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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by NkayStory(f): 10:00am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Budline1: You are not God,therefore help can also ellude you and sure do many with your thought-process....90% of beggars on and off-line in Nigeria are MALES,let that sink in. I help anyone if i can afford it and i see that they really need help,..OFFLINE...even though i feel 90% of Nairaland males are psychopatic....This is because i have discovered i get paid back in same coins one way or another.. Therefore your not helping femakes if you can hurts no one but yourself. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by littlejoe8(m): 10:00am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex: i will advise you help her if you can because it is good to help. Forget about the past. Her refusal to date you doesn't have anything to do with helping her. It is difficult to do good but do good anyway. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by jaggedboi(m): 10:05am On Jun 19, 2019 |
If you help her you will end up showing her what she missed for not dating you.... If you dont help her she is happier not to have dated you in the first place. We should get to a point where we do good and don't expect a thank you. Pay for a pregnant lady in a bus and ask the conductor not to say anything. Pay for someones hospital bill and ask the doctor not to tell the patient. God likes these secret help and rewards in open. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by agbajor27: 10:07am On Jun 19, 2019 |
kinghopex:the only thing to consider, in my opinion, is this: you probably have been relating with this person for sometime. Now, judging from ur perception of this person, do u think she will help you if you were in her position? If yes, then help her. Otherwise, turn her down without remorse. My two cents. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Giantlady: 10:10am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Zubi85: 10:13am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Davash222:U are not helping matter wit ur comment. However, d girl is a fool to beg d Guy money. Let her go to her boyfriend and beg for money. Guy u need to wisen up. Girls don't deserve help from guys. They are very wicked. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Altern8(m): 10:15am On Jun 19, 2019 |
NkayStory: How lofty! You are accusing people of bitterness but can not see the intense bitterness in your response? I think you have to accept that you cannot and should not try to force goodwill out of anyone. You certainly don’t know how bad the rejection was. Was he ridiculed or turned down politely? My guess is as good as yours, knowing the penchant for savage replies among young ladies today. Furthermore, you should ask yourself why many young ladies feel entitled to the money of men who show the slightest interest in them. Just say hi to a babe and the next thing, you’re owing her money and other favours. In all of your nobility aren’t you fed up with that? ...Trying to justify SARS brutality because you are upset that a guy doesn’t want to be fleeced. SMH. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Unclesamo(m): 10:19am On Jun 19, 2019 |
It all depends on the Amount and your Financial status |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Davash222(m): 10:19am On Jun 19, 2019 |
NkayStory:I used to think you're wise. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by hanymasahun: 10:32am On Jun 19, 2019 |
You can. If you have but have it in mind, you do it for God sake. She turn you down for reason best know to her. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 10:35am On Jun 19, 2019 |
ChineduPeters: Exactly, she knows he still likes her and she wants to take advantage of that. He would be nothing but a mugu to her. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by NkayStory(f): 10:36am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Altern8: Yes i am bitter because the wickedness many of you imbibe transcends the issue of boy/girl relationship...It is a canker-worm consumming many of you,us and the soceity as well It is the canker-worm destroying the fabric of this pathetic nation as well those trapped in it...Many of you ignorantly fail to see how being wicked and vengeful destroys you alone and no one else...She declned your toasting 4yrs ago so what?..i ask you so what?..Must a girl date every single guy who asks her out?.. Who says YOU WONT NEED HER HELP TOO IN FUTURE?..or you think she will be a student forever?...,Are all the numerous male beggars everywhere begging money from those they are dating alone? I have been helped financially by a man i declined to date in the past cos i was too young..Well guess what? i helped his younger sister get a job in a bank 2years ago via my Sister who is a bank Manager..That is life for you!!! Yes the SARS example is very valid...Extreme wickedness embedded in many of you, playing itself out in various ways..It is a cycle. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by sharpwriter(m): 10:37am On Jun 19, 2019 |
franchasng: God bless you 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by NkayStory(f): 10:39am On Jun 19, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 10:41am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Hallenjay: Even Rudeboy sef chased that bvtch away. Lmao. Most girls aren't just nice and that's the fact. It's mostly about Oil and gas(owo epo). 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by shogsman(m): 10:45am On Jun 19, 2019 |
You can’t do matric in UI and expect convocation in LASU. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 10:45am On Jun 19, 2019 |
tunax5loon: This is exactly what I'm saying. Just a token and that's all. She's a girl and she can actually get that money elsewhere. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by lonelygem(m): 10:49am On Jun 19, 2019 |
