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Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 11:16am On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: na wa for you o woman wey already dey insult her husband with different names like "akagun" (stingy koko) even while he provides and earn averagely?? I don't know this man but he would not accept that arrangement. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:20am On Jun 12, 2019 |
nahzyla: The me and my children only is one of the greatest marriage killers and possibly why men stray from the house. You have children and you forget that you are also your husband's chick/gf and focus on being a mother only, throwing all the chemistry and lust ( part of the glue that keeps a marriage together) out the window. Why would you spend only on the children and not on your husband? Are you a single mother? Or are you the typical naija chick who always collects and never gives? Funnily enough this is also why some guys say, if you want peace from your wife, knock her up.once she has pikin she will not have your time again, and you can do anything you want 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:24am On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis:na Im be say she go dey konk am steady if the man follow am ooo ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by crackhaus: 11:24am On Jun 12, 2019 |
nahzyla: You don't come off as someone who knows how to disseminate her thoughts in a straight and concise fashion. The so-called outrage or anger you're noticing is not really outrage or anger, it is a reaction to what your posts convey. I noticed it too, but I kind of felt the need to give you the benefit of a doubt by asking you to answer this: crackhaus: You ignored the question and you're here making things up in your head by feeding off what those other two chics are gossiping about. See nobody cares what you earn or if it will be more than that of your husband. You're not the first wife out-earning her husband and certainly won't be the last, so chill. If your ONLY wish was finding out how to convince your husband, then your entire post would have conveyed that thought, inadvertently causing the majority of responses to be tailored accordingly. 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by nahzyla: 11:24am On Jun 12, 2019 |
ibkayee: No be small reach. Even in my compound here all the parents are always talking of their kids as my boy or my girl or my children and never 'me and my husband/ wife children. I don't know what country some of these men live in. Thanks for ur contributions ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 11:26am On Jun 12, 2019 |
nahzyla: We want the best for you ![]() ![]() |
Re: Plans changed. by nahzyla: 11:27am On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: I won't advice him to leave his job in our present state if another job is not already on ground waiting for him. Our bases are not so far from each other and he usually has a lot of free time due to the nature of his work. I think he can still be working and take some days off in the month to come over to my new base. 4 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by ibkayee(f): 11:29am On Jun 12, 2019 |
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Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:33am On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis:Na their way na ![]() Where I use to live ehn Bro,e get this woman weh be hotshot lawyer then,e be like the hubby was out of work at the time cos me and am dey dey house wella then ![]() She dey cruise one Nissan qashqai 015 then and the hubby dey manage one beatdown 07 accord. We dey use to get monthly meetings with the landlord then,come see as the woman dey challenge everybody and even the hubby for the gathering,they hush am when e want talk till the landlord gats blast am to shut the hell up and give the hubby respect for public!unto say the old man na major baller. Every time you see the guy all moody and looks like one who has given up hope. Many women can no longer control that SUPREME feeling when they start making more money I swear! It's the truth,and if you complain ehn,she go use her connection from men in her class to put you for panti direct ![]() I hope say this madam no go do am sha 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:34am On Jun 12, 2019 |
author=ibkayee post=79255752] They are divorced now. The woman has left the house for him.she is a BIG gal, and can afford to do so. 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:36am On Jun 12, 2019 |
Every where you touch most Naija guys, naso them go dey talk "money money". I don't want your money, I have mine. I want respect, I want this, I want that. The woman say she no want your money too, she has hers. Now, tell her what you can give, something dofferent from this money that isn't even Ned or Dangote's type. You will start crying, shouting feminism and all sorts. Naija women dey try o. Though them sef no too follow, but them dey try!!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:38am On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: It also means there was probably never any love to begin with. Most naija marriage Las Las na marriage of convenience. Then again, the true test of a man and woman is not how they handle poverty, but how they handle wealth. |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 12, 2019 |
Anytime you touch Naija feminist them,them go dey shout we have our own money until e reach time to build house or commot 50m make better investment ![]() You go see them go take automatic back seat and begin to cheer from afar. ABI we have OUR OWN MONEY too na the one to stock fridge and cook soup? ![]() Money weh no be even Alakija type ![]() ![]() 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Plans changed. by tabithababy(f): 11:52am On Jun 12, 2019 |
