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Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by mayoor2045(m): 11:31am On May 18, 2019 |
I want to ask you a question and must answer immediately, have you guy p*nt down? |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by iammiracle1(m): 11:32am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: OK, GL in your choice 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 11:32am On May 18, 2019 |
femi4:It happens. You just "fall in love" with the personality they exude. It may fizzle once you meet them in person. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Predstan: 11:33am On May 18, 2019 |
Tripitaka: How many thread and section do you visit on Nairaland? Minus Guest, that particular thread got more than 45k people viewing when the match was ongoing. Go back to that thread, I’m sure 100k people would have seen that thread. I’m conversant with travel section where I’ve met a lot of people around the world. Go to technology market. It’s only on this stupid romance section that u see rubbish and childish posts, insult and all that. I can guarantee u that NL has more than 1million real users. That they are active everyday is another issue on its own. Well, these people earn money everyday according to views so it doesn’t matter if one person has 30 monickers. As long as they get more than 1million views everyday, they get paid everyday 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Tripitaka: 11:33am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:Hi, you do not Ave to tell them what transpired. Just start by telling them that the guy said he won't be in the country till after 3yrs. After a while, tell them you're considering calling things off that the 'long distance' thing isn't for you. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by tosinornottosin: 11:34am On May 18, 2019 |
This is teririble |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Adviseasister: 11:34am On May 18, 2019 |
femi4: Have you seen Jesus? 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by greypencils: 11:36am On May 18, 2019 |
Initially I was interested in this case because I thought you have met him physically. You haven't met him yet and you are stressing yourself? really? Of all the guys around you physically present,people who genuinely like you, it's someone you haven't met before that you are killing yourself over? Babe, I'll be real with you. THERE IS NOTHING BETWEEN YOU GUYS UNTIL YOU PHYSICALLY SEE...When will that take place?Be specific...Ask him that question, be true to yourself. Is he willing to come and see you in Nigeria? Is he willing to marry you? You don't talk about these two things, and you claim you are in love? My dear, this thing you have for each other is going nowhere until you ask those two questions and receive definite answers. If he loves you enough, he has to promise to show up and physically show up. And even when he does, don't you ever make the mistake of giving him the cookie...BECAUSE THAT IS WHEN YOU WILL KNOW THE REAL DEFINITION OF HEARTBREAK... No one needs to tell you to move on if he doesn't show up. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by femi4: 11:37am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:Oh... he's your Jesus |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nobody: 11:38am On May 18, 2019 |
Move on baby he no longer interested. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Lotechi(m): 11:38am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:I would advice you move on. It may not be the best advice, but I'm telling you as a guys who understands the situation. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Predstan: 11:39am On May 18, 2019 |
greypencils: So I will travel from Europe to Nigeria to see a babe and she won’t give me cookie?? Lol u must be jokin 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by rayobaba(m): 11:39am On May 18, 2019 |
Book a suitable appointment with him. Tell him u observed distance btw u two. Ask him if u av done anything to offend him. Ask him if there is any issue so u two could discuss it. If he doesn't av any good excuse, don't act there. After d visit, if he doesn't change, respect urself and maintain good distance from him. If he wants u, he wl change and beg u. If he doesn't still care, Move on! Most time busy is excuse unless his nature of job is time consuming. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Adviseasister: 11:39am On May 18, 2019 |
proudly9ja: I knew they would say that, but it was never my intention. I didn't even know he was abroad from his posts. He types very "Nigerian". Most advices are saying almost same thing, move on. I think I will start working towards that. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by safarigirl(f): 11:40am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: Stop wasting your time. I was ghosted by a Nairalander some months back. He equally seized communication after he had been talking to me for a period of time. Dude was cool as well, and I thought we were going somewhere . I don't know what you thought you had, but you don't have a guy. Collect your L and move on, anybody that is too busy for you, is tired of you. Anyway, his own might be different. No need to lump all NL guys together 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by BleedTears: 11:40am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: Bab sorry but I have to tell you the truth. I don't know why everybody is shying away from it THE GUY IS GONE SO MOVE ON he is a player, he got your attention and left you heartbroken and move to the next babe you said he is flirting with. When he eventually get that one attention he will still do the same thing, domp her and look for the next victim. Get over it 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Westsida: 11:40am On May 18, 2019 |
