lilmax:
A little bit

Lol what does that even mean??

It think they should not.. because it make the grow old quicker

Mizwisdom:



Good question, it's also a difficult one to answer because of course I won't be comfortable with it, but to be candid about 90% of married couples have committed abortion or will commit it during the course of their marriage because of frequent sex.

I don't think you answered my question. Also if you are concerned about unwanted pregnancy, have you heard of "family planning" before?

ecenter:
Having sex in marriage has no speculated time table but the following simple rules could help.

1. Have sex when you desire it (both party)

2. Have sex when your partner wants it but you don't feel like to having it. The bible said the man or the woman has not power over his body, meaning that when your partner needs it,give it to him or her. The only time you will say no is when you want to fast or when you are seriously sick. 1 Cor.7:3-5

3. Have sex when you want to embark on a journey that you will stay for sometime.

4. Have sex to increase your love for your partner. Sex increases the bond of love and delivers us from temptation.

In conclusion, there is no number of time created for us to have sex. It depends on the couple involved. If both of them decided to have sex everyday and they have the stamina to do so, there is nothing wrong with that. But those who feel that having sex at a limited time without causing quarrel, let it be. This issue is person by person's choice. What you love, someone may hate. Just stick to what works for you.

Spot on. The highlighted is much more applicable to the men. Many women don't realize this.

pcguru1:
All marriages eventually lead to a dead bedroom these days

I tell you bro, I tell you, I is so rampant these days

fogechi:
After reading the thread below where many people condemed the OP for looking for sex once or twice a week, i decided to open this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/5029066/wife-not-interested-sex-anymore

to me i dont see anything wrong with having sex once or twice a week.

Lets have your opinion

But you'll behave as if we gonna get it unlimited during marriage
Marriage=======Scam!

Raalsalghul:
But you'll behave as if we gonna get it unlimited during marriage
Marriage=======Scam!

Lol...not scam. Marriage is sweet

fogechi:


Lol...not scam. Marriage is sweet

How?
Wedding bills===Man
Household responsibilities ======Man
Who dies first======Man
Whom the children takes care off in old age======Man
Marriage=scam, scam, scam!

Raalsalghul:

How?
Wedding bills===Man
Household responsibilities ======Man
Who dies first======Man
Whom the children takes care off in old age======Man
Marriage=scam, scam, scam!

My brother nothing sweet pass marriage.you are seeing it one sided. As you make your marriage so it shall be.

fogechi:


My brother nothing sweet pass marriage.you are seeing it one sided. As you make your marriage so it shall be.

How is marriage sweet exactly huh?

Raalsalghul:

How is marriage sweet exactly huh?

Lets not derail the purpose of opening this thread. We can open another one to discuss that

Raalsalghul:

How?
Wedding bills===Man
Household responsibilities ======Man
Who dies first======Man
Whom the children takes care off in old age======Man
Marriage=scam, scam, scam!

Don mind her bro, you are right marriage is mostly scam these days, I'm married so I know

fogechi:


My brother nothing sweet pass marriage.you are seeing it one sided. As you make your marriage so it shall be.

This isn't true, most marriage aren't sweet, it's mostly manage manage, and couples staying because of the kids.

Simplep:
Everday

correct babe

mikkyjay:

This isn't true, most marriage aren't sweet, it's mostly manage manage, and couples staying because of the kids.

There is no doubt some marriages are facing difficulties but like i earlier as you make your marriage so shall it be.

There shouldnt be time table for sex. Sex should be as the spirit leads

fogechi:


There is no doubt some marriages are facing difficulties but like i earlier as you make your marriage so shall it be.

There shouldnt be time table for sex. Sex should be as the spirit leads

I hope the spirit leads the both parties all the time. Not when spirit dey lead only one party and the other no want.

chiteny:


I hope the spirit leads the both parties all the time. Not when spirit dey lead only one party and the other no want.

Am telling you. Its very important

ecenter:
Having sex in marriage has no speculated time table but the following simple rules could help.

1. Have sex when you desire it (both party)

2. Have sex when your partner wants it but you don't feel like to having it. The bible said the man or the woman has not power over his body, meaning that when your partner needs it,give it to him or her. The only time you will say no is when you want to fast or when you are seriously sick. 1 Cor.7:3-5

3. Have sex when you want to embark on a journey that you will stay for sometime.

4. Have sex to increase your love for your partner. Sex increases the bond of love and delivers us from temptation.

In conclusion, there is no number of time created for us to have sex. It depends on the couple involved. If both of them decided to have sex everyday and they have the stamina to do so, there is nothing wrong with that. But those who feel that having sex at a limited time without causing quarrel, let it be. This issue is person by person's choice. What you love, someone may hate. Just stick to what works for you.

Very lovely post.

Mizwisdom:
Sex should be for procreation. If you doubt me ask yourself why it leads to conception

Nah, you are not a miz wisdom

Mizwisdom:



Good question, it's also a difficult one to answer because of course I won't be comfortable with it, but to be candid about 90% of married couples have committed abortion or will commit it during the course of their marriage because of frequent sex.

And is that a problem or what exactly?

5 times a week...I don't want to say 7 fa. But why peg it, let's just do it randomly as the spirit leadeth

Simplep:
Everday

are you married? Cos we both think alike, wouldn't be a bad idea if both of us end up as uhmm, everyday things na sure for my side.

LarryBee1k:


You're the one wrong here. According to since. Love is just an animal instinct to make love with one another in order for human not to go extinct. Love is for making babies unless you decide you want to write your own abortion book lol

According to since? What is since? Love? Are you mistaking love for sex? I think you are mistaking love for sex, thread says sex not love, or am I in the wrong thread?

mysticwarrior:
are you married? Cos we both think alike, wouldn't be a bad idea if both of us end up as uhmm, everyday things na sure for my side.

Hmmmmm i have someone

LarryBee1k:


According to science sorry lol. I was typing very fast. Love is and illusion that pave way for sex to have babies simple. Lol. I followed the topic from the person that shared it. I only saw your comment and responded to it alone

"Sex should be for procreation. If you doubt me ask yourself why it leads to conception"

Hope you know science can be wrong sometimes, most of their work is just an illustration or a theory not proven 100%, they themselves know there are some things in this world beyond their capabilities and comprehension, love is not an illusion, it is an intense feeling one has for another person, and sex isnt just for procreation, it is the ability of two human to explore their bodies to their satisfaction or for procreation, of which it can lead to conception or not, simple as that.

Mizwisdom:
Sex should be for procreation. If you doubt me ask yourself why it leads to conception

In the Victorian day sex was for procreation but in the present day sex is for recreation.