pocohantas:


Lmao

Thegamingorca:




Sounds bitter a whole lot of bitter
The bile is even seeping out of his ears

oohhh ibkayee what have you done

baby124:

Tell him since you both work, he will have to help out around the house as a responsible husband. Did you guys do any marriage counseling and is he really a Christian? Or he just goes to church because he wants to get married.

Madam! Don’t call your husband a lunatic! I know you are angry but it’s not good. It shows you have anger issues and you have a sharp mouth! Remember you are both from different upbringing. You have to make it work for you.

pocohantas:

Lol. I can't even vex, it is you...

ibkayee:

Lol me ke

Abfinest007:
I got no sympathy for u .what were u doing before u got to ur mid thirties .I guess u chase d serious guys away

Ugosample:


lol

what I said
is it not true

I know say naija men SOME TIMES no dey try

but you see naija women?
lmao
una no dey try for unasef too

like Kenn ygee said, we are victims of the society

that's just the summary

OkpaNsukkaisBae:




Na so....
Your friend indeed.
Please stay away from sniper

OkpaNsukkaisBae:





Na so....
Your friend indeed.
Please stay away from sniper

PRESENTATION:


haha nor be me oh

mysticwarrior:
na him friend no be him

Prompto:
You are the lunatic if you can’t wake up to warn the food for him while he did not insist you cook. I can imagine my wife tell me that. The foolish thing about your kind of person is you are barely ready to give anything to make your relationship work.

So it’s pointless telling you things to make your relationship work. When I go tru tales of ladies who do not have a single good thing to say about their husband my advice remain one n the same. If you can’t deal break up, u are lucky u do not have a kid yet, you have a justifiable reason in the fact that he beat n slaps you so break up. Chose wisely next time n also understand there’s no eldorado in marriage. It’s give n take, give n take of lots of disdain n understanding.



Until the husband shows up on NL to tell how insultive n irresponsible she is to her wife duties. This are glaring from the tone of her narration, n the tale of low sperm count does not mean a man can’t get a woman pregnant in record time.

Elesta:

I cooked rice d previous evening and I told him to please just warm it in d morning since he likes eating early, that was another problem ohmhe said, how can I b telling him to warm food.Imagine.I am living with a lunatic

dancewith:
This story is the reason why we should not believe one side of a story until both are presented

First, she was very unserious to very serious suitors when she had her youths and opportunities

Two, she boldly declared she wouldn't have married her husband if not for her age and fibroid history

Three, she is mad her husband wouldn't warm food by himself early in the morning

She can publicly call her husband names like animal, lunatic, idiot, useless etc.

In the event the husband slapped her, which she is strongly holding on to, she admitted an exchange of words between them. No one knows the manner of her talk back and if she has a sharp tongues with which she lashed at the man and added insults and abuses

I can reasonable assume you are a very abusive wife who has so much feeling of entitlement. From the word go you assumed this man is not worthwhile and not up to your usual standards, but you accepted because you couldn't do better at that point. This has likely shown in your attitude towards him. I strongly suspect you have attitude issues and feels everyone is wrong except you

I have never understood why a woman or man would secretly go through their spouse's phone records. This is a crime. You would end up angering the person involved and bringing toxicity in the relationship. And with someone like you, I can only imagine the abusive manner you handled this leading to more toxicity in the union and alienating the man further

You decided to marry him and felt you did him a favour. You probably expected him to worship you and you probably asserts way too much authority on this marriage than you should. Few men would tolerate this. And when they show this intolerance to your attitude and behaviour, you term it abuse

You are the problem here actually and it's so glaring. It's a wonder few are seeing this. Work on your attitude, your abusive manner, your character, your high headedness and overt feeling of entitlement. You do not understand what marriage and responsibilities mean and when you do have kids, your attitude would only get worse for him.

Research has shown that over 50% of women that marry late in Nigeria (from 35yrs and above) are mostly as a result of not having had suitors, but either they felt they could get better suitors and hence rejected good suitors or were themselves rejected by those previous suitors who saw them as not being wife materials . Its highly possible the rushed marriage prevented this man from seeing your bad characters not the other way round

Good luck

Mustsucceed:


You and all the people that liked your post will meet bitterness .your daughters or you will reach old age no marriage

Nonsense

Praktikals:

Its easy for you to type all the things above because you dont know how it feels for a lady to be single in her mid thirties.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:



Are you alright?
She said it loud and clear
*that she wasn't serious with the serious guys that sought for hand in marriage/relationship*
Until in her late thirties.

So we should be singing praise for her, for thinking that she control the future. For thinking that whenever she decides to be serious, she can just walk into a crowd of men and pick the one that satisfy her marital fantasy.

Timbuktuo:


It's not the end of the world. The question is why did she have to settle in her mid-thirties? They have been toasting this woman since JSS3, how come she wasn't able o pick from the thousands of guys who showed her interest before she hit 30?

If a woman values marriage, it would be wise of her to hook a partner while they are coming in rush-rush, not when market is closing and the only customers remaining are waiting for scraps. Not saying she's scrap but you should get the message.

LilMissFavvy:
Women suffer far more than men, it's because of our society.

Elesta:

it's bo I typed not boo
and I am still legally married to d idiot. until I leave him, I am on my own