ogbonti: So many people are extra ordinarily blessed in our society, some earn more than they actually needed. We have single guys earning as much as 400 to 500k, what do they do with it? Throw party for women and declare free beer in night clubs.. And we are always fast at crucifying and tagging women prostitutes without contributing to what should change the society.. If we all sincerely give a token with plain mind no matter how small, not poke nosing into what he or she do with it and without expecting return of any kind, there will be less prostitute in the society and we will have a better value for each other.. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 10:55am On Jun 19, 2019 |
thanknairaland1: What are you saying? Then she shouldn't ask him for money. He is not in the position for that, that is mere indiscipline. She will get that money elsewhere not from her former toaster or whatsoever he is to her. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Northkendal(f): 10:57am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Just help her and watch how God will shower you with unlimited blessings..try it! |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 11:01am On Jun 19, 2019 |
xana101: Not all will still want to date you once you give them bro. I've been in that situation before, thank God I only gave her a token to just test her, you can't believe that was the last time I heard from the girl. She felt so reluctant to even say 'thank you'. That means she would have disappeared on me just like that if I had given her the exact amount she asked for or be showing me fake love. Don't let them play you for a fool bruh. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by icyed: 11:02am On Jun 19, 2019 |
[b][/b] i can bet the female ones r hiding their moniker just to prove its not bad to help her glutonious ass out. bro,i can bet my left balls that it could be her bf typing that to you.....i hav done that in my uni days bro,she wil trap you and collect the money frm u and end up spending it TO her bf bro,once u made that payment,its not a voodoo,u go continue to dey pay till u eida tire or ur eyes go clear so its up to you. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 11:06am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Xclusivedaniel6: Adore? Hell no! You're speaking from a sensible person's point of view. You are reasonable man and I applaud you for that. You are talking about a girl who uses this same format for several other guys. These girls basically don't think like we do bro and that is a fact. Most times they only adore that guy that actually knows how to say NO politely because he's one of the few ones doing things differently. He should just help with a token and see her reaction afterwards, then he'll know who she truly is. Talking from experience. Girls are corny than y'all think... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 11:11am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Xclusivedaniel6: Adore? Hell no! You're speaking from a sensible person's point of view. You are reasonable man and I applaud you for that. You are talking about a girl who uses this same format for several other guys. These girls basically don't think like we do bro and that is a fact. Most times they only adore that guy that actually knows how to say NO politely because he's one of the few ones doing things differently. He should just help with a token and see her reaction afterwards, then he'll know who she truly is. Talking from experience. Girls are cunning than y'all think... 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by jojothaiv(m): 11:12am On Jun 19, 2019 |
2dice01:I sabi your plan... |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 11:32am On Jun 19, 2019 |
franchasng: Well said, well said bro. Exactly my thoughts and point. These guys go about preaching about maturity and being Godlike when it comes to ladies matter whereas the ladies only look them like fools. How many of these guys preaching would consider helping their fellow guys as they've turned themselves to good Samaritans when it's involving ladies. This same ladies would still rise to them and act all feminist the next day. Nigerian guys need to stop being weak and give these ladies what they actually deserve so they could learn and change. How many of the successful ladies out there are helping men or lifting men up in return in this country, y'all better use your brains because they wouldn't even help your gut if they were in your shoes. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by hybridblood07(m): 11:35am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Because she turned you down does not mean you should not assist her financially. I would say spare her little change you can afford and also make a note telling her you'd it for God. Lastly, tell her not to ask for help again because you also have a lot of responsibility to tend to... kinghopex: |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 11:37am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Budline1: bro I can't agree less with you that's why I said if he has the ability to help 1 Like |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by hybridblood07(m): 11:37am On Jun 19, 2019 |
You've spoken well. God increase your wisdom lonelygem: |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Budline1(m): 11:44am On Jun 19, 2019 |
TamiOkoroDedeh: Even a lady here understand and support that you shouldn't give her that money. Just a token would do, a token I repeat. |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by litaninja(m): 11:49am On Jun 19, 2019 |
Your mumu button is showing... 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by akaahs(m): 11:50am On Jun 19, 2019 |
ceeroh:baddest one nearly use me last year, on sensing it i just cut all form communication with her. i hate emotional tricks with passion. 2 Likes |
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