ornicus:. ![]() ![]() Good for the foolish wife ![]() |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 11:54am On Jun 12, 2019 |
ornicus: @nwanneni This summarizes the response to your previous post. Check very well, many women did not marry for the sake of love. It's largely about the available with better financial security. When that security starts 'failing' or when they realize they can actually make that money they love so much, they unleash the demon within. The man becomes somewhat useless. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 11:58am On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: How many Nigerians have money to buy a house or make 50m investment? Do you? Having your own money is having enough to sustain the life you live, be you male/female. If you can stock your fridge and provide the basic everyday needs yourself...then you are doing fine as a NIGERIAN IN NIGERIA. The question remains, aside money, what can Naija men offer their women. If money was everything, you all should be married by now, in a country where Naija girls love money, right? So, what is happening? 6 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: Why should women marry for love? I thought the bible you all love to quote, commanded the woman to SUBMIT and the man to LOVE. There is nothing new in that. Aside money, there is little or nothing to respect MOST Nigerian men for. They know it themselves. That is why they hardly ever work on their attitude, just keep ranting on how they will make money and women will come calling. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 12:10pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Who do you this thing AntiBrutus? I think we need to talk heart-to-heart 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: Deflections. Answer the question I asked. Did your God command women to LOVE? 3 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:But you are the one that mentioned Ned and Dangote na ![]() For a while,I thought Folorunsho Alakija had hacked your NL account and was the one commenting. We ain't married because the so called independent women we keep meeting perhaps might turn out to be a ticking time bomb,the ones who will come to our houses to start competing with us,rather than contributing for our better tomorrow. That is why we are still single and perhaps,some of us may be too young to start adding marital problems to our list of problems ![]() Asides complications and a string of false standards,what can Nigerian women offer their men? 2 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by Raalsalghul: 12:23pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis:This has been a fact since 1902! ![]() Only a naive person will disagree. Reason I'm not so keen on marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
nwanneni: So only you keep meeting bad women? Why should you even want them to offer you anything? Thought you want nothing? Pele. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Plans changed. by sacx: 12:29pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Take the job and also pray for your hubby so he can get a better paying job where he is based. If that happens, maybe he can get his kids to live with him so he can offer them the better things of life, while you hold the fort from your base. You could pay them a visit like twice a month if you find the time. ![]() Ewww ![]() So do take the job, and don't see this change in fortune as an opportunity to settle scores with him. I hope you both learn to love each other. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:And only you keep meeting bad men? Asiah! ![]() |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 12:31pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: God commands us to love one another. And romantically, we all fall in love, don't we? Or falling in love to the average woman is meant for useless fruitless teenage and college relationships? When a woman falls in love, submission flows naturally. Likewise, respect, care, adoration, etc. flow naturally when a man falls in love. We struggle with these things because women have polluted their minds that marriage thrives only on money and a man without money is useless. We've become too educated and critical to allow love lead us. We forget too soon that marriage isn't even necessary and rational if we are to weigh the pros and cons from the viewpoint of commonsense. Naturally, it doesn't make sense to live with another person for the rest of our lives because our tastes are bound to change at some points. 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: Lmao. I expected this epistle. Same way God commanded them to submit one to the other. Religion and logic can never mix. 3 Likes
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Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 12:38pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Logic has ruined and still ruining many marriages. |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Acidosis: Please o ye biblical hypocrites. Spare me the sermon ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Plans changed. by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:where did I say I keep meeting bad women? You were quick to jump to hasty conclusions. |
Re: Plans changed. by Thegamingorca(m): 12:42pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: ![]() |
Re: Plans changed. by Acidosis(m): 12:42pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Lol You want to build your marriage on logic? |
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