18, 2019 |
Distance relationship is one of the most difficult things to do. I once had a lady but she had to move out of town cos are family insisted. But I didn't also move cos I was running an Msc programme then. Reluctantly, I consented and that was the beginning of the end. Not long after she moved, she began to drift. I complained and complained to no avail. She kept giving me one excuse or the other. I persevered but one day I decided to pay her a surprise visit but to my utter amazement she was not pleased. That was a shocker for me. It wasn't far anymore before i discovered 'things had fallen apart' and 'the centre can no longer hold '. Experience is the best teacher. And as far as I am concerned, if it is distance relationship,to your tent o Isreal! #icannotcomeanddie 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nobody: 11:25am On May 18, 2019 |
karma. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Offpoint: 11:25am On May 18, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble:not yet brother, not yet 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Bbbwings: 11:25am On May 18, 2019 |
Predstan:What if I tell you that lasla's we no dey more than 199, |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by MissRaine69(f): 11:25am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:Why do you feel obligated though? It would be an issue if you rubbed things in their faces. They all have been in been in not perfect situations at some point so you feeling self conscious about a matter that all women have had experienced at some point in their lives makes me wonder just a tad. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Tripitaka: 11:25am On May 18, 2019 |
Predstan:OK. But you also have to account for Guest viewing and multiple viewing by a moniker. I honestly do not think NL as up to 100k actual users 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by bankolefun(m): 11:26am On May 18, 2019 |
hello how far?? u don give am puna?? |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by MissRaine69(f): 11:26am On May 18, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble:You are so mean..... |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by MetalscrapPVT: 11:26am On May 18, 2019 |
move on |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by namiji2598: 11:27am On May 18, 2019 |
czarina:Mrs. sealant, come and seal my dick... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 11:27am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:Ok. I hope so too. #Honestly P. S Our instincts are hardly ever wrong. But then, people differ. All the best maami 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Mizwisdom(f): 11:27am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: How would you know, do you know anything about his friends or family? very risky. There should be a link in real life, get to meet his family pls 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by tabithababy(f): 11:27am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:. Why are you forcing yourself on an e-man Wake up 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Adviseasister: 11:27am On May 18, 2019 |
MissRaine69: I never rubbed it in their face. Normally I like to keep my relationship very private, but I couldn't hide those gifts you know. They may start mocking me behind my back, saying I wanted to go abroad. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Adviseasister: 11:29am On May 18, 2019 |
bankolefun: You people should stop this. We are both far away and I haven't given anyone puna. I hope to share that with him, as my husband! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by femi4: 11:29am On May 18, 2019 |
With all my posts here on nairaland, no lady has ever fall in love with me 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 11:29am On May 18, 2019 |
namiji2598:You just had to be a goat, right? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Kennydoc(m): 11:29am On May 18, 2019 |
Nnaabros: Don't say much about this cos you truly don't understand. I met my fiancée on Facebook and fell in love with her within 4 days. Within 16 days, I asked her out and she accepted. We still hadn't seen face to face. We were and still are in different countries and continents. We finally met 9 months later and got engaged. I can tell you categorically that she's the most amazing friend and partner I've ever had. I've had a previous relationship that lasted 3½ years, I have equally had a number of female friends in the past, but my fiancée beats them all hands down. I am talking from a personal experience. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by femi4: 11:30am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:but how can you fall in love with someone you ve not seen physically |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by proudly9ja(m): 11:30am On May 18, 2019 |
Dear OP, Do not listen to people saying you fell in love because the guy 'is abroad'. However, you brought the matter online and as I am sure you know, you will get all sorts of comments from people with various ages. Select the ones that give you the right advice and let others continue to talk. As per the issue at hand, there may be many reasons why this is happening. The best pieces of advice I've read here I've pasted below. Follow them. People that fell in love with someone they met online will understand the feeling lol, I get you sis, chat him up on whatsapp and ask him point blank if he is no more interested, if he reads the chat and doesnt reply immediately, forget it, he's no more interested, if he later replies with one excuse or the other or trying to twist words or situations, forget him and move on, when he sees this thread and starts to chat you up bringing everything back to normal like before, he may be genuine or not, my guess is the later, but play along to see how it goes, but start to withdraw slowly, when the communication fades away once more, which will eventually happen, do not take it to heart, you will hurt but don't let it last long, remove your mind from it and take it as one of life's lessons when it comes to love, you will be fine l want to believe that his silent treatment and conservative behaviours towards you clearly assume to show sudden signs of disinterest, perhaps he s going through some personal issues such as midlife crisis, mood swing or he is overwhelmed in comatose and maybe "work" like he says. Try and figure out what it might be and help him through it if he allows it, sometimes he just doesn't want to let u into all of his personal baggage of problems and chooses to fix it all on his own without involving you, yet it seems to be affecting your relationship with him. Let him breathe.... As for your colleagues at work, you don't owe them anything. Plus many of them would have gone through similar situations. They should support you not put you down. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by sacramento1212: 11:31am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: And so? Relationship didn't work and you don't owe anyone any explanation,case closed. So i don't see why that should bother you. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nobody: 11:31am On May 18, 2019 |
His actions speak a clear language. Move on but don't expect yourself to love someone else right away. It will take time until you can open your heart again. There is no such a thing as too much work that can be the reason for a breakdown in communication. Even if one of the partners is extremely busy, he will want to hear his girl's voice at the end of the day. 2 Likes |
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