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Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by lilyheaven: 11:56am On Jun 11, 2019 |
TSRC:You wanted her to hug you Youth leader 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Timbuktuo: 11:59am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Safitu: The average young woman gets hundreds of suitors yearly. If you desire marriage, you have to put yourself in environments where marriageable men frequent. You can't lock yourself up in your youth and then come out of your shell in your 30s it doesn't make sense. There is such a thing as mating strategy. Both genders would be wise to learn these strategies. One problem women today face is taking their youth for granted. It's usually a rude awakening when they wake up in their older years to realise partnering is very much about timing. |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by yoged(m): 12:01pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Abfinest007:you must be very stupid for this senseless talk. How old are you? I guess you are in your mid twenties. Don't worry. It's ahead of you as well. U na go know whatsup 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE:God will give her the right man, who will love her as the bible recommends. |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Daboomb: 12:12pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Nobody: ![]() ![]() Kai, so @Elesta don deactivate her account sharp sharp! Badt woman! Abeg, come back and tell us you have "freed' the unfortunate man from your bondage. God answers one's prayer in miraculous ways......his Mother's prayer (from the grave) on him is finally bening answered. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by joe120120(m): 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Hello family, I have a long post about my terrible marriage. Please bear with me, I just have to pour everything out because it's killing me slowly. Young lady pls marriage is not for better for worst ,it enjoyment 4ever . if ur husband don't love u anymore by ma treating u.then leave for now and have ur rest, if he later come back to u by begging ,then u have to bring those ur issue on table .u have only one life to live no duplicate . good luck |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by CTGVenturesFCT(f): 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Op have deactivated her account but i believe she will be reading with her real account so i will still say what i want to say. Madam the only issue i have with your write up is the slap. He shouldn't be hitting you no matter what. Slaps will progress to pummeling and then to ![]() Every other thing can be worked on and amendments can be made. You guys are practically still dating (i know 4 months marriage and all) so you should be knowing and studying each other. Sis, if your husband wants to eat early, give him his food and then go back to sleep. You married in your 30s so you should have plenty sense and experience fron previous relationships. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by twhy111(m): 12:25pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Whatever happen in your past is by gone so I won't blame you for that, but you can still fix the present. I'd advise you not to get pregnant for him yet self cos that will tie you down if he eventually refuse to change. Discuss with him cos your marriage is still young, so don't rush into divorce, report him to his family, Infact the two family need to discuss since he has started hitting you. Let that pastor that join you too together also know of the evil he paired you with. And should you eventually notice he did not change after all these, please flee without looking back, don't thing about what people will say. It your life and you deserve to be happy |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Psoul(m): 12:30pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
I have told people severally that God does not give wives to men. The first time he tried it in the Garden of Eden, Adam blamed God for giving him Eve. Genesis 3:11-12 Then God regretted this and vowed never to chose wives for men and He says: Proverbs 18:22 (NKJV) What God does is that He had already created in u the things u like and don't like. He has already given u wisdom to make choice as it pleases u. He has made it known to u the dangers in marrying certain kind of people. It's left for u to apply all these factors and make ur choice. Even ur most revered pastor lacks the powers to make this choice irrespective of his so called prayers. U can't marry based on only prayer. I believe when you pray to God for a wife, God's response may be, My child, do u love this person and feel u can live with him/her. Go ahead if he is ur choice. Now my question to both of you (Brother and Sister) is: Is your Pastor greater than God. Did he see better than God? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Okemadu9521: 12:34pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Johnny1013:I wanna ask for something from you bro, mind if we chat? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by NwaGodl1000(m): 12:34pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Plz my lady I have noticed that most of people advising you here are not yet married. I did almost these whole things to my woman because we only dated for just two months before we married. In one occasion I even hitted her that she was hospitalised. We were separated then that her parent took her for deliverance bcs they were shocked that their daughter could even raise hand on me first and about her 3 miscarrages. My dear, it was during those our separate times that I learnt that I have build love for her just that i was so desperate to have my own children since I have been a friend of other people's children and that we are only two left out of five we were born, I am not a wicked man even till now just that I overshadowed my reasonings with desperation to have my children since I have lost many. Today we are back n she's now pregnant for me which might be twins. Her parent now begs me for her to just pay them visit which she she often objects other than before she always run back home at any little quarrel. Just help your man and get pregnant and you will still see the angels in him. The lesson was that we both have problems. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 12:38pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Daboomb: Who takes such a lazy @ss serious? People like baby124, missR8, tonybarcanista daddytime welcomed her to a world of undiluted truth. I wish her success, hope things work out for them!! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by daddytime(m): 12:46pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