[b]I have nothing to say. We don’t do serious anything for ourside here. We do the best thing that most women want. . But one thing I can say is don’t listen to them Feminist or people that are saying you shouldn’t wait anymore time. They jump into conclusion quickly, even without knowing anything about you 2. which is another Mental disease. They’re mostly single & are always visiting Churches. Femidicksm in Nigeria is a scam. 70% of guys are sick of relationship entirely. Listen to those that are saying patience. It won’t be for long for sure. But it’s a great tool to know whatsup in every situation. Even a trained love expert won’t tell you not to be patient. My Nigga must have been thinking some of the things that sharp guys would think.. . Even if your gonna be ending it, there’s a way to end it in peace. He might just be running some hypothesis on you, with him believing that you loved him and would be patient till he’s done with the hypothesis. Somebody up there said how can you fall in love online. Somebody said maybe he’d already promised to fly you out. Ignore em statement. Life is full of different people with different drama. That it doesn’t work for them doesn’t mean it wont work for somebody else. Some people are always believing life is revolving around them, that whatever that doesn’t be for them won’t be for another person. I have nothing to say like I said but be patient. [/b] 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Sheriman(m): 11:40am On May 18, 2019 |
czarina:Chat on Something will could together benefitted from.. DM me.. looking forward to it |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Heineken(m): 11:41am On May 18, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:damn.. People are crazy here. Atimes I go just dey laugh like mumu when I read some posts even as I dey vex o. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nobody: 11:41am On May 18, 2019 |
He has lost interest in the relationship. Let him be and you should move on. Adviseasister: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by robosky02(m): 11:41am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: Don't be carried away my dear You can't JUST fall in love on the internet You need to keep it 50 - 50 Until you practically see face to face and make a rel commitment Just be yoursel be open make friends till you find someone to marry 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Maxwelloau(m): 11:42am On May 18, 2019 |
Find out what's the real issue before u conclude |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Olorunnim: 11:42am On May 18, 2019 |
IvarTheTerrible:Why would you name your after such a man |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by poseidon12: 11:42am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: Now you are talking. I see a red flag right there with the "flirting with one female user, while ignoring my WhatsApp messages". I may be wrong but I think he has moved on. I will suggest you start looking for another relationship while leaving the door open for him to have a change of heart. I think he is just playing the field. Reduce the frequency of your messages to him. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Olorunnim: 11:42am On May 18, 2019 |
IvarTheTerrible:Why would you name yourself after such a man |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 11:43am On May 18, 2019 |
Sheriman:I don't think I'm interested in whatever it is but if it's really "important", call that number on my profile. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Imyourex(m): 11:43am On May 18, 2019 |
I think the main reason why u know that he has everything a girl needs in a man and u develop endless love for him is because he is in abroad and that there's money, if he was a simple guy who is still hustling u for no love. Women and ready made husband na 5 and 6. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Tripitaka: 11:44am On May 18, 2019 |
Predstan:You have a point. See, I have about 10 friends and colleagues offline that are nairalanders. ALL of them have alternates. Infact, one has an account for the sexuality section, another for the business section and his main account. Also, when you deactivate an account, it doesn't disappear from NL. Don't also forget that for most users, the moment they are banned, they create a new account. What about the bet9ja advertisers who create 10s of accounts on a daily? Have you ever wondered why the highest number of likes on a single post here is 2k+? If NL had over a million users, trust me, you'll be seeing 30k, 40k, 50k likes on a post, granted that everyone can't like a post. Some people create accounts for different purposes and for specific sections. That number of views you see on a thread accounts for particular users coming back multiple times to view a thread. I joined NL in 2013, since then, I've created 4 different monikers especially when I change phones and can't remember the passwords, although I've never operated alternates. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by safarigirl(f): 11:44am On May 18, 2019 |
Predstan: How can you be traveling to Nigeria from Europe because of pussy? Did they bury your destiny inside the poohsie that you will spend that kind of money for straff? Have hot babes finished in Europe that you will be traveling for intercontinental kpekus? What is really your problem in life? 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by poseidon12: 11:44am On May 18, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Very good advice. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Kayshawann: 11:44am On May 18, 2019 |
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