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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by rayobaba(m): 7:08am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Yes. I can help her with amount that won't pain me if l later found out she maga me. If she now continue to ask me for money,......l wl RUN |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Ensquare(m): 7:08am On Jun 19, 2019 |
yes give her but don't fail to collect your share of the cake. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by obowunmi(m): 7:10am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex: Do not help her. Tell her to ask her father at home. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Damfostopper(m): 7:10am On Jun 19, 2019 |
no female comment on the first 4 pages..... is our God not a wonderful God.... op.... you owe that girl nothing 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by BIXYBABE: 7:13am On Jun 19, 2019 |
seniorgozman:it's better than stealing |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by thanknairaland1: 7:13am On Jun 19, 2019 |
have u receive help frm someone u refused to help in d year past u wanted to snach her away from another fellow man like u. she refused. now it is a crime. let me tell u, if u dont hell her God will help her and u Will b punished. some men r too emotional. am a fellow man like u. dat girl turns u down May b she doesnt want to disapoint her current man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Henry22(m): 7:22am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex: Oh she wants ur money but don't want u?....OP someone can not be working for shell and collecting salary from chevron. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by harjibola4: 7:22am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex:givers never lack my brother |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by seniorgozman(m): 7:25am On Jun 19, 2019 |
BIXYBABE:Hmm, you ask close friends not anyone that talks to you 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by poweredcom(m): 7:28am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex: If u try am ehnn remember anytin u do for a woman na loss de don't value it Just delete her number or find way Bleep her n japa 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by xana101: 7:29am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Dating her is one thing. Helping her is another. They are 2 different things. I’ve help a girl of same issue. Now she’s d one begging for a relationship with her body language but I declined 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 7:31am On Jun 19, 2019 |
she turned you down for not dating you, agreed But she didn't kill you or any of your known ones. See my brother, we are now in a world where if we are not dating, then I can't help you Dating or relationships should not be the key to helping one another. I understand she made you less a man by what she did, but have you asked yourself if it might be a. blessing in disguise? you might have end up loosing your mind if you had dated her, something so tragic might have happened to you if you had dated her see people meet for a reason in this life, intimacy and heart bonding is not the major bro my say is if you have the money, help her she'll adore you for the rest of your life Maturity is not age but what you can produce out of your age 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by ledaman: 7:40am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Some ladies has no shame @ all. You rejected a dude some yrs back, you are now asking for cash ! bros give beggers the money on the street it has more blessing than to give irresponsible girl! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Truthshurts: 7:41am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Hmmmmm I was in this shoe 2 years ago bro What I did then was.... I asked her out again... I gave myself 2 options 1. If she said yes this time.....I won’t date her and I won’t help her also but I will let her tell me reasons for not dating in the first place. If the reasons is cool I will just give her what my mind tells me. 2. If she said NO I will give her the money to help her move forward and still I will also ask her why is she not wanting to date me. That was all in the past But I have grown Money is not my problem anymore Date or no date I will just give I do things not for any reason but for future and for good will of nature What if I don’t have? God has bless me....so I must and I will bless others in need so I won’t be in need or if at all I will be....I will always see who will be there for me. That’s the truth My bro.......don’t help her as someone u know before JUST HELP her in any form u can and God will bless u. NOTE: We are not the same Just Incase u still feels u can’t or don’t want to help Send her account number to my mail. We can change this world by giving Thank u 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by franchasng: 7:43am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Op you don't have sense! ![]() A lady turned u down because she saw u not fit enough to be her boyfriend and must have accepted one broke dingbat as boyfriend who only gives her sex and fine boy levels, and now she in need and she ran to u because u are only good for giving and helping ![]() Tell her to ask her boyfriend that you just sent the money u have to your girlfriend who is also in school, that u are very sorry, and that's how a sensible young man should act. Guys stop turning yourselves to ladies' paymasters and robots they only call on when they need help, develop sense, help only the needy and downtrodden and those that love and care about you, it is not bad thing at all, she should run to her superman boyfriend ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Menzy86(m): 7:44am On Jun 19, 2019 |
No girl will ever have the guts to even meet me with such bull shit considering the circumstance of our association looks like this one narrated here. Some men will have sisters and brothers who need a token genuinely but will be wasting resources on witches. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Ubdavis(m): 7:47am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex: U may choose to help her, then try ur luck again thereafter... |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by franchasng: 7:50am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Truthshurts:whether u are a billionaire or not doesn't matter here bra, you are not supposed to help her, she doesn't need your help. Most girls see guys as mugu they can outsmart and use as they like if u don't know. So because u have money u should become unreasonable with spending money ![]() ![]() The heart of ladies and girls harbors more cunningness and evil for men than u may ever think of. That small girl u think doesn't have sense probably have sense more than the President of most nations. Doesn't she have a boyfriend or relatives ![]() We Nigerian guys make our ladies to become lazy and needy. How many Nigerian ladies help Nigerian guys ![]() Must you guys be the ones spending on ladies who still don't appreciate your helps at the end ![]() Wise up oh..... Even if I am Jeff Bezos I won't help such girl, never! Our actions as guys most times are the reasons our ladies are misbehaving and taking men for fools!?, stop Mr. Nice Guy! ![]() 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Nobody: 7:51am On Jun 19, 2019 |
oyinda1599:Lol. Typical of a lady. ![]() |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by wike54(m): 8:02am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Obainoneandonly: Poor man wey dey use zenith bank 1 Share
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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Erastuslove: 8:10am On Jun 19, 2019 |
As for me, I will give her double what she asked for... There is blessing in giving and making her know am not stingy |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by kraayfeesh(m): 8:10am On Jun 19, 2019 |
bros jus epp d poor girl if you can and if you can't nobody will prosecute you! |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Indomie001: 8:11am On Jun 19, 2019 |
The issue is that, she ll still come back later for more infact, I Fear she may eventually turn you to father Christmas � She only need to work on your emotion . 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Desystem: 8:12am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex: If she turns you down because you have no money then,if by now you have that money, don't you think she's the one who stares you to bring out the best in you? Help her if the help will not cause you any harm 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by nextnear(m): 8:12am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Davash222:on the contrary, you yourself are a plague among the good ones |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by abiolamitodun(m): 8:13am On Jun 19, 2019 |
yes u can help her if u have the money...what if she accepted to date u with pretence of loving u...do u know how much u would have spent on her.... at least she came out true to u... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by gbagyiza: 8:14am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Davash222: I don't think so. Helping someone is far different from expecting something from same person. Why do we always attached help to another thing? Most u get something from someone before u render help to him? Help is of God, because he is d one that grant us d power to help. So, if u want to help her then do so without expecting anything n if u felt u don't want to help her, don't n stop posting issues like this. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by nextnear(m): 8:20am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Davash222:But I guess you are without faults whether knowingly or unknowingly faults, just don't use your own negativity to affect others, just because she turned him down? Like its a new thing for a girl to turn a guy down with even a lie? nobody really know what she was going through when she turned him down, and by the way, the "unreasonable excuse" is what this guy mentioned, he didn't even explain the excuse itself before you made yourself judge and jury, kindly learn to be wise, don't base your assessment on assumption. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by theophiokhai(m): 8:27am On Jun 19, 2019 |
she turn's u down deosn't mean u no help...help her if u have d cash. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by nnaemeka817(m): 8:28am On Jun 19, 2019 |
If u give her a dime now, u are the real mumu kinghopex: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Ejanla07: 8:28am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex: Be sure u re chatting with the real girl.. Dem fit don hack her account, |
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