OkpaNsukkaisBae: Na people wet never see life dem fit use lies and emotional blackmail work on into bandwagonism no be akpuruka like me. I don see 99...e remain 1 %. Poor man...the man don see where online and offline... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Darling human nature creates individuals with different personality types. All women are not social birds with the confidence to put themselves in ‘marriageable places’, some are more reserved naturally and they can’t help that. This hundreds of suitors things is such a stupid exaggeration, if that was the case I’m sure every woman would be married by 25 if they had hundreds of men to pick from. You’re not a woman, so you do not understand the basic lifestyle that a woman goes through. Also putting into consideration that some women are not attractive as others, some are bigger than others, some have more issues than others, some stay at home more than others, they’re so many factors that come into play when trying to date and find a partner. Try to stop being so myopic and use your head please. Timbuktuo: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Psoul(m): 1:02pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
If I wasn't in my mid 30's and if I hadn't done fibroid operation and so, eager to take in, I won't have made this terrible mistake. We also work in the same place so everything seemed perfect. U are part of the problem. Infact u are the problem. U did not marry cos u love him. U married cos u want to run away from Menopause. Even if u enter menopause the next day after marriage, at least u have laid ur problem onto a man's head. U also married cos u wanted to test ur fertility after the fibroid surgery. Also, in ur mind, it was like weda i takes in or not, at least I have answered a married woman. U also married cos the two pastors of the two branches want to take glory on you guy's heads that they were able to match two members that were already losing faith in getting married. They performed miracle and u guy were blessed with Holy Matrimony. This is wickedness. That was the root of ur problem in that house that is not a home. |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by bukatyne(f): 1:04pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
LordKO: Still share your thoughts. Someone else could pick up and learn |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by bukatyne(f): 1:11pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
frozen70: @Bold: True. It is however possible that she has used them to do boyfriend in the past. |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by sisisioge: 1:16pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
HitSong: Nzuzu! |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by djoe21(m): 1:26pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
MissR69: Thank you for this. Op please read this over and over. |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by bukatyne(f): 1:44pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Daboomb: Hmmmmmmmm |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by desvi: 1:48pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
churchee: I am the all encompassing Goddess and Memphistophela all in one female form. ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by djoe21(m): 1:51pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
freecocoa: ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Newbreed2018: 1:52pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Newbreed2018:I see she deactivated. My fellow Adventist. |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by bukatyne(f): 2:07pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: Hmmmmmmmmm |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by tabithababy(f): 2:09pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Newbreed2018:. Are you OP's husband ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by generationz(f): 2:21pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
LordKO: Seriously lord ? ![]() |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by yvelchstores(f): 2:25pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
TSRC:be careful so u don't choke in ur arrogance. Anu |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Kwinesther: 2:40pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
TSRC:Uncle youth leader, do you know if she has a problem with her eyes, issues in her relationship or something bothering her mind? If you're a good leader why didn't to call her privately and ask her if she's okay and probably ensure she's fine? All these overly spiritual guys sef that are workers in church, moderately religious men are better than you all. Let LOVE lead!!! |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Islie: 2:41pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Newbreed2018: Seems you know more than she is painting up here |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Kwinesther: 2:45pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
TSRC:Uncle youth leader is even ready for a fight ooo SMH. I pity those who thinks all these overly religious people are better than them in God's sight. God is LOVE, let LOVE lead!!! |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Acidosis(m): 3:08pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Newbreed2018: Lol |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Timbuktuo: 3:20pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Safitu: One good reason most girls aren't considered marriageable these days is they are quick to insult, much like yourself. Most of you ladies lack grace and class. Add these personal failings to the ones you listed above and the reason for being unmarried at 30+ isn't surprising. |
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